My First Gay Sex....
The following is my first gay sexual experience. At the time I was married to a woman, yes I knew I was gay since Jr HS but the because of the times, my family, church - you get the idea. My wife and I were closing in on 30 years of marriage, the last 10 or so we had little or no sex. I begged off due to migraines and lower back pain. I’d jerked off to gay porn for years. This started when I was 21 when I first worked up the courage to go into a dirty bookstore just across the state line. I quickly grabbed 3 gay magazines and brought them to the counter. I’ll never forget the young man working the register, he looked at the magazines then me and said “wow!”. I think he was a new employee and likely hadn’t sold much gay porn, I’m just guessing. Once the internet happened, there was so much gay porn to just from that I disposed of my old magazines. When on the web, I looked up gay married men. At the time there was no gay marriage. The first hit was a now defunct website called the “Experience Project”. On EP, I made friends who were gay and married, like me. They suggested I check out Adam4Adam, Grindr and several other websites/apps. As a result, I’d started chatting with a number of guys on Adam 4 Adam. At the time, I was in outside sales and had an office in my home. My wife worked in the schools, so she was gone from about 7:30 - 4PM. During lunch or slow times, I’d check the A4A app to see who might be on, check messages, etc. One particular day, one of the guys I was chatting with and I started to text back and forth - on the app. This guy was 40 or so, fit and had a fairly large cock. After messaging back and forth a few times, the guy asked me if I was busy that afternoon and if not, would I like to come over? I wasn’t busy that day but was scared to death as I’d never been with a man before. The only person I’d had sex to that point was my wife, if you exclude a girlfriend I once had just after I got me first job. After heavy petting, her on me mostly, I taught her how to give a blowjob and she was extremely good at it - practice, practice, practice! She swallowed every drop of cum I’d pump out. But sex with a man, my lifelong dream, nope. Not even a mutual jackoff session or “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours”. I’d played doctor with my cousin, even had his limp cock in my mouth but we were what, 8? I didn’t suck on his cock, didn’t want his dick in my mouth too long as I was, frankly, afraid he’d piss in my mouth. Eric was a wild unpredictable k**. So I made the plunge and said I could come over. How about 1:30? Sure, I said.
He was about 20 minutes away. The 20 minute drive seemed to take forever but conversely it seemed I was at his front door in a flash. I was so nervous. If I got naked and fucked with this guy, there’d be no going back to pussy (my wife) plus I was committing adultery. That little sin kept revolving around my thoughts continually. I rang the doorbell in in a couple seconds there he was there. He never gave me his name even after I put my hand out saying, “hi, I’m Dan. In retrospect, that came off kinda strange, like I was a door-to-door salesman. The house was very nice, a small McMansion. He lived in Mequon, one of the upscale suburbs on the north south of Lake Michigan, north of Milwaukee. Doc - I’ll call him Doc going forward as he said he was a Dr at the Froedert Hospital System - was a little shorter than me or 5’9” or so (I’m about 6’2”), sandy colored hair with grey/blue eyes. I’d seen his pics online but in person he looked more attractive. Doc lead me into the kitchen area and I sat on one of the barstools. He asked if I’d like a glass of wine. Sure! I needed a little liquid courage. So nervous, I’d never done anything like this before and I told him so. Each of us had a glass of wine and we chatted. Doc was married but separated. I learned that he and his wife we’re former swingers, former as the wife had decided to swing permanently with one of the guys they’d met, so doc was alone but he had custody of his two k**s, both were currently at school. They were in the process of getting a divorce. Whatever we were about to do, we needed to be done by 4 PM. That’s when his k**s would get home. Doc knew I’d never been with a man yet and was patient and understanding from the get go. After about 5 minutes of chit chat Dr. Whoever got off his chair (he was sitting at the dining room table), came over to me, raised his lips up to mine and kissed me. It all happen like it was slow motion. I can still see him tilting his head to meet my lips. When we kissed, I finally understood about the “fireworks” because I was experiencing them and literally felt a bit lightheaded. I’d read and heard so much about people experiencing fireworks when they kissed. This was my very first gay kiss. So hot! I finally had kissed another guy and I loved it. Never felt this way with my wife or any other girl I’d kissed in the past. Doc then knelt down. I knew what was happening next. He unbuckled my belt, unsnapped my jeans, pulled my zipper down. Grabbing my belt he pulled my pants down and then my underwear. I was rock hard from the kiss. My cocked got caught momentarily on the elastic of my briefs, so when he pulled my briefs down, my cock snapped up. It made a “smack” sound when my hard penis hit my tummy. Doc took my hard cock into his mouth and starting sucking. It was so erotic. He tried going down to the root of my cock but gagged. I’m 7+ inches, so was a bit too much for him. Doc gave special attention to my cocked, sucking hard on it, probing my piss slit and flicking his tongue on the back of my glans. My precum started to flow and Doc said “you taste good”. I was in heaven. Doc then asked if I’d like to head to the bedroom. Absolutely!
