How a Cuck is made and what it entails
(Not mine, but I found this very insightful and thought to share this here.)
The comment made by the Cuck above resonates with me. He spoke of his innermost feelings. And, I believe that he spoke for many of us who have been honest with their wife or girlfriend. And, likewise for these same guys, cuckolds like me and many more, who let their partner be honest in their relationship, he spoke for every one of us.
The cuckold allows her, the most wonderful gift he can provide; for her to be honest with him, her true partner. Of course, such transparency on the part of the cuckold creates many unique and even paradoxical feelings. Cuckolds, I will venture to say most cuckolds, feel many feelings at once. And many who can’t understand the mind of a cuckold; those without a clue or those willing to believe that they control their wife or girlfriend when they truly do not; those who cannot face their own inadequacy and all those who have no clue that their woman is very unsatisfied, they will find out “the hard-way” what a bad marriage / relationship is (and it does not involve an erection).
What he described is actually bravery and total devotion. He describes how he cried and kept his word to his wife; that he was willing to agree to her receiving pleasure from another man. He looked at his own inadequacy for what it is and realized that he must stay devoted to his wife. For sure he loves this woman. And he wants to stay with her and for their marriage to continue.
This gentleman has described many of my own feelings. I too have agreed. I became willing for her to be with another man. Understanding the physical needs of my wife; I too, examined my own inadequacy and shortcomings. While it has produced much frustration within myself, I needed to focus on what is most important. And, my love and devotion for my wife must come first.
I see how many couples appear to be faithful; but, later it becomes known that they have broken-up. Maybe 50 years ago, the husband ruled and only he cheated. But today, an equal number of women cheat, if not more (much more many will say) than men. Facing reality, I knew deep inside my unsatisfied wife would be seeking sex with another guy….sooner rather than later. After years of marriage, my wife finally spoke to me with real transparency. She wanted to be with another male, sexually. She was not climaxing with me through intercourse. She named a few other issues (IE real staying power). But, the top issue was, just what I always knew and wanted to hide from, my lack of size (and thickness).
After happening upon cuckold porn, I opened a dialogue with her about whether she is satisfied or not. I read an exchange between a Cuck and a potential cuckold. He asked the potential cuckold if his wife enjoyed his small size during intercourse. The answer was that she had told him that his small size was fine, that size was not important to her, and, that she climaxed during intercourse. The Cuck, after having had conversed with him for a few moments before asking this question, saw thru this bullshit. And in no uncertain terms stated (or strongly suggested) that his wife was not being truthful.
Hearing this was a line drawn in the sand. I realized that what the Cuck stated was pure logic and was in fact, applicable to me, as well. From this, I knew that I needed to have the most honest and open talk with my wife. And I subsequently learned that she was not satisfied with our lovemaking, not on a sexual level. I so welcomed her being honest. She explained that truly she loved me from the very beginning…..from our third date. From the very first date she felt safe with me. And, she knew that she would be financially safe with me. She explained she saw how genuine I was. And she wanted me more and more as time went by. My wife told me that she expected the sex to get better and better. She had thought that our love during our marriage would merge with our lovemaking and she’d become satisfied.
Hearing this was, in-fact, traumatic. I did feel hurt. But, I knew that I needed to correct things or that she may correct things at some future point, without even asking me. My wife is very sexual and I could feel her deep need for satisfaction. With no other logical option, I was now willing to discuss her being with someone else. I knew this would not be easy for me. I knew that my initial sexual attraction to being a cuckold husband would be met with a downside. I knew that it had to be “about her” and her pleasure.
The gentleman who left the first comment spoke of jealousy and actually crying; he spoke of feeling anger and betrayal. He spoke of his 6 inch penis. I too have felt this incredible angst but my penis is only 4.5 inches (on a good day). I knew that it was key for my wife to have freedom to feel real sexual pleasure. I knew my penis was not up for this task. Facing the truth is what has allowed us to remain as husband and wife.
We agreed to particular rules. A few times, they were exceeded. And then, afterwards, we talked. I try to channel the pleasure of my wife, so that I can feel her pleasure… so that I can get pleasure from her pleasure. As well, I try to manage and be accepting of my pain…. my angst. I am willing to put aside my basic sexual feelings. These feelings involve intercourse without pleasure for her. I have entered into a most specialized and sexualized state. It has many aspects.
