Roleplaying Guide
The original RP Guide is at https://sultrymehwish.wordpress.com , This is my personized Guide & RP Profile.
Roleplaying: Is living out your personalized erotic Romance Novel or Movie… We choose a story, characters, act out the scenes. To me; its an art form, dancing with words. A set plot and storyline, us writing our own passionate romance/erotic novelette that ends in ecstasy. Then sharing ideas for our ongoing journey or take a different path completely.
How to begin a roleplay? (let's plan our movie script, shall we?)
Discuss Fantasies, Characters/Ages you want to play, Discuss the heart of the story, Set the back drop and opening scene:
I recommend keeping it as realistic as possible if you are new. I play me, you play you, add some context, we meet and go.
The following is from a realistic perspective: (once comfortable, by all means let's try out a wild fantasy fetish)
(be yourself and maybe embellish; be richer, dream job, healthier, your age... be your fantasy you, your soul never ages)
1. Understanding the characters: their ages, mannerisms,
3. How well characters know each other?
4. Where scene will start?
5. Remember the mind is everything and visualization of pleasure is the key.
6. Decide the pace of play: How much story build up, how much foreplay, when will sex start, how much wanted aftercare.
7. Decide the pace of sex: How much oral sex, any toy play?, how much vaginal sex and how much anal sex if any).
8. Don’t drag one position for a long time, mix it with oral, vaginal, then oral positions then back to vaginal or anal.
9. Once it starts then you can discuss changes you want of feelings in a brackets (). for example: (Hey, lets try this?)
OK... some roleplaying scenarios: (I'm open to any creative ideas you may have or options!?)
Do keep in mind, if there is a book, a movie/vid-clip, website, animation or pictures to reference, all the better!
I enjoy at least 2 days for research and planning after a scene has been decided so I can get more into character.
***Realistic Roleplay***
Stranger Danger: You met me online and talked me into meeting you at a coffee shop or restaurant. (or where?)
Family & Friends: Be my; Stepmom/dad, step Aunt/Uncle, a Family Friend, my Friends Parent, a naughty Neighbor,
Professionals: Writer, Doctor/Nurse, Therapist, Preacher, Teacher/Professor, Boss, Cop/Police, Bartender, Photographer,
Me-oh-my: Literally a Farmer’s daughter, maid, servant, runaway, hitchhiker, model, actress, student, (you tell me?)
Spoil me: Buy me clothing, give me a makeover, have me get tattoos or piercings, mold me into your desire
Take me: on vacations or wild adventures; to your private island, your remote cabin, a jungle safari,
Show me the City Life: Theater/Plays, Museums, Theme Parks, Adult book/toy stores, Private Night Clubs,
Lets Explore: your state and neighborhood interests; hiking, caves, waterfalls, wildlife, landmarks or pick a country.
***Fantasy & Sci-Fi *** (think anime) Aliens, Beasts, Demons, etc... Oh my!!!
Aliens: Abducted and fucked, Observed / experimented on for ‘scientific’ research, Breed me with Intergalactic Species.
Beasts: (Not limited to): Monsters, Tentacles, Plants, Insects... Mythology: Centaurs, Minotaur's, Giants, Satyrs, ...
The Occult: Magical powers, secret societies, rituals, the macabre, Ghosts, Vampires, Werewolves, Eerie Fairy Tales.
Demonic Dreams: Bless me Father, for I am about to sin... Sister, I have been having these vivid satanic dreams...
Time Travel: Victorian Age, Apocalyptic Era, Roman Era... Visit countries/cities of any time period, ex: 19c Venice, Italy.
***Force Play***
Consensual Nonconsensual play: a naïve good-girl like myself needs a lil’ force now and then, coerced, drugged or alcohol, Being groped, abduction, kidnapping, home invasion, to be controlled and turned into a slutty addicted complying whore.)
***BDSM & undertones ***
I'm interested in D/s and Bondage with light SM. (I'm a big fraidy cat so break me in slowly. Love leather straps! See: (Limits)
....First let me say, so I do not scare off any non-bdsm friends. Have I done any of this in real life? No... Would I? Maybe under the right mentorship and loving partner. I address this because I have roleplayed for over 7+ years, mostly with people into the lifestyle and for good and bad, its engrained into how I think and roleplay. I'm naturally submissive in my nature, a follower, not a sub, slave or lifestyler. I say this because I've recently found that I have a hard time RPing without someone taking the lead in playing. And I don't mean just for BDSM play, make since? I can try being a lil' domme type if you want?
