Karyme Kummz

Guys pay close attention and ladies let me know if I speak the truth.   My Husband and I have been a part of this community for almost now and we LOVE it. We consider ourselves to be an attractive couple, but there are some men and women on this site that are breathtaking and belong in professional porn and modeling. We like this community because despite our averageness, there is always somebody who appreciates our content and sexuality.  Thats extremely flattering and a bit of a confidence boost.   However, we recently published a video that has received a very positive response but wasnt shot in a way that wasnt very flattering to to my husbands very average size dick [even though I have seen much smaller on this site] Since he is too much of a man to get into a silly pissing contest and say anything. I will.    Mixed in with the overwhelmingly positive response, there have been a few comments along the lines of; Duuuhh my cock is so much bigger Deeerrrrrrrrrrr you deserve a bigger cock  Lets set aside the obvious rudeness that doesnt belong in this wonderful community and I will clue you in on what REALLY turns women on and gets them off HARD. Pleasing a woman is as simple as TURNING HER ON to begin with.  Penis size means little to nothing, all you need to make a woman squeal and act like your personal whore is:   MANLINESS!!!!!!!!   Its a long and complicated subject I know, but, manliness consists of 4 main categories:   CONFIDENCE: This one is obvious. The first time I saw my husband I found him to be somewhat good looking, but he was surrounded by about some half a dozen women who most men would consider to be out of their league.  I joined the group and introduced myself, much to the dismay of the other girls. We were in a popular country bar [this is Texas] and I was irritated when one of the girls in the group grabbed him while WE were talking, and said, breaks over and he preceded to take her out on the floor and twirl her around like a little rag doll while she giggled from start to finish.  Between the strutting, the dancing, the happy girl, the confidence in his movement, his 6foot6 broad shouldered frame, the hat, the boots and the tight jeans[I grew up in Chicago] my pussy instantly gushed at the sexiest thing I have ever seen before or since, and a grown man[my 19th birthday was the week before] who was good looking in a very average way and had a bit of a belly instantly became the hottest guy in the building.  I wanted to go next and as I started to approach, one of the other girls said I had to wait my turn.  I watched, as these women who could have had any guy in the bar waited in a SINGLE FILE LINE for their turn to dance with my future husband. I even saw two sisters get into a little shoving match over their place in line. This went on ALL NIGHT! The poor bastard barely ever got a break before some greedy little bitch would grab him.  Yet, when he did have a bit of a break, he had this way, of making myself and the other 5-7 girls feel like she was the only one he was paying any attention to.  THAT gentleman [I use that term sparingly] is confidence.  Confidence is NOT randomly telling women how big or how hard your dick is.  Its not telling them how hard youre going to fuck them. Its not telling them that yours is better, bigger or mightier.  Its not telling them anything. Its showing them it is weather it is or not, regardless looks, actual size, body type etc. Comments like oooh girl ima fuck you so hard or deerrrrrrrr check out my dick might work from time to time in a shear numbers game, even a broken clock is right twice a day, but it really wont get you anywhere beyond trolling the internet for what ever pussy you can get. A real man does not need to get lucky or get laid The game you think you have doesnt mean ! Actions and behavior speak louder than words.   FINANCIAL RESPOSIBILTY.  Most men and women see this aspect of manliness as being measured in just earning power and net worth alone.  Most women dont care how much money you have, what kind of car you drive or how big your house is.  When we first started dating my husband drove a diesel truck, now he drives the same 23yr old diesel truck.  It irritated me at first, but I have come to realize we have saved tens of thousands of dollars over the short decade we have been married.  Because of his foresight and financial prowess, he paid off our first house in , flipped it, wrote a check for our second, flipped that and put a large down payment on a ranch and will probably have that paid off in . He did all that on less than 75k a year, and we only made about 30k when we first met, and in a small way this turns me on and gets me off too. However, its not just about money.  The ability to provide goes far beyond that.  My husband can fix our car, our house, raise cattle, grow food, hunt, cook [he is trained as a chef] trade stocks, fix the computer, render first aide, and is prepared for ANYTHING always.  