A strict wife is essential! I didn’t have a strict wife in either of my marriages and if I would have had a wife who pulled my pants down and blistered my bare butt fairly often I have no doubt I’d have been better behaved and just more accomplished! My advice find a wife that thinks and feels a husband needs his bare bottom spanked often and hard and you’ll be a better man for it! I know I would do it in a heartbeat if I had another chance at it.