Is Personality more important than Appearance?

I do notice that for men, we are lucky, lucky in a way that in general the ladies more or less are beautiful, while the most men in the pictures are not that handsome, or we just haven´t seen them all, I don´t know.

I do know that Hans, Julliet´s husband is a handsome guy, maybe the same goes for Mark, Zuzi´s husband, but then again, he was boring, but I do know that Hans & Julliet have been with loads of couples (weird after being in this scene for over 18 years, lol) and out of all the couples they have been with, most of the women looked great (I was able to check this on a website, where couples could leave a message (validation) towards them) but then again, most men weren´t.

Now, it could be off course that or Julliet is not that picky in who she picks, or those men have something else that turns them on??? I am sure we will found out in the months to come, cause I am sure we will meet Mike & Louise.

Louise is beautiful, that is for sure, but Mike is now not for me the type of guy that I would say, “Hey he looks Ok!” SO what is it with these women that can have sex with guys that look like he does, or is personality maybe bigger then how someone looks? I do recall Hans and Julliet telling me that Mike is such a great guy, so then I asume for a woman its personality first and then how a person looks like, or would he have a big monster cock, would that make a difference?

So I asked this to my girl. What do you think? Do you think, if a man has a great personality u could have sex with him, or is appearance still the 1st choice?


(she replied) – I must say looks attract me in the first place, then the guy has to have a personaility that wins me over………but within the foursome situation, there must be a mutual 4 way attraction for it to work and all parties to be happy. For me personally big dicks don’t win me over, as i’ve always gone for quality over quantity! Its more important that the guys knows what his doing……But saying that I suppose the perfect combination would be looks, a happy and witty personaility and his sexual experience that would be win me over…………..one of the most important aspects for me personally is a guy that is unselfish and happy to please others……can’t stand guys that just want the girl to do all the work and they receive all the pleasure, and he doesn’t give her anything in return (yes I do know men like that! – luckily for me i’ve found one of the most unselfish men on earth, so lucky me!)

So to sum up I could have sex with a guy who is not attractive but his personality must shines through