Discussion about cum swallowing, & cum facials

I was just arguing with a feminist this morning about cum swallowing and cum facials. The conversation has me a little steamed up today. This feminist said I was making all women look bad because I love letting men cum on me... she went on to say it was degrading and filthy. Perhaps this isn't the proper place for a discussion (lol) BUT as a woman I think there is nothing more sexy than a pretty lady getting blasted with cum! I love it! What is wrong with that? Why is it degrading to all women because I like to feel sexy and turn guys on so much that they cum on me? We are all sexual beings and I see nothing wrong with having a little consentual adult fun! Although I do not call myself a feminist, I am not trying to degrade ANYONE including myself. I support womens rights and wouldn't purposely do anything to degrade or humiliate anyone, men and women alike.

I think that as a woman I have a right to do whatever I want to do with my own body, and a feminist of all people should support that. If I do not see something as degrading, then how am I being degraded?

Help me out here guys... what is wrong with me as a woman to enjoy taking cumshots???

xoxoxo
Mindy

Publié par jb-mb

il y a 9 ans

Commentaires

ou pour publier des commentaires

jb-mb Éditeur il y a 1 an

à beardedlion : I don't even see it as being submissive, I get so much pleasure from it that I feel that the guy is submitting to my desires. I will however submit in some cases to doing things that I may not get much pleasure from myself, but I submit to it because I wish for the man to also in turn to submit to things that I may want him to do that might not bring him much pleasure... but does it because I desire it.

Répondre Afficher le commentaire original

bigbeaverbill il y a 1 an

à JackITonSPEED : Good essay because it is tightly written and to the point!

Répondre Afficher le commentaire original

s1llyman il y a 1 an

if you want it there its your choice and no way degrading if you saidno i would respect your wishes and go where you wanted it it is so hot to watch ur lips wrapped around a cock and the cum to fill ur mouth thank you for shareing it

Répondre

engene55 il y a 1 an

no problem of taking a cum shots if you love cumshots go for it& your not degraded your self

Répondre

KELLY71159 il y a 1 an

Degrading? No Way!! Super erotic.. Super hot.. A wonderful and beautiful sight to behold. The ONLY thing that might make it even better is if a woman could give it in a similar way too. Can you imagine ,,,

Répondre

JackITonSPEED il y a 2 ans

Can´t believe I´m taking a break from jerking off to formulate this thought, but since I´m at it I´ll make sure not to be misunderstood. First and foremost We have to agree about the definition of the word "feminist". according to NY Times it goes as following:

"A feminist is one who believes In, and is committed to, the idea of true equality between the sexes, and that means the development of women to their fullest potential and full partnership, and participation by women in all decisions of society."

Therefor I am a man and a feminist and have been dating strong women allmost exclusively. I have been discussing my Kink for cumming in her mouth with pretty much all of my partners, and way more often than I thought it lead to finding out that we share this kink.

This being said, I can tell that the whole turn on is based on her REALLY WANTING MY CUM, just as much (if not more) than on me wanting to give it to her... Of course I can only speak for myself, but her desire for my cum is a vital part of the whole kink, which makes it a very equal and therefor feminist sex act.

You can compare it to a man eating pussy, soon as you realize he is not just doing it to please you, but is getting a real turn on out of it himself, can start to let goand grab his hair to pull him into you or sit on his face and so on...

It is all a question of the setting. Sure there are ways (and scenes) in which the woman is getting pushed towards swallowing, and of course that can be a degrading thing. In real life, if discussed beforehands this can also be part of the fantasy and part of a dominance thing. So anyways someone who calls the plain act of swallowing cum anti-feminist does literally not know what he or she is really talking about most likely .

Hope I got my point through, please excuse the typos, english is my 2nd language nd I´m a little out of practice when it comes to using it in writing.

Répondre

MoreSpunkPleez il y a 2 ans

I have always felt different feeling about it too so I've tended to not talk about what I like very much in public settings. Maybe I'm different because I actually do like cum from guys but it's what I like so I've never understood the problem. I think some people just want to be on 'team feminist' and they say whatever to fit into the that tribe. If it's not for them that's okay, they can't expect me to not like something that I like. I thought the point was for me to be empowered and do what I please.

Répondre

theorgnizer il y a 2 ans

your profile says it all...you do it because you want to do it. because you like it and it turns you on. that is the difference. You are using us

isn't that a wonderful change.

Répondre

hoshumper il y a 3 ans

There is nothing at all wrong with you, Darlin', you cannot own the problems that other people carry. You do you, and they can do them, it is just that simple. I dont speak for all, but I love giving facials, and seeing women take facials, so you have a fan here!