PS: A lil'domme may be on the rise...*kitten dawns her thigh-high leather boots and mask* Walla! ... it's Puss-in-Boots!
Ms Kitty to you ladies (please forgive me, I'm new at Domme roles)... Sorry Gentlemen, I can not Domme men.
***Limits***
You should have a list to share with your potential play partner of Turn-ons. Soft Limits and Hard Limits.
Turn-ons:
Soft Limits:
Hard Limits:
Breast Play / slapping
bondage, ropes & blindfolds
biker
Hucow
breath play
*** Communication ***
I was taught that there are two entries per person’s turn for clarity of communication.
( Verbal then Actions, Thoughts, Emotions; in no order or vice-versa)
1. a verbal/when speaking - Can you hear me now?
2. for actions, thoughts or emotions - drops the notepad, thinking this sucks, I wanna cry
Finally; within prentices () anytime (for speaking out of character. real questions, suggestions or comments) (brb)
***Introductions & Looks***
ARE YOU READY? Let's talk and feel free to ask me any questions :)
Over time I will upload images as an inspiration point for scenarios to be explored and indulged in for roleplay, but I also welcome you to send through your own ideas. Please don't send novels, I typically reply 2 sentences to a short paragraph.
Tips to be good at roleplay:
1) Most important TIP: Keep the fun and humor alive!
2) Ask one’s kinks, limits, turn on, and turn offs before starting the play. Most limits are; minors, shit, pee, violent acts. etc...
3) Try to visualize the role as you play: You are the star in a movie. Visualize and feel what is happening around you.
4) Like real life, when your partner suggest something different, they politely saying "I'm not liking this". If you don’t want to lose them, open a side conversation for suggestions. Everyone needs to be flexible here within their limits. Don’t insult someone if they gives you constructive feedback. (I appreciate feedback... Good or Bad)
5) Try to think before you write: Unlike chat, avoid writing many short lines one after another, combine them in a paragraph. Your argument will be but I want to send my message as quickly as possible. That approach will send message to the other person that you are impatient / in a rush. Up to a 5 minute delay between for a short paragraph is worth the wait, and 2 minute delays is fine between short messages.
*the red curtain closes and she bows* Thank you! Come... Join me! *she steps behind the curtain with a beckoning finger *
Roleplaying: Is living out your personalized erotic Romance Novel or Movie… We choose a story, characters, act out the scenes. To me; its an art form, dancing with words. A set plot and storyline, us writing our own passionate romance/erotic novelette that ends in ecstasy. Then sharing ideas for our ongoing journey or take a different path completely.
How to begin a roleplay? (let's plan our movie script, shall we?)
Discuss Fantasies, Characters/Ages you want to play, Discuss the heart of the story, Set the back drop and opening scene:
I recommend keeping it as realistic as possible if you are new. I play me, you play you, add some context, we meet and go.
The following is from a realistic perspective: (once comfortable, by all means let's try out a wild fantasy fetish)
(be yourself and maybe embellish; be richer, dream job, healthier, your age... be your fantasy you, your soul never ages)
1. Understanding the characters: their ages, mannerisms,
3. How well characters know each other?
4. Where scene will start?
5. Remember the mind is everything and visualization of pleasure is the key.
6. Decide the pace of play: How much story build up, how much foreplay, when will sex start, how much wanted aftercare.
7. Decide the pace of sex: How much oral sex, any toy play?, how much vaginal sex and how much anal sex if any).
8. Don’t drag one position for a long time, mix it with oral, vaginal, then oral positions then back to vaginal or anal.
9. Once it starts then you can discuss changes you want of feelings in a brackets (). for example: (Hey, lets try this?)
OK... some roleplaying scenarios: (I'm open to any creative ideas you may have or options!?)
Do keep in mind, if there is a book, a movie/vid-clip, website, animation or pictures to reference, all the better!
I enjoy at least 2 days for research and planning after a scene has been decided so I can get more into character.
***Realistic Roleplay***
Stranger Danger: You met me online and talked me into meeting you at a coffee shop or restaurant. (or where?)
Family & Friends: Be my; Stepmom/dad, step Aunt/Uncle, a Family Friend, my Friends Parent, a naughty Neighbor,
Professionals: Writer, Doctor/Nurse, Therapist, Preacher, Teacher/Professor, Boss, Cop/Police, Bartender, Photographer,
Me-oh-my: Literally a Farmer’s daughter, maid, servant, runaway, hitchhiker, model, actress, student, (you tell me?)
