Shemales, Pre-Op Transgender..AKA Chicks with DIck

Why are so many men draw to Shemales. I see where more and more men are showing interest in pre-op transgender women. Well I guess I should say women in transition. I think the draw is or the impression given is that a woman in transition will do the things sexually that most women won't. Most men want sexual act that so many women find appalling or at least less enjoyable than their male partners. Things such as blow jobs on the subway, ass licking, anal, swallowing( I have no idea why we care where our cum goes, but we do)and shemales seem like think these acts are acceptable. Truth being I have never had a sexual encounter with such a person, I really don't know if even the assumption is true. I would love to hear the opinions of a shemale/ pre-op transgender person. I being a very kinky extremely open minded non gay man, wonders how I would react to having what seemingly is a gorgeous woman approach me, and things get hot and heavy and we end up at a private place. Then I find out she has a cock. What would I do. What most men would claim to do is, throw a fit and kick her out....or not. Lets face it some of these women in transition have beautiful faces, breast and shapes. I know that the religious infested society we live says that taboo sex is a sin, but what about pleasure and happiness. Why can't we just have sex be for fun and pleasure with out labels. In my case, I just don't find men sexually appealing. Yes I like anal sex giving and receiving, but have no desire to be touched by another man. Now if most men a visual, would that change my mind at the moment....I just don't know... Really want every ones in put.
Ramblings of a mad man....