Strong enough to surrender?

Often I am impressed by the power of surrender and the level of strength it takes to do it. As I have been mentored by some very experienced Doms/Dommes I come to understand that the most critical aspect in the power exchange relationship is the psychological aspect. No matter what a Dom/Domme or sub states as their essential piece of the power exchange the mental aspect is essential. This is the basis for trust. Trust is the most important step to take. Think about it, if there is no trust between parties then how do they open enough to surrender? I believe each side of the "slash" must s… Přečíst více

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Basic Rules for Good Orderly Discipline

I have three basic rules: 1. Tell Me everything-- the good, the bad, the ugly. I want to know how to reward, and punish so I must know the desires and fears to provide direction. This is also how I am able to keep tabs on issues that may turn into severe problems. I have to know about things to properly address them. 2. Respect Me at every junction - Ask permission for everything knowing just because you ask does not mean it will be granted. However, failure to ask permission is a quick route to disappointment and worse. 3. Obedience is essential -- Follow My direction no matter how arbitr… Přečíst více

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