DADDY BOY PORN : A NEW TREND?
I was away from Xhamster for about a year. Now I’m back, I have noticed several changes, but the one that struck me most is this : out of the top four channels by number of subscriptions, no less than… three (!) are mostly producing intergenerational porn (“ Family Dick”, ‘BarebackMeDaddy”, “Mormonboyz”). The number is still four out of the top ten when adding “Older4me”; outside of “Bare Twinks”, most other big studios produce intergenerational stuff at various extents. I guess the same pattern applies to other tubes as well.
I can hardly believe it. This happens to be exactly the kind of porn I always was into, believing it until now to be an eccentric niche in which I was the specialist on Xhamster. Well, maybe I was just a pioneer? I actually had noticed that my posts with the largest age gaps were, more often than not, the one getting the most views. But that impression is now confirmed by these figures, to my own amazement… and delight! Just take a look at the “most viewed” charts and you’ll see for yourself. As for me, many questions and thoughts come to mind.
1°) End of sectarianism : Alright, since being gay is being attracted to the same, it sounds fair enough that twinks have sex with twinks, bears with bears etc. That's still pretty much how it is. Sure, the “twin effect” of two guys the same age is empowering, as they walk proudly proudly, dressed almost the same with similar haircuts and beards. But at the other end of the spectrum, there is also the hunger for the similar yet opposite, the sizzling contrast and clash between the bodies and minds of two males of different ages, such as twinks and bears.
2°) Change of image : if there ever was an image of daddy boy relationships, it was the seedy cliché of the old cruiser looking for fresh meat, hooking up hapless youngsters expecting financial reward. Not that such unhealthy power games no longer exist. But we are now beyond that, and light is now shed on the positive side, that of an energetic win win deal. There is now evidence that a sizeable number of young males have strong physical urges for their older counterparts, and are not in it for the money. The chemistry on many of the best clips is obvious enough.
3°) Something coming up? I’m not deluding myself into thinking “daddy boy” sex has become mainstream. It just happens to have become the number one fantasy of male on male porn viewers, just as leather and bdsm were for a long time, without becoming actually mainstream either. It remains restricted to the world of fantasy for most, and for instance, the now plentiful gay themed cinema has not yet embraced intergenerational stuff, with all its unexplored psychological aspects. But the popularity of intergenerational porn might be the forerunner of something on the way with a wide impact.
And what would such an impact be? I was always intrigued by a historical fact : what the modern Western society just tolerates was actually institutional in Greek and Roman Antiquity. It was a natural and standard phase of a man's education. Younger ones were to be be coached and mentored by older ones, and sex and feelings were part of it. That was actually called “pederasty”, a word that sounds much nastier today than the now mundane but highly ambiguous “daddy boy”. So not exactly a new trend, but rather an ancient one being rediscovered. Now that manhood is challenged by vengeful feminism more than ever before in human history, it was time for a good dive back to its basics.
In the frankly gender unequal societies of yore, females were there to ensure procreation. Being a male was simply superior, and hence just more desirable. But male homosexuality had strict rules though. It was shameful for grown men to have sex with their likes, and most shameful for them to bottom (this rings a bell to me, as I find the sight of a mature man bottoming somewhat depressing). These societies have been landmarks of civilization, Alexander the Great and Julius Caesar were not exactly sissies, and if decline finally occurred, it still took centuries. Since this golden age, older/younger pairings have been a regular occurence throughout history, while remaining undercover like the rest of same sex affairs. Until the modern world underwent a sexual revolution, which I believe hasn't yet come to full maturity.
What would it be like for real if "daddy boy" affairs became mainstream again? It's still hard to picture, but I can't help trying. Let's look at the characters of the modern porn daddies and boys whenever you have sort of a plot. Like real life father figures, the daddies can be bossy, dominant, punisher types; they are also coaches and teachers; they may as well be protective and caring, but mostly maintain a gruff sound male comradeship with their younger mates, rather than romantic infatuation. As for boys, they are logically fairly immature, but yearn for the manhood of their daddies like candy, and enjoy all the attention they get from them. This is actually close to the actual truth, just very sketchy. Daddy boy affairs do exist for real, not just one night stands, not always as unequal as you would expect. Even if most don't last, there are potent energy transfers involved, and when boy meets dad, both can be strongly impacted by each other. It would be fascinating to explore all this chemistry more into details.