One of the aspects involves a martini of sweetness and bitterness; it involves feeling left-out at times; it involves an intense frustration; it includes feeling envy of the truly larger cock and balls (compared to mine) of the guy she is with; it involves my extra hard erection, the kind of erection that is very rare for the last several years when it is just us; it includes the very awkward feeling that happens when another guy is with my wife and his sense of power clearly shows, against my surrender, in fact, each and every time that I am present, or, just meet him, I can see the joy he feels as if he is taking my wife from me, and, of course, in many ways, he truly is taking her from me, at least for a while and in some cases for a while after; but, this drink includes more, it takes me down many notches and produces a very natural feeling of humiliation, or better put… feeling very humbled. Perhaps one of the most intriguing aspects is my extra hard erection. With cuckold angst comes very hard erections. Maybe this is the sign of the cuckold.
Before my wife was with another guy, after we agreed she could be; I observed her flirting at a party and at a resort. Just her flirting, created the angst and the real hard erection. Just seeing her interested in another man caused this sexual arousal.
Seeing each of these guys (at different times) interested in her, was so arousing. Seeing how their eyes always came back to her cleavage, and to her legs, felt incredible. As I watched my wife and her new friend talking and drinking together, on each occasion, from almost afar, I thought each time of her new prospect, leaning to kiss my wife briefly, and then, French Kissing her, and then kissing her breasts.
Later, at home with her we spoke about how I felt and more importantly how she felt. She told me that she enjoyed it but that she felt some guilt. I assured her it was okay and as she saw from my erection, it excited me. But, I also told her that jealousy was mixed in and I also felt the feeling of inadequacy. That night we had wonderful and the most loving sex.
We talked about the guy that night at the party and a guy at the resort (while on a holiday)... Although she only flirted with each of them; we got much excitement as we spoke about both guys; before our lovemaking, during our lovemaking and after. We had done this kind of talking, mixed into our sex, after she had flirted with the first guy. And what happened on this night simply added to our excitement. The guy at the party (earlier at the party, this night) was very good looking, tall, slim, younger than both of us and confident. My wife asked me if I thought about his size. And I explained I had. I told her that already, even without either of us seeing him naked, I envisioned him as being very large. My wife told me how appreciative she was of interest in her having a full size penis. She saw this as an act of love. From that moment onwards, I wanted to be her Cuck husband.
The comment made by the Cuck above resonates with me. He spoke of his innermost feelings. And, I believe that he spoke for many of us who have been honest with their wife or girlfriend. And, likewise for these same guys, cuckolds like me and many more, who let their partner be honest in their relationship, he spoke for every one of us.
The cuckold allows her, the most wonderful gift he can provide; for her to be honest with him, her true partner. Of course, such transparency on the part of the cuckold creates many unique and even paradoxical feelings. Cuckolds, I will venture to say most cuckolds, feel many feelings at once. And many who can’t understand the mind of a cuckold; those without a clue or those willing to believe that they control their wife or girlfriend when they truly do not; those who cannot face their own inadequacy and all those who have no clue that their woman is very unsatisfied, they will find out “the hard-way” what a bad marriage / relationship is (and it does not involve an erection).
What he described is actually bravery and total devotion. He describes how he cried and kept his word to his wife; that he was willing to agree to her receiving pleasure from another man. He looked at his own inadequacy for what it is and realized that he must stay devoted to his wife. For sure he loves this woman. And he wants to stay with her and for their marriage to continue.
This gentleman has described many of my own feelings. I too have agreed. I became willing for her to be with another man. Understanding the physical needs of my wife; I too, examined my own inadequacy and shortcomings. While it has produced much frustration within myself, I needed to focus on what is most important. And, my love and devotion for my wife must come first.
I see how many couples appear to be faithful; but, later it becomes known that they have broken-up. Maybe 50 years ago, the husband ruled and only he cheated. But today, an equal number of women cheat, if not more (much more many will say) than men. Facing reality, I knew deep inside my unsatisfied wife would be seeking sex with another guy….sooner rather than later. After years of marriage, my wife finally spoke to me with real transparency. She wanted to be with another male, sexually. She was not climaxing with me through intercourse. She named a few other issues (IE real staying power). But, the top issue was, just what I always knew and wanted to hide from, my lack of size (and thickness).