Répondre

bigblacktits1 il y a 4 ans

also LADIES DID YOU KNOW ACCORDING TO WORLD HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONALS THEY SAY SPERM FACIAL IS EXCELLENT SOURCE TO KEEP YOUR SKIN SOFT SMOOTH YOUNG AND PREVENT ZITS.

Répondre

bigblacktits1 il y a 4 ans

not a DAMN THING wrong with it ! cause they dont know the benefits of sperm ! LADIES DID YOU KNOW 9 OUT OF 10 HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONS SAY SWALLOWING SPERM IS GOOD FOR WOMEN'S HEALTH ! SO SWALLOW AND BON APPETIT !

Répondre

adick247 il y a 6 ans

There is absolutely nothing degrading about anything sexual as long as everyone involved is in agreement and enjoying themselves. Personally, I love women who enjoy sex, cum, and, especially being cummed on. Even more so if she likes that I'll give her a kiss with her face and body covered in cum. Enjoy yourself sexually as you like, not as some puritan tells you. Especially if she isn't playing in the mix.

Répondre

bigbeaverbill il y a 6 ans

à DeniseTV : Good comment! Sound reasons are presented in a straight manner.

Répondre Afficher le commentaire original

DeniseTV il y a 7 ans

Nothing wrong at all, Mindy. When I am in fem mode I enjoy taking cumshots. I do not consider it degrading at all. To me its part of pleasing my partner. If a guy enjoys shooting his load onto my pretty face then I will accept it. In many cases men have turned to me, a transvestite, for such things because the real women in their lives won't allow them this simple pleasure. Feminists should mind their own business. Whatever consenting adults wish to do should be between them and no one else.

Répondre

beardedlion il y a 7 ans

I commend your attitude Mindy. A submissive by choice is a wonderful part of the lifestyle.
Cheers,
Master Mark

Répondre

lovehealer il y a 8 ans

any woman should be like you

Répondre

tightasslover1 il y a 9 ans

Im late to this party but here's my opinion. To be honest, I think she's an insecure prude.
It's only degrading to someone that feels degraded, if u don't feel degraded then its not degrading. If the woman receiving the cum likes it because she likes the feeling of being degraded, then thats just her fetish, it's not degrading if it's not the intent.
I think it's more degrading to tell a women she should be cooking, cleaning or vacuuming.

Répondre

siaho il y a 9 ans

every and any sexual act is degrading when it is expected and demanded, without concern to whether the people expected to partake in it enjoy it or not.
so, if your husband EXPECTED you to take a facial, and you complied because you wanted to make him happy, it would be degrading.
but if it is something you find pleasure and enjoyment in yourself, and an act you actively do due to your own desires, it is in no way degrading, and more over, none of the feminist cunt's business.

Répondre

blackvette93 il y a 9 ans

No not degrading in the slightest. Women in the most pure sense are meant to receive sperm. I'm just fortunate to have a wife that likes to please men and have them fill her mouth with the stuff.

Répondre

rollhigh il y a 9 ans

It is only degrading to you if the man thinks your face isn't good looking enough to cum on.

Répondre

danny560 il y a 9 ans

I've never seen it as a degrading thing and that's never been my intent. I'm not interested in cumming in a woman's mouth if she's not completely thrilled by the idea.
For me it's the ultimate receptiveness when a woman consumes my sperm !
...and nothing thrills me more than a woman that lives to eat cum !

Répondre

ildtgc il y a 9 ans

If you want him to cum on you, in your mouth, or wherever, as long as everyone's okay with it there's no degradation or anything of the sort. Whatever is consensual is fine. Don't feel bad about anything. This feminist sounds like she has all sorts of power issues.

Répondre

jstar20 il y a 9 ans

I can see it being degrading if a guy just comes up and cums on your face for no reason.
But if you are sucking or jerking your man, and you make him cum, then you should have every right to have him shoot it wherever you'd like it.
After all you earned it, lol

Répondre

jb-mb Éditeur il y a 9 ans

à frozenloads : Thank you, I as well do not see taking cum as degrading. How can I be degraded if I WANT what is happening? Even if a guy who cums on me THINKS he is degrading me, the joke is on him because I do not feel degraded! Taking cum makes me feel SEXY and powerful. I've never once thought of it as degrading what-so-fucking-ever. If I didn't want it, I wouldnt do it

Répondre Afficher le commentaire original

frozenloads il y a 9 ans

nothing wrong with it if she wants it. For me, I don't even see it as degrading. Or at least that has never been what turns me on about it. It's when a hot girl really wants the cum that turns me on.

Répondre