Also it's funny how letting her do this "don't ask don't" tell seems weird .. don't know if I want to see everything .. in this case the receiver (woman) is getting handled hard .. so my wife wouldn't feel "as bad" if I did it to another woman .. Could you really go full raw on your girlfriend? If she did let / want you to?
Some women ask that question also .. I couldn't do it to my wife .. so many that want that type of raw action can not be experienced with someone you are in a relationship with and actually care about ..