Big Mistake

The biggest mistake some people make is that they keep justifying themselves to others, they keep trying to explain to others why they say what they say, why they do what they do, why they choose what they choose.
They keep trying to explain how they think and feel to people who don't really SEE/HEAR them, don't understand them, and aren't willing to make an effort to understand them.
The simple fact that certain people don't understand you, that you feel the need to justify yourself to them over and over again, should tell you something about those people and your relationship. The simple fact that certain people do not understand you, that you have to justify yourself to them over and over again, is clear evidence that they are not on the same wavelength as you, that you do not resonate and that you are letting yourself be dragged down vibrationally, just to keep them in your life.
I hear so many people tell me that they want to attract love and abundance into their lives… How are you going to attract love and abundance if you are hurting yourself by continuing to stay with people who do not listen to you, do not hear you , I do not understand you? This is not love!
At some point you will have to love yourself enough to stop letting yourself be pulled down energetically and see yourself on your way, at your own pace, to your highest potential! (Phil Good)