Clearly, never screw around with a house proud woman unless you accept your place in the Q and come second to spotless shelves! The male partner has a real problem, too, as even with the brilliant attention of our tubby lady he still couldn't achieve a suitable erection As one gets older, sadly, immediate sex may be difficult and due notice is needed! There may be a sell by date and if exceeded then a problem may occur Such is life, so : get on with it when you can and use it or lose it. . A real truism