Licking her right
Lesson No. 1 Pussies are like snowflakes. No two are alike. They all want attention in different ways. Your girl now isn't necessarily gonna like what your last girl liked. Lesson No. 2 Never make her kitty your first target on her body. Make her other parts warm and happy first before you drop in at the Y. Lesson No. 3 Start Slow. If your girl is ready for you to start blessing her kitty, start by just a soft flat tongue there. Be still. Let her feel the warmth of your tongue before you do anything else. Lesson No. 4 Even if she's a grown woman, even if she's been married twice before, there's a good chance that she's never had her kitty rocked right. If you do her right, you may end up with a friend for life. Are you ready for this? The emails, the phone calls, the late night texts, the glances across the street. This is a big responsibility. Know what you're getting into. Lesson No. 5 You might think you know a woman's body, but do you really know her there? Get a book. Go online. Find a picture of her sacred lady parts. Understand where the clit really is. That thing is sensitive. Crazy sensitive. Understand that it is under a hood and nestled between her inner lips to protect it. Know this map like you know the street where you grew up. Lots of men don't have a clue. Lesson No. 6 Make her wait. Don't dig right in. Kiss, nibble, lick between her thighs, on her mound, all around for a while. Heighten the anticipation, then, and only then make first contact with the kitty. You'll know what I mean when you hear that little gasp that she makes. Lesson No. 7 We're dudes. When it starts feeling good, we want to go harder, faster. We want to bust that nutt. Women don't work that way. If you have a groove going, and you know she's feeling it, don't change a thing. Don't go harder, faster, different. Lesson No. 8 The Smell. Man up. Its not bad. Some women have a stronger scent than others. But it's a very womanly smell. Some people suggest that there are pheromones in a woman's odor. One woman I knew had a very full musky scent, not at all bad, but potent. But it was kind of sexy. When we'd make out, one whiff of her love honey would give me wood in an instant. Lesson No. 9 How to tell when you're giving it to her right. She reaches down and plays with your hair. Grabs your head and pulls you in. She doesn't even know she's doing it. Lesson No. 10 Every woman has a magic spot on her clit that is her magic spot. Some women may enjoy more attention to the left or right side, upper or lower. But one magic spot not to be neglected is the underside of the shaft of her love bud. This is a cool spot to hit, because you can run your tongue from the opening of her coochie, up her love lips to the underside of the clit, and you might find she's damned sensitive there. Lesson No. 11 Women need to get out of their heads if they're going to let go. While you're blessing her kitty with your lips and tongue, caress her entire body with your hands. While she's gonna be enjoying it, you're going to love the way those breasts feel in your hands as she's starting to get off. Lesson No. 12 How long is this going to take? As short as 2 or 3 minutes to maybe 20. But its not a race. Relax. A lot of women get into bed obsessing that they're not going to cum. But if she senses your confidence and skill as a headsman, she'll cum faster, and stop thinking about why she's not cumming. Give it to her right this time and watch how much faster, and better she cumms next time. Lesson No. 13 Don't go after her clit like a cat lapping at a bowl of milk. Use your tongue to massage and tease it. Slow swirls with the soft tip of your tongue around her clit will get to her much better attacking it like a machine. Lesson No. 14 This always amazes me. Your manhood has about 2000 nerve endings. Your woman's clit has over 8000 nerve endings! Its this incredibly sensitive tiny thing that serves no purpose other than giving pleasure. Lesson No. 15 Navigating in the dark. You'll probably never see a clitoris anywhere near as large as those in the pics that you see in porn. Normally they're tiny little things, despite how much pleasure they can give a woman. Here's some advice how you can always find her love bud, even in the dark. Assuming she's lying on her back, start by placing the tip of your soft tongue at the opening of her vagina, then trace slowly upward in the little groove between her love lips to where her love lips join together. If her clit is awake and aroused you'll feel this little firm nub, and probably hear her gasp when you hit the jackpot. Its sexy the way it feels against your tongue, and if you're treating her right, you will feel it get firmer and start to slightly throb as she gets into what you're doing to her. Lesson No. 16 Why bother? Statistics show that 70% of women can't orgasm from penetration. They need direct clitoral stimulation. Plus its damned fun to watch your woman get off. Lesson No. 17 Listen to what her body is telling you. Listen with your ears, eyes and hands. If you're giving it to her right, you'll hear it in her breathing. Touch her on her hips, stomach and breasts, and you'll feel her muscle tone change when she's feeling you. Watch her nipples get that harder than hard look. Watch as she closes her eyes, then gets that agony and ecstasy look on her face. Some women rock their hips in a sexy motion. When a woman gets closer to c******, her inner puzzy lips will darken and get full and swollen. If you're good at what you're doing, you can feel her kitty lips pressing against your lips as you're doing your thing. A woman's sexual response is incredibly sexy, and it doesn't get any better than when you're eating her just right. Lesson No. 18 The Prize It's all about flow. Stimulate her and you'll get her heart pounding, and her flowing. Give her a soul shaking orgasm, and the best thing of all happens. She'll get this creamy wetness inside, and this soft full feeling that's like nothing else. Yes its sexy as hell to see her have a great orgasm, but there's that selfish thing of how amazing she'll feel when it's your turn to enter her. All that flow is going to cause things to get all engorged inside. You can completely change the the way her puzzy feels. Nothing feels better than a woman who's just had the most intense orgasm of her life. And that's a win-win for both of you. Lesson No. 19 Eat her like you have music in your mouth. Get a groove. Get a sexy rhythm. Make sure she feels it, then stick with that groove until you make her melt.