Have Tois - Will Travel
The Logistics of a Traveling Transgender Domme
or
Have Tois – Will Travel
OK, full disclosure. I am transgendered, a male to female ‘gurl.’ I am somewhere on the TG continuum which runs the gamut from those who just wear panties, all the way up to those who have sex reassignment surgery; “Going the distance” I say. I’m a gurl I have accepted it, this is who I am, a lesbian in a man’s body. It is not so much the clothes since it is all an illusion anyway, but what is inside that is.
Like many gurls I started cross-dressing as a teen. It was the early 60s and I found it delightful to either wear my mom’s or sister’s clean undergarments or imagine myself wearing the lovely girdles, garter belts, bras, panties and slips I saw in the Sears Catalog. Long story short, I repressed my fem side while in military service although I dressed occasionally, came out slightly after retirement, then took off like a bird after my first divorce. Second spouse was receptive to and liked my dressing up until she went through menopause, then all bets were off. After that ended I relocated to the area I grew up and found quite a few gurls, or should say “like-minded people”?
I love foundation wear; girdles, garter belts, waist cinchers and bras, and do take on a somewhat matronly 50s look. You can have pantyhose, an aberration IMHO. I am fairly stylish in my opinion, and many do agree I am a class act. If you are reading this, you probably already saw some of my pictures and are agreeing. Better be, or you might get spanked.
I am Domme, a rarity in the TG arena. Needless to say, there is something about inflicting uncomfortable pleasure on a gurl, be it spanking, binding, CB&T, titty torment or pussy play to bring best out of me. I am quite good at it and carry a large number and variety of tois to meet the wants and needs of just about anyone, gurl, sissy or GG. I don’t do bois (gay).
Unfortunately many subs do not truly appreciate the efforts a Mistress puts into ensuring their ‘pleasure.’ That said, I see pictures and hear stories of the Mistress showing up for a session carrying a large green trash bag and dumping everything into a pile, extracting what they need as they go. Yuk. Aside from not being organized, I have to wonder about sanitation of all those things mixed together. IMHO a Mistress should be organized and be able to assure the safety of her subs.
Bear in mind that I was in the military for 24 years and 5 days with all of its emphasis on neat, tidy and organized, and am anal retentive, Type A, obsessive compulsive to boot. I have used laptop computer cases I buy at Goodwill for $3.99 each to organize, store and transport the large variety and quantity of tois and implements of torment I use. I built a special wooden case for all my spanking implements, and have used foam rubber to line and pad the computer cases, making cut-outs for each toy to fit into, somewhat like a tool shadow-board.
Case #1 – The Restraints Bag. Have to hold the sub down somehow, and this bag gives lots of options. It has wrist, thigh, and ankle restraints in both home-made Velcroized faux leather with military grade D-rings and snap catches, and some lovely Spartacus leather straps. There are military grade adjustable restraining lanyards, belts, hog-tie adapters and a large assortment of snap-catch adapters and more rope than I can think about. There are also ball gags to muffle the plaintive crying of a sub and eye blinders so they can’t see what’s next. Locking leather neck collars are and leashes are provided. Lol.
Case #2 - Penetrants Bag. I use a double-sided case for dildos and butt-plugs (silicone and metal) with one layer dedicated to each. A variety of lengths, diameters and styles. Pouches hold an assortment of silicone anal beads. Of course there is plenty of room for lubricants, clean cotton diapers (the old fashioned kind), sanitizers, and condoms. toi is cleaned in either the dishwasher or by hand in boiling antibacterial water, then wrapped in sterile Saran Wrap to ensure cleanliness until used. I may be a fanatic about sanitation and cleanliness, but I have to ask myself, “Would I want a dildo that has been used on someone and just wiped off before using inside me?”
Case #3 –The Boi Ball Bag. This has about 15 different leather ball (testicle) stretchers and dividers, both snap-fastened or buckled. Most are made by Spartacus Leather, a great maker of quality leather tois and restraints. There are five different metal clitty cages with various sized rings to hold them in place securely, keeping them under control. As well, some of tois are in this bag along with clean cloths, disinfectant wipes and gloves.
