The Science of Cuckolding

Cuckolding: A Scientific Explanation

I) Introduction

How many of you have wondered what it is about being cuckolded that is so exciting and so thrilling? Why should something so humiliating and emasculation be such a "turn on?" How many of you have already started getting a hard-on just reading this introduction by a female who cuckolds her mate? I thought so! Well, I've studied the phenomena of "the thrilled cuckold" for quite a while, and I shall attempt in this report to explain to you the hows and whys of your thrilling sensations from being cuckolded. If the biological stuff is boring or confusing, bare with me, as I will put everything into layman's terms (pun intended).


What you have to understand is that we are all still carrying around the same biology our ancestors did in the stone age. Our primary reason for existing in this world (biologically) is to procreate offspring in order to continue our unbroken line of genes in the gene pool. The very fact that you are here is because your ancestors have had k**s and grandk**s for countless generations. Congratulations! You are from a successful line of ancestors who managed to inseminate females and had offspring!

Now, how is it that females and males select who we will procreate with? Men and women have different methods and different priorities for this. Males select females with long legs, shapely hips, large breasts, and pretty faces. In other words, you guys want to fuck total foxes.


Beautiful and gorgeous women. Do you you can please them?

These women are out of your league!

Lets face it, who would you rather do, Rosie O'donell or Gisele Bundchen? You guys look for these traits because they give signals to your brain and body that the woman is healthy and will have healthy k**s. The programming in you men tells you to go out and impregnate as many foxes as you can, thereby having as many k**s as you can. Men are after quantity, not necessarily quality, because you have the ability to really spread that seed around, thus increasing your chances of having more k**s.


Many different women. Who would you choose?


A big womam needs a proportional male to fulfill her needs.

Women look for quality, not quantity. Women are programmed to look for tall muscular men, with strong broad shoulders and strong arms.


an alpha stud

These are signals to them that these men are strong enough to protect them, strong enough to make good hunters and providers for their c***dren, and if they have larger cocks and balls, they will impregnate women more easily and bring them much pleasure. Recent studies and experiments concluded that the "big human penis" evolved as a tool meant to as a way trigger the release of , activating bonding circuits. Such bonds provide a survival advantage to offspring. The study also added that women with a greater body mass index held stronger preferences for big penises.


The difference between a normal male and a stud. Did you think she needed a stronger and bigger male? You tought right!

These guys we shall call studs. These studs produce healthy, good looking c***dren. That's why women would rather fuck Antonio Bandaras than Danny De Vito. When a stud makes contact with a fox, the sex is very, very good indeed! Both people enjoy orgasms which will encourage the procreation of a c***d. Super sex! Mind blowing sex! Fantastic orgasms!

Powerfull orgasms from deep penetration.











































II) Pheromones, attraction, selection

Men and Women give off chemicals in their natural scents called pheromones. Pheromones are like perfume d**gs. When they are inhaled by members of the opposite sex, the body of the inhaler processes information about the person giving off the pheromones. This process is done without you knowing about it in a part of the brain called the synapsis. It starts with every single touch on the skin or just smelling the person scent when they're passing around you. When you smell the natural perfume of a woman, your body is processing information about her imune systems, her genetic makeup, and is calculating whether or not she would make a good sex partner for you.


Males inconsciently tend tos, as females prefer...

Bigger dicks and larger balls. Sometimes .

They love big balls and worship it. You can´t blame her because you´re not enough for her.


Some women like to have fun at beta male's smaller organs.


It's a very intense experience for a woman to hook up with a STUD.


You have to be k**ding if you think this dick is enough for this woman! Notice her smile, do you think she's faking or just posing?

That's why you guys are attracted to certain women, and that's why you selected your wife to be your wife, because her pheromones told you she'd make you a match. They caused you to fall in love with her. Perhaps the same happened to her. Your pheromones told her that you would make a possible match. However, that does NOT mean you were the best and ideal match for her. Maybe she selected you by summing up other reasons togheter, taking in consideration psico-social factors, instead of just using her core primal and instinctive drives.


Sometimes her true primal instincts may appear without warning when properly stimulated.

The advantage of selection is with the woman. If she is a fox, she usually has several studs chasing after her, giving off their pheromones and trying to attract her. She usually selects the best one for her, but sometimes another comes around later on who makes a better match; a super stud. Alphas are a small percentage (between 3-8% of population) and usually have larger bodies and penises, starting at 7.5 inches.


A stud at 7.5inches in the left versus a normal sized 5.5 inches cock (you) on the right.