Spoil me: Buy me clothing, give me a makeover, have me get tattoos or piercings, mold me into your desire
Take me: on vacations or wild adventures; to your private island, your remote cabin, a jungle safari,
Show me the City Life: Theater/Plays, Museums, Theme Parks, Adult book/toy stores, Private Night Clubs,
Lets Explore: your state and neighborhood interests; hiking, caves, waterfalls, wildlife, landmarks or pick a country.
***Fantasy & Sci-Fi *** (think anime) Aliens, Beasts, Demons, etc... Oh my!!!
Aliens: Abducted and fucked, Observed / experimented on for ‘scientific’ research, Breed me with Intergalactic Species.
Beasts: (Not limited to): Monsters, Tentacles, Plants, Insects... Mythology: Centaurs, Minotaur's, Giants, Satyrs, ...
The Occult: Magical powers, secret societies, rituals, the macabre, Ghosts, Vampires, Werewolves, Eerie Fairy Tales.
Demonic Dreams: Bless me Father, for I am about to sin... Sister, I have been having these vivid satanic dreams...
Time Travel: Victorian Age, Apocalyptic Era, Roman Era... Visit countries/cities of any time period, ex: 19c Venice, Italy.
***Force Play***
Consensual Nonconsensual play: a naïve good-girl like myself needs a lil’ force now and then, coerced, drugged or alcohol, Being groped, abduction, kidnapping, home invasion, to be controlled and turned into a slutty addicted complying whore.)
***BDSM & undertones ***
I'm interested in D/s and Bondage with light SM. (I'm a big fraidy cat so break me in slowly. Love leather straps! See: (Limits)
....First let me say, so I do not scare off any non-bdsm friends. Have I done any of this in real life? No... Would I? Maybe under the right mentorship and loving partner. I address this because I have roleplayed for over 7+ years, mostly with people into the lifestyle and for good and bad, its engrained into how I think and roleplay. I'm naturally submissive in my nature, a follower, not a sub, slave or lifestyler. I say this because I've recently found that I have a hard time RPing without someone taking the lead in playing. And I don't mean just for BDSM play, make since? I can try being a lil' domme type if you want?
PS: A lil'domme may be on the rise...*kitten dawns her thigh-high leather boots and mask* Walla! ... it's Puss-in-Boots!
Ms Kitty to you ladies (please forgive me, I'm new at Domme roles)... Sorry Gentlemen, I can not Domme men.
***Limits***
You should have a list to share with your potential play partner of Turn-ons. Soft Limits and Hard Limits.
Turn-ons:
Soft Limits:
Hard Limits:
Breast Play / slapping
bondage, ropes & blindfolds
biker
Hucow
breath play
*** Communication ***
I was taught that there are two entries per person’s turn for clarity of communication.
( Verbal then Actions, Thoughts, Emotions; in no order or vice-versa)
1. a verbal/when speaking - Can you hear me now?
2. for actions, thoughts or emotions - drops the notepad, thinking this sucks, I wanna cry
Finally; within prentices () anytime (for speaking out of character. real questions, suggestions or comments) (brb)
***Introductions & Looks***
ARE YOU READY? Let's talk and feel free to ask me any questions :)
Over time I will upload images as an inspiration point for scenarios to be explored and indulged in for roleplay, but I also welcome you to send through your own ideas. Please don't send novels, I typically reply 2 sentences to a short paragraph.
Tips to be good at roleplay:
1) Most important TIP: Keep the fun and humor alive!
2) Ask one’s kinks, limits, turn on, and turn offs before starting the play. Most limits are; minors, shit, pee, violent acts. etc...
3) Try to visualize the role as you play: You are the star in a movie. Visualize and feel what is happening around you.
4) Like real life, when your partner suggest something different, they politely saying "I'm not liking this". If you don’t want to lose them, open a side conversation for suggestions. Everyone needs to be flexible here within their limits. Don’t insult someone if they gives you constructive feedback. (I appreciate feedback... Good or Bad)
5) Try to think before you write: Unlike chat, avoid writing many short lines one after another, combine them in a paragraph. Your argument will be but I want to send my message as quickly as possible. That approach will send message to the other person that you are impatient / in a rush. Up to a 5 minute delay between for a short paragraph is worth the wait, and 2 minute delays is fine between short messages.
*the red curtain closes and she bows* Thank you! Come... Join me! *she steps behind the curtain with a beckoning finger *
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