Case #4 - The Weight Bag. This contains 21 weights containing a total of 10 kilograms (22 pounds) of beautifully hand-crafted copper cylinders filled with solid lead and sealed that can be used to strength and endurance test those naughty boi balls that are lovingly secured in a tight leather stretcher or divider. Each weight has a brass hook to hang them on D-rings. Weights range from six ounces up to three pounds. Some of the lighter weights do quite well attached to nipple clamps in bringing out the best in a GG or gurl, but the larger 3 pound weights are reserved for sissy balls.
Case #5 – The Spanking Box. I made this wood box myself years ago in the form of an oversize briefcase to hold the few tois I had then. Now the vast majority of my home-made or store-bought wooden paddles, leather slappers, crops, lashes, canes, floggers, carpet beater, spoons, hair brushes, rulers, and whatever your heart (and rump) desire or need. Of course I even include several bottles of soothing ointment for those burning butts. Such a caring Mistress that I am.
Case #6 – Ball Crusher Bag. What would a Domme be without a variety of lovingly hand-crafted Lexan (Plexiglas) ball crushers with stainless steel hardware and Retro adjustment knobs? This bag has a flat hinged Plexiglas crusher that can be converted for E-Stim of those poor flattened balls between the two plates, a rod crusher that stretches the balls downward while crushing them upward on a flat plate, a metal crusher/stretcher, an Enforcer Black Wooden Humbler and various other “things” like a Fleshlight masturbating sleeve for sending your sub off to a corner to play with
Case #7 – Electrics Bag. I have an ElectraStim EM-80 Dual channel Duo Flick with pads, cock and ball loops, a lovely anal electrode and a Jack Socket clitty sleeve. This is a great E-Stim unit made in the UK that certainly satisfies with its 8 preprogrammed cycles and 25 power levels, but also gives Mistress a lovely light show and the ability to flick the device in her hand, causing sudden increases in intensity. There is also a Tens 7000 dual channel stimulator with pads, loops and anal electrode. Of course I carry spare batteries in this bag.
Case #8 – Miscellaneous Bag. While “miscellaneous” may not sound intimidating there are things in this bag that certainly do intimidate but provide so much delight. One fold-out section contains vacuum packed cock and ball steel rings along with a variety of home-brew stainless steel and copper/brass urethral sounds of varying lengths (up to six inches) and diameters (1/8 to 3/8 inch diameter). The main section holds a Yarosi wand vibrator that has lots of power and cycles, a cute dual vibrator that mounts on the head of a clit, a cock/clitty expansion tube and vacuum pump, a wonderful assortment of nipple clamps and weights, and a set of pewter pointed finger sleeves, wonderful for caressing those naughty boi balls. I have two stainless steel butt plugs (1-3/8 & 1-5/8 inch diameter) that have been modified to use any of the five interchangeable a****l tails also in the bag; Silver Fox, Red Fox, Coyote, Raccoon, or Horse. The front of the bag holds clothespins, several brushes and teasing instruments, Wartenberg Wheels, chopstick clamps, surgical clamps, and a vibrating urethral sound. Something for everyone.
Case #9 – Boob Bag. To help stretch a gurl’s titties. A variety of suction pumps and vacuum breast cups, all the way from small drain plungers upward to large acrylic cups that powered by the vacuum pumps will certainly pull those titties outward far into the cups and leave titty hickies. A variety of vacuum nipple cups tenderly draw the sub’s nipple up into it, causing the nipple to swell and even turn blue. Oh, but when the cups come off, those nipples are so sensitive. There is also a vacuum cunt cup and clit tube for the GG’s discomfort.
Case #10 – Spare Pole Bag – This canvas bag was used for carrying spare camping tent poles, but now carries wooden spreader bars 24 to 36 inches long, and canes and spanking implements too long for the Spanking Box.
But that is not all that Mistress must contend with as part of the session: camera case, tripods (2), Laptop and Cam, her own clothing bag with shoes (2 pair) and extra hose, make-up bag, perhaps a forms bag, briefcase, and lord knows what else. You’d think Mistress even has a checklist for it all so she forgets nothing. It is one heck of a load to carry around and I am not so sure that TSA would appreciate all of the tois, nor would Mistress want to pay the excess baggage fees so this Mistress travels by car with the back filled with all of those cases which have to be lugged in and out of the session.
A Mistress’s work is never done.