She will always be tempted to change up to a better partner if the opportunity presents itself. If she selected you for psychological reasons, there´s a bigger chance that she will be attracted by stronger males pheromones at some point in your relationship. Women can be fickle creatures.

In our times, women are gaining more and more independence (finally) and power to live and express themselves the way they want, not beeing constricted to a machist way of living. Women are returning to their primal "natural selectors" role, selecting the appropriate male to procreate with... As a consequence of this, more and more women are now openly expressing their sexual preference as we can observe in these quotes below:

"These days I want to have the kind of sex I want to have and one component of that would be to have a nice long, thick penis. One that I could write about and make me wince from making me feel that super delicious pain I enjoy.

So how does one guarantee that the penis she unwraps is the one she’s looking for BEFORE the clothes come off?

You check.


Which one do you they prefer?

And no I don’t mean you have him whip his penis out (though that works) or have him send you a penis pick (I have a relative who does that), but instead you audition him before the big show. You have him over for a nice pre-sex make out session. I’m a HUGE fan of old school making out. There is no need for every encounter to end with intercourse. The end all be all doesn’t have to be penis meet vagina. You give cars a test run, you should give potential sexual partners one too.

So, you let him know that sex isn’t happening that night, but a little making out will. If he has a problem with that, then he can stay his ass home. No harm no foul. Should all go well however, with a few well placed caresses, you should be able to get a good feel for what he’s working with. And that way n one has to be embarrassed when the clothes come off. I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been known to put folk out of my bed for all sort of things, having the wrong size penis is one of them."

&

"My first sexual experience was with a guy who was about 5” solid and, even though it was my first time, it didn’t hurt the way my friends were saying it would and I didn’t enjoy the experience at all.

But when I met Tony, that’s when I knew what I was lacking in my first relationship. Of course, I didn’t leave my first simply because he had a small penis, but it was part of the grand list of “things I can’t stand about you.”

Tony had it all: brains, beauty, and was hung like a horse. During our first sexual encounter, I had such a powerful orgasm that I cried. Life was coming up orgasms.

When I asked my friends about their penis preferences, they didn’t have much to say… at first. But after I described my experiences to them so openly, many of them began to come out of their shell and revealed their secret desires to go back to the big stuff. So, more often than not, size matters to most women.

Penis size matters
There are certain things that are deal breakers in relationships; if he cheats, steals from me, lies, or has a small penis, it’s not going to last. There’s nothing wrong with a small penis, per se, but sex is a very important part of my relationships and I don’t want to live unhappily. Life is way too short for that.

So finally, what is big? I’d say about 8″ long and 6″ in girth. I like my men solid and strong."

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"Well my friend openly asked how big he was and I did'nt know. So she told me how to do this without him knowing by making him fully erected and then putting my hand beside it with the fingertips pressed lightly against the pubic bone and remember where his tip ended. Which was wrong to do but later I grabbed a school ruler and messured to the line on my palm and it said 5.25 inches. My first boyfriend was a little smaller cuz I could feel the difference with my ex our first time. I told my friend and she said I was missing out on the feeling that you get when a penis is at least 7"long and 5" around that makes her have a uterine orgasm. I asked her what it feels like and she said I would know it if I had one. I have toys my ex bought me but he made sure they was his size. Recently I met this nice guy my friend set up and when he pulled is pants down and I was nerves cuz it was the same size soft than when my ex was hard. So I did the messure trick and it went past my palm and had to use a little vein as a marker. He was the same thickness as my ex but ended up being 7.5-7.75 to be on the safe side. For the first time in my life I felt my cervix being touched and jarred around form a penis and this intense plessure sensation in my upper tummy to the opening of my vagina. After no longer than 10min doggy style I started to feel a warm tingly sensation through out my whole body. Which felt real close to when I had a orgasm with my clit. But it was building up to something more and I did'nt want it to stop and soon my vagina was pulsating around his shaft until the this huge wave of plessure washed over me and my vagina muscles would contract and release on its own. Plus there was a this nice pressure in my chest I've never felt before. After it died down my body was still lightly shaking and twiching and noticed the covers was a little soaked with a clear slippery liquid."



III) Stimulus

Sometimes women (specially the more independent and modern ones) will talk about studs with their female friends when they find one. Not only to brag, but sometimes to introduce them to each other, and share these potent males around...


many bachelorette parties include hung men to "entertain" the ladies...


They are free to try what they want, without their male partners around to restrain their true and wild instincts.


A hung black stripper entertaining the young white bride

The internet phenomenon also helped a lot in bringing more information about sex up for everyone.Many people nowadays become aware of their sexual potency by seeing porn over the net. Teens today have faster and easier acess to hardcore porn than ever.