We both got naked, which now that I look back on it, I wished we’d have undressed each other. Oh well, my pants and underwear were laying on the dining room floor. Naked, we both laid on top of his bed. The next detail that I remember was looking at the his cock. I was somewhat shocked in that he was uncut. The pics on A4A didn’t really show his foreskin so I was a bit surprised. I’d never seen an uncut cock before other than online or in gay porn magazines. Thinking to myself, I’m like “what do I do now - I decided to go for it. I took his cock into my mouth and started to suck, hard and fast. He went from cubby to rock hard quickly. Still, I was so nervous. Was I doing this right, too fast/too slow, was the technique ok, what about his foreskin, etc? Doc said “slow down” but in a good way, not admonishing me by any means. I backed off a bit and slowly sucked on his glans, taking as much of his shaft into my mouth as possible. I tried to deep throat him but didn’t get very far with that. I have a very strong gag reflex. So I focused my attention on Doc’s cockhead, sucking and swirling my tongue around his dark red glans, while I fondled his ball sac. Docs precum was flowing. He oozed more than I. Mine doesn’t start to flow until my cock has been stroked or sucked for several minutes. He had a nice set of hangers that was starting to retract inwards, towards his body. Doc then asked, “what would you like to do?” I told him, “I’d like to fuck you”. I wanted to be inside him, fuck his hole. He produced a condom from a nightstand and slowly rolled it onto my cock. It was quite sexy watching him cover my manhood. I got snipped after my wife and I had our second k** so I hadn’t had a condom on my cock for a long time. He also took lube out of his nightstand, applied some to my then throbbing cock and to his hole was well.
Doc then rolled onto his side. I did the same. Taking my cock in his hand, he guided my hard dick into his hole. Slowly, I penetrated him and started to thrust. I was actually fucking another man. I reached over and held him tight as we coupled. Didn’t take long until I had a problem. While fucking Doc, I started thinking about my wife and k**s, that I was cheating. I was loosing my erection so withdrew and told him what was going on, the fact that I hadn’t used a condom in a couple decades didn’t help matters either. I guess he weighed the risks and decided I was disease free as he said, “take it off”, the condom that is. I did just that and in short order, with him stoking my shaft and kneading my ball sac, I got hard again. He applied more lube on his hole and on my now, naked shaft. This time I needed no help in popped my cock head past his butt muscle and my cock inside him. I started thrusting, harder and harder, faster. It felt like heaven. I was inside a nice nice looking man (not a woman!). Holding him tight as we spooned, I felt the familiar tingling feeling start to build in my prostate. I told the doc was going to cum. I continued to thrust and was seconds away from shooting my load. To this day, I can still see what vividly what happened next, like it was in slow motion. Seconds after yelled that I was doing to cum, doc quickly twisted away from me and did so remarkably in good time as I started to shoot. Doc pulled away because, I think, he was lessening the chances of contracting HIV ( I was not +) but the main reason is he wanted my cum. Now on my knees while I was stoking my cock to keep my orgasm going, pumping as much cum out as I could. As I beat my cockhead with my hand, cum starting shooting out, in a long white streams. I was always a shooter. Masturbating while sitting on my bed, I could shoot sperm to the doorway. Looking down at doc I saw that he’d positioned himself in between my legs and was trying to catch my cum with his mouth. Doc was able to catch the first couple semen streams in midair with his mouth but missed the last 3 or 4 streams of my cum as they weren’t as forcefully ejected out of my cock, dribbling onto the sheet. I was rather amazed that he was able to do that, wasn’t expecting that at all. To this day, there are times when I’m jerking off and I think back to Doc catching my cum in his mouth. So sexy. My wife had never ever orally stimulated me to orgasm, yet alone had taken my seed into her mouth. I had always been upset with her for not wanting to get me to cum orally. I’d never told her that probably because I was secretly gay and didn’t want to force anything sexual with her. Back to the doc, whatever cum of mine he got, he didn’t share but instead swallowed down. The whole thing, this being my first gay sex, was rather surreal.