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Have Tois – Will Travel
OK, full disclosure. I am transgendered, a male to female ‘gurl.’ I am somewhere on the TG continuum which runs the gamut from those who just wear panties, all the way up to those who have sex reassignment surgery; “Going the distance” I say. I’m a gurl I have accepted it, this is who I am, a lesbian in a man’s body. It is not so much the clothes since it is all an illusion anyway, but what is inside that is.
Like many gurls I started cross-dressing as a teen. It was the early 60s and I found it delightful to either wear my mom’s or sister’s clean undergarments or imagine myself wearing the lovely girdles, garter belts, bras, panties and slips I saw in the Sears Catalog. Long story short, I repressed my fem side while in military service although I dressed occasionally, came out slightly after retirement, then took off like a bird after my first divorce. Second spouse was receptive to and liked my dressing up until she went through menopause, then all bets were off. After that ended I relocated to the area I grew up and found quite a few gurls, or should say “like-minded people”?
I love foundation wear; girdles, garter belts, waist cinchers and bras, and do take on a somewhat matronly 50s look. You can have pantyhose, an aberration IMHO. I am fairly stylish in my opinion, and many do agree I am a class act. If you are reading this, you probably already saw some of my pictures and are agreeing. Better be, or you might get spanked.
I am Domme, a rarity in the TG arena. Needless to say, there is something about inflicting uncomfortable pleasure on a gurl, be it spanking, binding, CB&T, titty torment or pussy play to bring best out of me. I am quite good at it and carry a large number and variety of tois to meet the wants and needs of just about anyone, gurl, sissy or GG. I don’t do bois (gay).
Unfortunately many subs do not truly appreciate the efforts a Mistress puts into ensuring their ‘pleasure.’ That said, I see pictures and hear stories of the Mistress showing up for a session carrying a large green trash bag and dumping everything into a pile, extracting what they need as they go. Yuk. Aside from not being organized, I have to wonder about sanitation of all those things mixed together. IMHO a Mistress should be organized and be able to assure the safety of her subs.
Bear in mind that I was in the military for 24 years and 5 days with all of its emphasis on neat, tidy and organized, and am anal retentive, Type A, obsessive compulsive to boot. I have used laptop computer cases I buy at Goodwill for $3.99 each to organize, store and transport the large variety and quantity of tois and implements of torment I use. I built a special wooden case for all my spanking implements, and have used foam rubber to line and pad the computer cases, making cut-outs for each toy to fit into, somewhat like a tool shadow-board.
Case #1 – The Restraints Bag. Have to hold the sub down somehow, and this bag gives lots of options. It has wrist, thigh, and ankle restraints in both home-made Velcroized faux leather with military grade D-rings and snap catches, and some lovely Spartacus leather straps. There are military grade adjustable restraining lanyards, belts, hog-tie adapters and a large assortment of snap-catch adapters and more rope than I can think about. There are also ball gags to muffle the plaintive crying of a sub and eye blinders so they can’t see what’s next. Locking leather neck collars are and leashes are provided. Lol.
Case #2 - Penetrants Bag. I use a double-sided case for dildos and butt-plugs (silicone and metal) with one layer dedicated to each. A variety of lengths, diameters and styles. Pouches hold an assortment of silicone anal beads. Of course there is plenty of room for lubricants, clean cotton diapers (the old fashioned kind), sanitizers, and condoms. toi is cleaned in either the dishwasher or by hand in boiling antibacterial water, then wrapped in sterile Saran Wrap to ensure cleanliness until used. I may be a fanatic about sanitation and cleanliness, but I have to ask myself, “Would I want a dildo that has been used on someone and just wiped off before using inside me?”
Case #3 –The Boi Ball Bag. This has about 15 different leather ball (testicle) stretchers and dividers, both snap-fastened or buckled. Most are made by Spartacus Leather, a great maker of quality leather tois and restraints. There are five different metal clitty cages with various sized rings to hold them in place securely, keeping them under control. As well, some of tois are in this bag along with clean cloths, disinfectant wipes and gloves.