In our modern lives by watching pornography in the internet.

Women are watching a lot of porn too, which inevitably leads to them getting to see those big cocks, the orgasms they provide and compare to what they have experienced in their lives.
Thanks to the modern age, smart phones, digital cameras, tablets and laptops, free public WiFi, girls today now have the greatest access to sexual content then ever before. Couple that with the fact that girls mature faster then guys, add in evolution & Nature to the mix, you have a whole new breed of girls who are confidant, self aware, in touch with their own sexuality, and already know what’s available out there for them to choose from. Likely also why more are going black too then ever before!






"Acidents" happen, specially if you forgot to close a window, or clear your browsing history. Women are nosy and she may find your porn even if it´s hidden...

This only contributes to get them very curious about trying new things.


A young female that is looking the action in the screen.

Some horny women will look for and lust for studs with big cocks because of that. Today we have women who are craving for big cocks more than ever, even before their first time with one.


The t-shirt advertises watch she is looking for... They are also more open to masturbation lately...


They may get togheter to party and fuck the whole night on...


Here´s a typical wife, she may look inocent, but she started to discover her true needs, by your incentive...


You started to take photos of her sexyness, day by day, as well as watching porn togheter...


One day she was different, specially sexy and said she had a surprise for you...


and indeed she surprised you with a very big toy, and hornier as you never imagined...
she took all of it, and said she wanted to try a real one someday!



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IV) Seduction Dance and competition

When men and women make love, they exchange more chemical pheromones that are passed during french kissing, and from the man's semen into the woman's vagina. These chemicals cause the couple to become attached to each other.


A creampie in her pussy, full of pheromones and a smile of pure satisfaction at her face.


All that white pussy juice started showing after a few deep strokes. That´s all just .


and juices are also full of pheromones...


A mouthfull of sperm makes she taste the pheromones too!


Sucking them makes them hornier... !

This bond is only as strong as the quality of the match made in the woman's synapsis. A superior male can break this bond and create a new one with her if he can manage to get her to experience his pheromones.

Some women report that some men have a very distinct an "tasty" smell and flavor at their sexes and juices. This is the natural effect of stronger pheromones in her brain, where it activates a lot of pleasure areas...


Women have a strong genetical disposition to submit themselves for Alpha males. It's only natural. ;)

They can?t help all the excitement they feel and s during oral sessions... Art mimics real life facts here as you can see.

She will change and become attached to her new lover. Remember that this process happens quickly if he is more than a better match, also an Alpha Male...



When you separate a man and a woman for a time, the man will build-up both desire for her and also start to have.


Maybe she met him at the club with her friends, maybe after some business dinner, or maybe in the girls nite...

When you and your wife make love for the first time after you have returned from a fishing trip, or after she has been out all day and night with her girlfriends, your ejaculate will almost double in quantity, just on the outside chance that she has been unfaithful, and she has another man's semen swimming inside of her.



That reaction is called the sperm competition reaction, and those orgasms experienced by men who have reunited with their mates are very powerful indeed! Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and it also makes the cock harder, and the balls more productive.

Now, cuckolding is the situation where the female has been unfaithful. If her mate knows or feels this by smelling another male's pheromones in her body, the sperm competition reaction in him will kick in, producing more and more sperm the very next time he is around her, regardless of whether or not they make love.



When you see your wife make it with a superior male, your sperm competition reaction causes you to want to cum, and cum hard. Even though the humiliation and jealousy of what is happening also takes place in your mind, the sperm competition reaction can overcome your feelings of anger and jealousy and can cause intense pleasure by making you cum very hard with a lot of semen! This is the component that causes you to like it when your mate cheats in front of you!

Your body is so compelled to compete with her lover, that ! It's a trick of nature my friends! It's not even a perversion!

Now, more about . Even though she has a mate (you) and she loves you very much, she is still quite vulnerable and open to the pheromones of a super stud, or Alpha Male.

It may sure happen anytime and anywhere, but there are some situations and circumstances (some of them shown in photos) that tend to increase the chances of this encounters to occur. Naughty single and committed girlfriends are a big door for those possibilities to come in. If your partner goes to parties with them and without you it may happen, if she goes to vacations in sunny tropical places it may happen out there, if she goes to a gym in a regular basis it's not even difficult for it to happen.


You may buy or prepare a big chocolate dipped banana with strawberry to see how she finds it. She will have fun!