When you watch the current daddy boy videos, it is striking to notice how fit you have to maintain yourself, if you want to make it to the daddy side. Wrecks don't stand a chance, and having sex long is a strong motivation for men not to give up on themselves. What young males look after in mature ones is something to look up to, be it physically or mentally. OK, most of them work out, but more often than not, they tend to be unstable and messy with their lives, not to mention the widespread substance abuse. At the back of their mind, they are well aware of what they may want to become in twenty years or more. And what better role model is there for them to emulate, than a well maintained daddy who believes in their potential? You thought daddy boy relationships were about kink and exploitation? Beg your pardon, they can also seriously shape the boys up. Their positive and healthy educational role they often play remains unfairly underrated.
Having been through such experiences myself, I can look at mentoring from both sides. I feel sad for Peter Pans, because there careers are bound to be short. Don't let all my mean macho jokes about boys fool you, deep down I couldn't be more serious about the topic. I believe a daddy’s task is not to use a youth as a mere plaything, but turning him into an aspiring daddy himself. It is for instance a common trend in the leather community that subs are gradually trained to become doms. In the Mormonboyz videos, the whole action evolves about initiation rituals that evolve about the idea of promotion. Which actually means than when the mentoring has come about, the relationship does not maintain itself. It is an aspect that may be not easy to accept, but what is ephemeral is even more potent. And in the best cases, upgrade you to a more complete person each and every new time.
I actually read with interest the bio of Kristofer Weston (or Westin), who precisely followed that path, turning from sub to dom, from boy to daddy. He was a pup working for Zeus studios throughout all his twenties. When you see him now, in the Mormonboyz vids for instance, you would hardly imagine. But who knows better how to please a boy than the one who’s been a boy before? Just watch this.
https://xhamster.com/videos/fifty-shades-of-white-10665322
Don’t just look at their bodies, look at their eyes too. So many things are there that words cannot convey. The steady erection of Logan Cross and his tears of ecstasy in the end would be hard to fake.
I can hardly believe it. This happens to be exactly the kind of porn I always was into, believing it until now to be an eccentric niche in which I was the specialist on Xhamster. Well, maybe I was just a pioneer? I actually had noticed that my posts with the largest age gaps were, more often than not, the one getting the most views. But that impression is now confirmed by these figures, to my own amazement… and delight! Just take a look at the “most viewed” charts and you’ll see for yourself. As for me, many questions and thoughts come to mind.
1°) End of sectarianism : Alright, since being gay is being attracted to the same, it sounds fair enough that twinks have sex with twinks, bears with bears etc. That's still pretty much how it is. Sure, the “twin effect” of two guys the same age is empowering, as they walk proudly proudly, dressed almost the same with similar haircuts and beards. But at the other end of the spectrum, there is also the hunger for the similar yet opposite, the sizzling contrast and clash between the bodies and minds of two males of different ages, such as twinks and bears.
2°) Change of image : if there ever was an image of daddy boy relationships, it was the seedy cliché of the old cruiser looking for fresh meat, hooking up hapless youngsters expecting financial reward. Not that such unhealthy power games no longer exist. But we are now beyond that, and light is now shed on the positive side, that of an energetic win win deal. There is now evidence that a sizeable number of young males have strong physical urges for their older counterparts, and are not in it for the money. The chemistry on many of the best clips is obvious enough.
3°) Something coming up? I’m not deluding myself into thinking “daddy boy” sex has become mainstream. It just happens to have become the number one fantasy of male on male porn viewers, just as leather and bdsm were for a long time, without becoming actually mainstream either. It remains restricted to the world of fantasy for most, and for instance, the now plentiful gay themed cinema has not yet embraced intergenerational stuff, with all its unexplored psychological aspects. But the popularity of intergenerational porn might be the forerunner of something on the way with a wide impact.