Once when we were dating, I saw him, all in an 8 hour timeframe, prepare us a gourmet picnic, siphon gas from our car to help a stranded motorist, with a hose he pulled out of nowhere, all while cooing her in the backseat, we stopped for wine and while he chose a three bottle pairing for the picnic, then fixed my shoe, bandaged my toe and complemented my pedicure, after I stumbled in the parking lot.  Then, while having the picnic, he spotted a couple 50 yards away who forgot a cork screw and gave them ours.  I asked him why he was giving our stuff away. He said he did that because he had impulse bought a cheap 99cent one weeks before on the off chance he might like to take me for a picnic and someone else might need it. I found out years later, he was also carrying my engagement ring, and had intended to propose but hadnt because he thought the day was a crapshoot. I thought it was one of our best of countless adventures. The abilities of a man to make sure his loved ones are provided for in every way shape and form, all the while being generous of his time and effort with perfect strangers is what makes a REAL provider! He calls it being a renaissance man and a mans man all at once.  I call it FUCKING SEXY. It gets me wet, as strange as it may sound to you guys out there, and Im willing to bet is a big turn on for other women. Men who tell you all about their truck, bank account, house, the stuff they can buy you dont carry any weight with any woman.     FATHERHOOD.  I will only briefly say that any man who can be kind and useful to , old people, and animals weather he is a father himself or not is a huge turn on and will make the hottest girl want to suck off the most average of men.  I once SUCKED his COCK in a service hallway at the mall, all because, being the old-fashioned guy, he is, gave away his pocket handkerchief, without the grimace or roll of the eyes most would display, to this woman that had nothing handy to wipe the snot and ice cream off the face of her screaming .  This type of thing appeals to a womans baser instincts and will get a guy some nookie long before whipping out your dick, talking about it, bragging, or sending a pic, no matter how magnificent you might think it is.     SEXUAL PROWESS. Now we get into the meat and potatoes of it.  None of the other things I discussed above mean a fucking thing if you cant back them up in the bedroom. And that doesnt mean what you think. Your dick or the size thereof means precious little, it is only the instrument. You fuck and please a woman with your mind.  You only use your dick to put into words what your mind is thinking [if that makes any sense] Your dick is the pen, the woman is the paper, but its YOU who is the writer.  The other stuff will get you in the door and if you just play the numbers I guess dick size will do it from time to time.  But to make your bitch squeal you only need to know what buttons to push and make her body respond.  You might have a big dick and be able to do this, but dont lie to yourself and think that its the size thats getting her off. My husband may only sport 6 to 6.5 inches fully erect, but boy oh boy can he use it, and use it indefinitely.  Time and energy permitting he can go longer than I can without even comming close to blowing his load. I NEVER leave the bedroom without at least 3 orgasms on a bad day. Somedays, I even must ask him to blow his load when I just cant fuck and suck anymore.  And I wont even get into what he can do with his tongue and fingers. I tell you, I was sexually active as a teenager, and my husband and I enjoy a bit of an open marriage.  The women he is with ALWAYS come back begging for more. We both enjoy the promiscuity and Varity. The men Im with, some good, some bad, some big, some not, never quite add up, so I usually must get my husband to get me off when all is said and done. Point being, no matter how big your dick might be, its just one tool in your toolbox, its useless if you cant tune yourself to a womans body, likes and dislikes, and fuck her with your mind.     So, GUYS, if you cant display at least a modicum of these skills, qualities and talents in most of, if not ALL your interactions with the opposite sex you have no hope of ever pleasing a woman. Talking about it, showing it off, especially when nobody asked to see it will get you nowhere.  Any MAN who needs to shake it around, fish for complements, or run his mouth about how much better he is or how good he can fuck me, is nothing but a sissy punk BITCH.  Hes really no MAN at all. And I only FUCK MEN.  Myself, and most women would rather have a real man with an average cock who knows how to use it than a douchebag poser with a monster cock.     The moral of the story:   If you were half the man my husband is, or half the man you think you would have YOUR COCK in my mouth too. Think about that next time you want to post a comment, pic, video or just run your jealous mouth.   Now all, this might read to some as a tribute to my husband. Its not. I only used a few stories to illustrate my point.