If she does all of this things it kinda quickly. If you are a normal beta male in a couple and know all this information, it may help you to avoid or encourage them. One way to test the waters is buying her a sextoy:


Maybe she'll shove them deep in front of you...

You better prepare yourself before it happens, because there's always a chance, specially in long term relationships. If a superior male comes along who gives off the right pheromones telling her he is a better match than you, , and her desire to have sex with him will build big time in a blink.



Social life in summer months. Very propitious for pheromone exchanging...
Also good to remember is the fact that many women nowdays exchange a lot of information about these studs, and even introduce them to their best friends...

Did she ever went go topless on a beach? no? Now with her friends at the resort. They're going to grab a lot of male attention, and hopefully a little more than just that.


Big groups of females always tend to get nastier when hanging out togheter. Not only they did some topless sun bathing as togheter and go to a nude beach!



She sent you this picture of her inocently alone at the beach and said she missed you...
But you know she went there with a group of girlfriends and it´s a nude permitted beach...
Also her friend who owns the beach house , and he is bringing his friends over to the beach!


Her girlfriend and her boyfriend. Antoher friend arriving at the nude beach.


When you saw the picture on facebook she told you he was "just a friend", a nice guy... But things started to change and somedays later she called you and said she needed to tell you , that you need to talk...


She told you he was hitting at her in this party on the weekend and she was drunk. Her friends also dared her to check out how big his package really was... So she ended up blowing him at the guests bedroom. She told you his cock was pretty big...


She couldn't resist the urge to check his package out. Her mouth was in seconds after they got to his place.

If they continue to make social contact with one another, eventually she will try to attract him into mating with her. It's her nature and in a most u*********s way (but sometimes dream about and plan the whole thing meticulously). The attraction is mutual most of the times, as in this case we're considering the genetic/physiological matching, leaving the psychological factors aside. The stud will take in the pheromones she is giving off, and the two of them will get hot for each other, building the tension more and more until it becomes for them to finally meet to fuck. There are cases where the stud is very agressive in his seduction strategy and will try to submit the female the fastest as possible, when they feel that the female is available and minimaly curious about his "game". It's a way they find to make their "pheromone presence" stronger in a short time. This may lead to her giving he a blowjob very easily in any place.


Her first time with a strong male.


Just imagine her shock when she first sees his cock... It's bigger flaccid then yours hard! She will get it very hard and compare it mentally with yours.


Some women start to show their submissive side for the studs in a very early step on their relationship. Quick blowjobs at any place are a common practice that is used as a way to consolidate his power and dominance over her.

In this step you may observe a change of behavior in your partner, she may get a little chaotic in your perception but it's just part of the process of letting go her psychological factors and dive into her raw sexual desires and needs.
A stud/bull gives his perspective about a wife that has alredy surrendered herself incounciously, but is still denying her drives to her husband:

"I'll tell you why. It's the very last stage of denial before she gives in completely. She's already decided, and credit goes to you for helping to make sure of that. She knows she's about to transform and this last part of her is trying desperately to hold on and resist. Happens to every wife who's truly devoted, sometimes even right up to the point where my balls first smack on their asses."


She senses that he is going to .

"I swear to you that I will please her and make her experience the joys of her womanhood in ways you never could. She senses that I can, so how could you possibly deny it for her and force her to settle for much less? She deserves it--all woman do--but most especially the one that means so much to you. And if that all isn't enough to convince you, then drop your pants."


She may change her style of clothing and start to go out with her girls more frequently, she will do many things to exhale , to grab the stud's attention. But this reaction is more varied among women, as it's more psychological factor. Maybe she will even want more attention from you, in order to "put out her fire".


She will feel and look more sexy than normal when this naughty seduction process is happening.


Maybe you know or , but she's not dressing to get noticed by you...(she alredy seduced you have you forgot?). There´s a chance she´ll atract a hell lot of attention.


Diving into her inner desires. When a good match is formed it may feel like her first kiss, she will have butterflies in her stomach!


Just one moment before they really get it going, it's all going to be and feel different for both of you after that.



, and bring their procreative powers together.


She couldn't resist the urge to have him inside her ... the chasm swallowed her. Now that she is taken by his huge black cock, !


They also go out in groups, just like the girls... What do you think everyone in the photo is thinking...or even better, what do you think they are going to do? She alredy knew it at the moment the picture was taken and she was soaking wet for them.
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V) Sexually Reprogramed an Alpha Mate

As they make love, a new and strong sexual bond will begin to form and will build up between them and they will exchange . But that's not all!


No wonder you have never seen her pussy like this. You can´t provide this to her.