And what would such an impact be? I was always intrigued by a historical fact : what the modern Western society just tolerates was actually institutional in Greek and Roman Antiquity. It was a natural and standard phase of a man's education. Younger ones were to be be coached and mentored by older ones, and sex and feelings were part of it. That was actually called “pederasty”, a word that sounds much nastier today than the now mundane but highly ambiguous “daddy boy”. So not exactly a new trend, but rather an ancient one being rediscovered. Now that manhood is challenged by vengeful feminism more than ever before in human history, it was time for a good dive back to its basics.
In the frankly gender unequal societies of yore, females were there to ensure procreation. Being a male was simply superior, and hence just more desirable. But male homosexuality had strict rules though. It was shameful for grown men to have sex with their likes, and most shameful for them to bottom (this rings a bell to me, as I find the sight of a mature man bottoming somewhat depressing). These societies have been landmarks of civilization, Alexander the Great and Julius Caesar were not exactly sissies, and if decline finally occurred, it still took centuries. Since this golden age, older/younger pairings have been a regular occurence throughout history, while remaining undercover like the rest of same sex affairs. Until the modern world underwent a sexual revolution, which I believe hasn't yet come to full maturity.
What would it be like for real if "daddy boy" affairs became mainstream again? It's still hard to picture, but I can't help trying. Let's look at the characters of the modern porn daddies and boys whenever you have sort of a plot. Like real life father figures, the daddies can be bossy, dominant, punisher types; they are also coaches and teachers; they may as well be protective and caring, but mostly maintain a gruff sound male comradeship with their younger mates, rather than romantic infatuation. As for boys, they are logically fairly immature, but yearn for the manhood of their daddies like candy, and enjoy all the attention they get from them. This is actually close to the actual truth, just very sketchy. Daddy boy affairs do exist for real, not just one night stands, not always as unequal as you would expect. Even if most don't last, there are potent energy transfers involved, and when boy meets dad, both can be strongly impacted by each other. It would be fascinating to explore all this chemistry more into details.
When you watch the current daddy boy videos, it is striking to notice how fit you have to maintain yourself, if you want to make it to the daddy side. Wrecks don't stand a chance, and having sex long is a strong motivation for men not to give up on themselves. What young males look after in mature ones is something to look up to, be it physically or mentally. OK, most of them work out, but more often than not, they tend to be unstable and messy with their lives, not to mention the widespread substance abuse. At the back of their mind, they are well aware of what they may want to become in twenty years or more. And what better role model is there for them to emulate, than a well maintained daddy who believes in their potential? You thought daddy boy relationships were about kink and exploitation? Beg your pardon, they can also seriously shape the boys up. Their positive and healthy educational role they often play remains unfairly underrated.
Having been through such experiences myself, I can look at mentoring from both sides. I feel sad for Peter Pans, because there careers are bound to be short. Don't let all my mean macho jokes about boys fool you, deep down I couldn't be more serious about the topic. I believe a daddy’s task is not to use a youth as a mere plaything, but turning him into an aspiring daddy himself. It is for instance a common trend in the leather community that subs are gradually trained to become doms. In the Mormonboyz videos, the whole action evolves about initiation rituals that evolve about the idea of promotion. Which actually means than when the mentoring has come about, the relationship does not maintain itself. It is an aspect that may be not easy to accept, but what is ephemeral is even more potent. And in the best cases, upgrade you to a more complete person each and every new time.
I actually read with interest the bio of Kristofer Weston (or Westin), who precisely followed that path, turning from sub to dom, from boy to daddy. He was a pup working for Zeus studios throughout all his twenties. When you see him now, in the Mormonboyz vids for instance, you would hardly imagine. But who knows better how to please a boy than the one who’s been a boy before? Just watch this.
https://xhamster.com/videos/fifty-shades-of-white-10665322
Don’t just look at their bodies, look at their eyes too. So many things are there that words cannot convey. The steady erection of Logan Cross and his tears of ecstasy in the end would be hard to fake.
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