After I cum, I’m done. Finished and no longer interested in sex. Just the way I am. I didn’t ask if he wanted to have me get him off nor did he start stroking his cock to get to orgasm. Might have been bc his k**s were soon to be home from school. I’d forgotten all about that. Even so, we laid in bed a talked for a few minutes - pillow talk. In short order he mentioned his k**s were to be home soon so both he and I got dressed. Soon I was out the door. I never did get Doc’s name and I’m sure that was by intent. He likely didn’t want me to know because of his profession, k**s, etc. I could have easily Googled his address and found out but really, I didn’t care. Having anonymous sex with another guy while still married to his wife probably wasn’t good for his reputation although I wouldn’t have told a soul, me being married to a woman as well.
I never saw Doc again. I’d check A4A when I wasn’t busy but he was never on at the same time I was. We did trade a few messages. I moved on to other guys and other experiences. My guess is his divorce with his wife started heating up and likely got messy. Also, think he sold his house and moved on. My guess. Hope you enjoyed my “First Time” story. It’s all true and told to the best of my recollection now several years later.
He was about 20 minutes away. The 20 minute drive seemed to take forever but conversely it seemed I was at his front door in a flash. I was so nervous. If I got naked and fucked with this guy, there’d be no going back to pussy (my wife) plus I was committing adultery. That little sin kept revolving around my thoughts continually. I rang the doorbell in in a couple seconds there he was there. He never gave me his name even after I put my hand out saying, “hi, I’m Dan. In retrospect, that came off kinda strange, like I was a door-to-door salesman. The house was very nice, a small McMansion. He lived in Mequon, one of the upscale suburbs on the north south of Lake Michigan, north of Milwaukee. Doc - I’ll call him Doc going forward as he said he was a Dr at the Froedert Hospital System - was a little shorter than me or 5’9” or so (I’m about 6’2”), sandy colored hair with grey/blue eyes. I’d seen his pics online but in person he looked more attractive. Doc lead me into the kitchen area and I sat on one of the barstools. He asked if I’d like a glass of wine. Sure! I needed a little liquid courage. So nervous, I’d never done anything like this before and I told him so. Each of us had a glass of wine and we chatted. Doc was married but separated. I learned that he and his wife we’re former swingers, former as the wife had decided to swing permanently with one of the guys they’d met, so doc was alone but he had custody of his two k**s, both were currently at school. They were in the process of getting a divorce. Whatever we were about to do, we needed to be done by 4 PM. That’s when his k**s would get home. Doc knew I’d never been with a man yet and was patient and understanding from the get go. After about 5 minutes of chit chat Dr. Whoever got off his chair (he was sitting at the dining room table), came over to me, raised his lips up to mine and kissed me. It all happen like it was slow motion. I can still see him tilting his head to meet my lips. When we kissed, I finally understood about the “fireworks” because I was experiencing them and literally felt a bit lightheaded. I’d read and heard so much about people experiencing fireworks when they kissed. This was my very first gay kiss. So hot! I finally had kissed another guy and I loved it. Never felt this way with my wife or any other girl I’d kissed in the past. Doc then knelt down. I knew what was happening next. He unbuckled my belt, unsnapped my jeans, pulled my zipper down. Grabbing my belt he pulled my pants down and then my underwear. I was rock hard from the kiss. My cocked got caught momentarily on the elastic of my briefs, so when he pulled my briefs down, my cock snapped up. It made a “smack” sound when my hard penis hit my tummy. Doc took my hard cock into his mouth and starting sucking. It was so erotic. He tried going down to the root of my cock but gagged. I’m 7+ inches, so was a bit too much for him. Doc gave special attention to my cocked, sucking hard on it, probing my piss slit and flicking his tongue on the back of my glans. My precum started to flow and Doc said “you taste good”. I was in heaven. Doc then asked if I’d like to head to the bedroom. Absolutely!