Case #4 - The Weight Bag. This contains 21 weights containing a total of 10 kilograms (22 pounds) of beautifully hand-crafted copper cylinders filled with solid lead and sealed that can be used to strength and endurance test those naughty boi balls that are lovingly secured in a tight leather stretcher or divider. Each weight has a brass hook to hang them on D-rings. Weights range from six ounces up to three pounds. Some of the lighter weights do quite well attached to nipple clamps in bringing out the best in a GG or gurl, but the larger 3 pound weights are reserved for sissy balls.
Case #5 – The Spanking Box. I made this wood box myself years ago in the form of an oversize briefcase to hold the few tois I had then. Now the vast majority of my home-made or store-bought wooden paddles, leather slappers, crops, lashes, canes, floggers, carpet beater, spoons, hair brushes, rulers, and whatever your heart (and rump) desire or need. Of course I even include several bottles of soothing ointment for those burning butts. Such a caring Mistress that I am.
Case #6 – Ball Crusher Bag. What would a Domme be without a variety of lovingly hand-crafted Lexan (Plexiglas) ball crushers with stainless steel hardware and Retro adjustment knobs? This bag has a flat hinged Plexiglas crusher that can be converted for E-Stim of those poor flattened balls between the two plates, a rod crusher that stretches the balls downward while crushing them upward on a flat plate, a metal crusher/stretcher, an Enforcer Black Wooden Humbler and various other “things” like a Fleshlight masturbating sleeve for sending your sub off to a corner to play with
Case #7 – Electrics Bag. I have an ElectraStim EM-80 Dual channel Duo Flick with pads, cock and ball loops, a lovely anal electrode and a Jack Socket clitty sleeve. This is a great E-Stim unit made in the UK that certainly satisfies with its 8 preprogrammed cycles and 25 power levels, but also gives Mistress a lovely light show and the ability to flick the device in her hand, causing sudden increases in intensity. There is also a Tens 7000 dual channel stimulator with pads, loops and anal electrode. Of course I carry spare batteries in this bag.
Case #8 – Miscellaneous Bag. While “miscellaneous” may not sound intimidating there are things in this bag that certainly do intimidate but provide so much delight. One fold-out section contains vacuum packed cock and ball steel rings along with a variety of home-brew stainless steel and copper/brass urethral sounds of varying lengths (up to six inches) and diameters (1/8 to 3/8 inch diameter). The main section holds a Yarosi wand vibrator that has lots of power and cycles, a cute dual vibrator that mounts on the head of a clit, a cock/clitty expansion tube and vacuum pump, a wonderful assortment of nipple clamps and weights, and a set of pewter pointed finger sleeves, wonderful for caressing those naughty boi balls. I have two stainless steel butt plugs (1-3/8 & 1-5/8 inch diameter) that have been modified to use any of the five interchangeable a****l tails also in the bag; Silver Fox, Red Fox, Coyote, Raccoon, or Horse. The front of the bag holds clothespins, several brushes and teasing instruments, Wartenberg Wheels, chopstick clamps, surgical clamps, and a vibrating urethral sound. Something for everyone.
Case #9 – Boob Bag. To help stretch a gurl’s titties. A variety of suction pumps and vacuum breast cups, all the way from small drain plungers upward to large acrylic cups that powered by the vacuum pumps will certainly pull those titties outward far into the cups and leave titty hickies. A variety of vacuum nipple cups tenderly draw the sub’s nipple up into it, causing the nipple to swell and even turn blue. Oh, but when the cups come off, those nipples are so sensitive. There is also a vacuum cunt cup and clit tube for the GG’s discomfort.
Case #10 – Spare Pole Bag – This canvas bag was used for carrying spare camping tent poles, but now carries wooden spreader bars 24 to 36 inches long, and canes and spanking implements too long for the Spanking Box.
But that is not all that Mistress must contend with as part of the session: camera case, tripods (2), Laptop and Cam, her own clothing bag with shoes (2 pair) and extra hose, make-up bag, perhaps a forms bag, briefcase, and lord knows what else. You’d think Mistress even has a checklist for it all so she forgets nothing. It is one heck of a load to carry around and I am not so sure that TSA would appreciate all of the tois, nor would Mistress want to pay the excess baggage fees so this Mistress travels by car with the back filled with all of those cases which have to be lugged in and out of the session.
A Mistress’s work is never done.
há 6 anos
It is expected that my subs help clean up the play room. I had one sub who left clothing I had lent her (since she came ill-equipped) on the floor! Never again.