Avatars- What woman DON"T Want

Okay after a short informal survey, I have found a few things that women don't want in an avatar. Number one on the list is....drum roll.....You guessed it....A cock, Dick, Male Love Stick, magic wand....what ever you would like to call it. So lessen #1 find something anything that is more creative than your cock or someone else cock to put on your avatar. #2 Don't use well know porn stars. Trust me women are smart enough to know it's not you and when you present these studs as yourself, you look like an idiot. #3 X hamster is a fantasy world as well as possible real world. So if you claim to have no limits....be truthful. If you have limits of any kind, put it out there. You will get more responses from women with ...yes, you guessed it again....Honesty. So guys if you like being dressed up in dresses and fucked like a woman...I promise you there is a woman out there who likes the same thing. If you are looking for a woman who likes being fucked hard in the ass...she is out there too. Presenting yourself one way and then expecting someone to change for you is just plain stupid. Taking all commits, not commit will be deleted, all input welcome
Publié par jjhrny
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gbottomd
Straight to the point and well stated - thank you.
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Juuri näin. Jos salaat fantasioitasi ja halujasi kumppaniltasi, et voita mitään muuta kuin sen, että et ikinä pääse kokemaan juttujasi kumppanisi kanssa, koska hän ei tiedä mistä pidät.
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sharp and brilliant analysis! totally true!?:smile:
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docMaxPressure
In short: Be straight about your crooked ways
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Basically I agree with everything you said.
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how's that?
juhi
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biorgium
I know my avatar is a bit odd, but I do explain it in my earliest blog. Not sure if it appeals or repels most people. I leave my age blank because I'm not looking to meet or cam with anyone, so age is irrelevant no?
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I may never return to a new profile, but I stay away from underage or no age being listed, freaks, guys to like to tribute and deface pics, and anything else which just turns me off, taken as a whole profile consideration.
AND, if I befriend someone and they become a chat pain in the ass, then they are defriended and blocked. So every day can be a new day for some of these profiles, for good or bad.
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I look at the entire profile before I decide to befriend someone or not. Avatar, pics, videos, time as member, friends, text of profile. If it is someone of interest to me, then we before friends. But if they are onsite for any length of time and still have less than a page of friends, no pics, no vids, no avatar or just a penis avatar, then why should I care to be their friend?
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excellent blog, I had a cock avatar for a long time, since I changed to a pictures of my torso, things changed dramatically, the first visual we have of one another on here is the avatar, first impressions count, if you build a solid profile..younhave plenty ofboportunity to expose ypur self fully if you intend to participate in the site .. sadly many cantveven be bothered to read a profile before asking to be added, the witers of this blog are the exception here, I do wish you both well, lovely profile, honest info.....hot content , wish there were more like you , best wishes ..B M
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CONCORDO QUE, VOCE TEM QUE SER "VERDADEIRO EM SUAS INTENSÕES", EM SEU PERFIL!!! MAS OS "AVATARES", EM TODA REGRA, EXISTE "EXCEÇÃO"..., DA MESMA FORMA QUE UM "GALO" AFASTA ALGUNS, TAMBEM ATRAEM OUTROS MAIS...!!! EM MEU "AVATAR", SOU A FOTO É MINHA MESMO..., MAS GOSTEI MUITO DA SUA MENSAGEM!!! UM ABRAÇO...,
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Here's our thing. I don't like those who have no avatar, no personal pics, no favorites, no info other than "I'm a guy and I want to fuck your wife"....our women are sharing themselves on here and so are most men...everyone should share or not take part. We dont like sharing faces either and I'd never expect anyone else to, but at least share something. If your ashamed of posting yourself nude, then go play somewhere else.
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melissa_
Well, I guess I'm the exception to the rule. I insist that all my guy friends have a cock in their avatar. In a way it is kind of me just being different for the sake of being different. But I do love the cock and if women can be absolute about not accepting cock avatars then I'll do the opposite.
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I've been using xhamster for only a few weeks and I am already sick of cock avatars, ninja invites, and private messages whose content amounts to nothing more than, "Duh...I have a penis. Your a slut. Duh...wanna do it."

Come on guys. Show me your awesome abs, strong arms, even your thrust control device...your ass. Heck make a fake film poster including you. I want to see your cock, I do, but I don't want it to introduce itself to me before you do.
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93silverado
Ahh, why does good sense always seem like comon sense? Or is just me? Oh well, nice work keepn it real.
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wildrick
My reasons for my avatar pic would be the same as that of daddy1975- wanting to retain anonymity but still wanting to have a pic that is me. I'm not so deluded as to thinking that my pic is the greatest thing known to humanity and so must be shared with all for that reason. I suppose one could argue that I could have a picture of my elbow and that would still meet my criteria of being of me and anonymous. But then showing a pic like this is completely different to what I do in day to day life and so I guess it has that appeal for me.I would rather people make a decision about me by reading the profile and perusing the vids that I like.
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Facedances
oops....
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wizerone
nicely put
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I admit I am one of those bad lonely guys who have an avatar showing their cock! omg ... :wink:
My only justification is, I love the pic because of the way this adorable woman sucks my cock in that pic so that was the best blowjob I ever had, and I can assure you, I had a few :wink: at least! Maybe you would all understand I couldn't put the picture into a family album so I put it here to remember the dirtiest bj I ever had. Will you forgive me? :wink:
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smoker5145
I use my whole naked body as an avatar. Does that qualify as a cock pic? Why not show everything including your face? If someone I know sees me then they are into porn as much as I am.
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this is so true!
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johnsmokeslave
so true!

I also add this blog on my fav blogs

thank you
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HORYTHECLOWN
maybe I'm not into big dick avatars becouse I don't have a BIG dick.
But I do have a powder driving ass and I'm Looney
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Can't say it better!!
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Well I am one of those guys who has a picture of there cock as my avatar. The reason for this is I want the pic to be of me and not a fake but I'm not happy showing my face. Due to what my wife and I like and not wanting anyone I know knowing what we like that is why I have a cock pic.
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7senses
the only pity is: those people who don't "have" the time to make a solid profile won't "have" any time to read this either.. :grinning:
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I think there hot
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kjman421
ok, i can understan this. i guess my question is does everyone want to read 10 pages in that little bio space on every ones profile, since we need to be honest and list everything we like and don't, and what we are looking for? i'm not trying to be sarcastic or anything, i'm serious. i think just listing important stuff, turn ons/offs, etc, in a good paragraph or 2 is nice, to get the interest of the reader and its easy to ask or tell when prompted. because i will tell you there are still alot of people that don't read profiles at all, they just go by the avatar pic, which was another point your brought up. i can't say much about that, as the pic i have is not mine, but i have never claimed it was either.
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crazyhillbilly
amen no truer words have been spoken Honestly is always appreciated in this environment.

BTW does wanting to try getting anal with a strap on make you Gay? I sure hope not
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kycouple
i so totally agree with this
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