We both got naked, which now that I look back on it, I wished we’d have undressed each other. Oh well, my pants and underwear were laying on the dining room floor. Naked, we both laid on top of his bed. The next detail that I remember was looking at the his cock. I was somewhat shocked in that he was uncut. The pics on A4A didn’t really show his foreskin so I was a bit surprised. I’d never seen an uncut cock before other than online or in gay porn magazines. Thinking to myself, I’m like “what do I do now - I decided to go for it. I took his cock into my mouth and started to suck, hard and fast. He went from cubby to rock hard quickly. Still, I was so nervous. Was I doing this right, too fast/too slow, was the technique ok, what about his foreskin, etc? Doc said “slow down” but in a good way, not admonishing me by any means. I backed off a bit and slowly sucked on his glans, taking as much of his shaft into my mouth as possible. I tried to deep throat him but didn’t get very far with that. I have a very strong gag reflex. So I focused my attention on Doc’s cockhead, sucking and swirling my tongue around his dark red glans, while I fondled his ball sac. Docs precum was flowing. He oozed more than I. Mine doesn’t start to flow until my cock has been stroked or sucked for several minutes. He had a nice set of hangers that was starting to retract inwards, towards his body. Doc then asked, “what would you like to do?” I told him, “I’d like to fuck you”. I wanted to be inside him, fuck his hole. He produced a condom from a nightstand and slowly rolled it onto my cock. It was quite sexy watching him cover my manhood. I got snipped after my wife and I had our second k** so I hadn’t had a condom on my cock for a long time. He also took lube out of his nightstand, applied some to my then throbbing cock and to his hole was well.
Doc then rolled onto his side. I did the same. Taking my cock in his hand, he guided my hard dick into his hole. Slowly, I penetrated him and started to thrust. I was actually fucking another man. I reached over and held him tight as we coupled. Didn’t take long until I had a problem. While fucking Doc, I started thinking about my wife and k**s, that I was cheating. I was loosing my erection so withdrew and told him what was going on, the fact that I hadn’t used a condom in a couple decades didn’t help matters either. I guess he weighed the risks and decided I was disease free as he said, “take it off”, the condom that is. I did just that and in short order, with him stoking my shaft and kneading my ball sac, I got hard again. He applied more lube on his hole and on my now, naked shaft. This time I needed no help in popped my cock head past his butt muscle and my cock inside him. I started thrusting, harder and harder, faster. It felt like heaven. I was inside a nice nice looking man (not a woman!). Holding him tight as we spooned, I felt the familiar tingling feeling start to build in my prostate. I told the doc was going to cum. I continued to thrust and was seconds away from shooting my load. To this day, I can still see what vividly what happened next, like it was in slow motion. Seconds after yelled that I was doing to cum, doc quickly twisted away from me and did so remarkably in good time as I started to shoot. Doc pulled away because, I think, he was lessening the chances of contracting HIV ( I was not +) but the main reason is he wanted my cum. Now on my knees while I was stoking my cock to keep my orgasm going, pumping as much cum out as I could. As I beat my cockhead with my hand, cum starting shooting out, in a long white streams. I was always a shooter. Masturbating while sitting on my bed, I could shoot sperm to the doorway. Looking down at doc I saw that he’d positioned himself in between my legs and was trying to catch my cum with his mouth. Doc was able to catch the first couple semen streams in midair with his mouth but missed the last 3 or 4 streams of my cum as they weren’t as forcefully ejected out of my cock, dribbling onto the sheet. I was rather amazed that he was able to do that, wasn’t expecting that at all. To this day, there are times when I’m jerking off and I think back to Doc catching my cum in his mouth. So sexy. My wife had never ever orally stimulated me to orgasm, yet alone had taken my seed into her mouth. I had always been upset with her for not wanting to get me to cum orally. I’d never told her that probably because I was secretly gay and didn’t want to force anything sexual with her. Back to the doc, whatever cum of mine he got, he didn’t share but instead swallowed down. The whole thing, this being my first gay sex, was rather surreal.
After I cum, I’m done. Finished and no longer interested in sex. Just the way I am. I didn’t ask if he wanted to have me get him off nor did he start stroking his cock to get to orgasm. Might have been bc his k**s were soon to be home from school. I’d forgotten all about that. Even so, we laid in bed a talked for a few minutes - pillow talk. In short order he mentioned his k**s were to be home soon so both he and I got dressed. Soon I was out the door. I never did get Doc’s name and I’m sure that was by intent. He likely didn’t want me to know because of his profession, k**s, etc. I could have easily Googled his address and found out but really, I didn’t care. Having anonymous sex with another guy while still married to his wife probably wasn’t good for his reputation although I wouldn’t have told a soul, me being married to a woman as well.
I never saw Doc again. I’d check A4A when I wasn’t busy but he was never on at the same time I was. We did trade a few messages. I moved on to other guys and other experiences. My guess is his divorce with his wife started heating up and likely got messy. Also, think he sold his house and moved on. My guess. Hope you enjoyed my “First Time” story. It’s all true and told to the best of my recollection now several years later.
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