After happening upon cuckold porn, I opened a dialogue with her about whether she is satisfied or not. I read an exchange between a Cuck and a potential cuckold. He asked the potential cuckold if his wife enjoyed his small size during intercourse. The answer was that she had told him that his small size was fine, that size was not important to her, and, that she climaxed during intercourse. The Cuck, after having had conversed with him for a few moments before asking this question, saw thru this bullshit. And in no uncertain terms stated (or strongly suggested) that his wife was not being truthful.
Hearing this was a line drawn in the sand. I realized that what the Cuck stated was pure logic and was in fact, applicable to me, as well. From this, I knew that I needed to have the most honest and open talk with my wife. And I subsequently learned that she was not satisfied with our lovemaking, not on a sexual level. I so welcomed her being honest. She explained that truly she loved me from the very beginning…..from our third date. From the very first date she felt safe with me. And, she knew that she would be financially safe with me. She explained she saw how genuine I was. And she wanted me more and more as time went by. My wife told me that she expected the sex to get better and better. She had thought that our love during our marriage would merge with our lovemaking and she’d become satisfied.
Hearing this was, in-fact, traumatic. I did feel hurt. But, I knew that I needed to correct things or that she may correct things at some future point, without even asking me. My wife is very sexual and I could feel her deep need for satisfaction. With no other logical option, I was now willing to discuss her being with someone else. I knew this would not be easy for me. I knew that my initial sexual attraction to being a cuckold husband would be met with a downside. I knew that it had to be “about her” and her pleasure.
The gentleman who left the first comment spoke of jealousy and actually crying; he spoke of feeling anger and betrayal. He spoke of his 6 inch penis. I too have felt this incredible angst but my penis is only 4.5 inches (on a good day). I knew that it was key for my wife to have freedom to feel real sexual pleasure. I knew my penis was not up for this task. Facing the truth is what has allowed us to remain as husband and wife.
We agreed to particular rules. A few times, they were exceeded. And then, afterwards, we talked. I try to channel the pleasure of my wife, so that I can feel her pleasure… so that I can get pleasure from her pleasure. As well, I try to manage and be accepting of my pain…. my angst. I am willing to put aside my basic sexual feelings. These feelings involve intercourse without pleasure for her. I have entered into a most specialized and sexualized state. It has many aspects.
One of the aspects involves a martini of sweetness and bitterness; it involves feeling left-out at times; it involves an intense frustration; it includes feeling envy of the truly larger cock and balls (compared to mine) of the guy she is with; it involves my extra hard erection, the kind of erection that is very rare for the last several years when it is just us; it includes the very awkward feeling that happens when another guy is with my wife and his sense of power clearly shows, against my surrender, in fact, each and every time that I am present, or, just meet him, I can see the joy he feels as if he is taking my wife from me, and, of course, in many ways, he truly is taking her from me, at least for a while and in some cases for a while after; but, this drink includes more, it takes me down many notches and produces a very natural feeling of humiliation, or better put… feeling very humbled. Perhaps one of the most intriguing aspects is my extra hard erection. With cuckold angst comes very hard erections. Maybe this is the sign of the cuckold.
Before my wife was with another guy, after we agreed she could be; I observed her flirting at a party and at a resort. Just her flirting, created the angst and the real hard erection. Just seeing her interested in another man caused this sexual arousal.
Seeing each of these guys (at different times) interested in her, was so arousing. Seeing how their eyes always came back to her cleavage, and to her legs, felt incredible. As I watched my wife and her new friend talking and drinking together, on each occasion, from almost afar, I thought each time of her new prospect, leaning to kiss my wife briefly, and then, French Kissing her, and then kissing her breasts.
Later, at home with her we spoke about how I felt and more importantly how she felt. She told me that she enjoyed it but that she felt some guilt. I assured her it was okay and as she saw from my erection, it excited me. But, I also told her that jealousy was mixed in and I also felt the feeling of inadequacy. That night we had wonderful and the most loving sex.
We talked about the guy that night at the party and a guy at the resort (while on a holiday)... Although she only flirted with each of them; we got much excitement as we spoke about both guys; before our lovemaking, during our lovemaking and after. We had done this kind of talking, mixed into our sex, after she had flirted with the first guy. And what happened on this night simply added to our excitement. The guy at the party (earlier at the party, this night) was very good looking, tall, slim, younger than both of us and confident. My wife asked me if I thought about his size. And I explained I had. I told her that already, even without either of us seeing him naked, I envisioned him as being very large. My wife told me how appreciative she was of interest in her having a full size penis. She saw this as an act of love. From that moment onwards, I wanted to be her Cuck husband.
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