When your wife makes love with her superior lover, she has serious chances of becoming his mate! He steals her from you! Here's how: as they have sex, she is taking in a lot of his pheromone chemicals; every time they tongue kiss, during any and all the skin to skin contact and from all the fluid exchange that goes on in a sexual relation, even sweat. How many times you have heard about them forgetting completely about wearing condoms ?


His cum is very dense in pheromones that'll get her craving for more and more! Ah, the big orgasms she will be having with him help to do the trick too. ;)



The bond will grow hard as a rock as he pumps his potent sperm in "your" woman, now his mate.


Her body will recognize his superior genetic makeup and will reprogram itself to react to his scent and his sexual attentions more strongly than with anyone else, including you! Her strongest and most enjoyable orgasms will be with the lover who has the superior genes, and 95% of the times has the largest cock and biggest balls.


He is going to fuck her pussy raw and will change her sex organ and her sexual perception for higher standarts.

There's also some chance that she will become completely hooked on having sex with the Alpha stud, which are greater if she hadn't prior sexual encounters with stronger/well-endowed males.
Here´s a small confession of a recently well fucked wife to her husband:

“It was very different. The pleasure was more intense. It felt like it was touching more things inside of me that made me feel good. It reminded me of that dildo you bought me, but Ken’s cock was better because it was real. I don’t know how else to describe it. It was just more intense.”

“The feeling of his cock throbbing inside of my pussy, and knowing that this huge cock was squirting it’s cum into me just put me over the top. That made me cum over and over again. It felt like he was a machine pumping his cum into me. I loved the feeling”



The exact moment of her transformation is unique. She never imagined she could feel those sensations and that . You better start to invest and practice your oral skills, as you be licking her wet cunt more than ever now...


Can you notice the difference? She can feel it inside her...

A big one gets her pussy completely "erected" or "tented" and will strech her womanhood.


She was truly in need of that big one inside her. Can you see the happiness in her eyes?

If that's the case and she's not very experienced in sex and/or has only been with you, you must be extra careful at this point as s.


She to him. She's taken by him, as he reaches places deep in her where you couldn't even touch.

There's no way for a beta male to compete with alpha studs. Checkout the size of those balls! No wonder women enjoy them so much, specially when it slaps their clitoris.
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VI) Physical Changes in her Body

She may also undergo some minor physical changes in her body, in the outer part her pussy lips will get puffier or engorged permanently and the gash of her vulva longer. The inside part of a little bit and become looser to acomodate the larger organ of her new male. As a result she will experience less pleasurable sensations with beta male's smaller organs. The best thing for you to do now is to became a master of oral sex, so you can still have some kinda of sexual relation and proximity with her. It's more of , as most of the times you will be performing cleaning duties, sucking sperm from her pussy.


The tight and right fit between the two lovers causes suction inside her, so when he pulls his cock out her inner walls are pulled also, clinging to his member.


This estimulates her whole clitoral base and pussy lips while the pouding continues bringing her to climax again and again.


His cock will change her body and she'll enjoy every little step of them.


This woman?s pussy has grown, blossoming like a flower... Does it seems like she is enjoying that dick?


Here?s a comparisson between a tight pussy that has never taken a big cock with one . She wants it not only ! The woman in the last picture has taken black for some years... notice the changes in her sexy sex organ...



Most women have a lot of pleasure in going thru this many changes. Even madonna made a song about it! She may cut you off from having sex with her very often, as the novelty of a bigger and better lover goes over her mind and body.


Her gaze reflects pure lust. Can you notice the way her pussy is stretching around his cock? You can bet she loves that!


If you get to watch you will notice how . They completelyCREAM the cock to lubricate it... That?s her , full of her pheromones. Do you wanna lick it?


This is a pussy that has , almost (or maybe ;) ) bigger than your flaccid penis.


Turning the big "O" switch as to speak...


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VII) Consequences

All these factors may lead to consequences such as she leaving you or getting pregnant from him. For many reasons it is fairly obvious for us to know that the stud will impregnate her in a very short amount of time if she's not on the pill or any other type of birth control.


Condoms are not exactly safe in terms of pregnancy as their cock's can easily break them.

She won't even make it thru her first ovulation after getting down with him. A woman's orgasm is meant to pull the semen into her and she is going to when she's with him.


Breeding is easy for them, he can reach deep into her cervix and fill her up with a lot of sperm, right at the entrance of her womb. If they continue to pound the female after climax, .






She will desire him sexually, even if she doesn't like him as a person and still loves you. Her a****l instincts will cause her to . When he is around, her breasts will swell, and her juices will flow. She will also probably look happier and may giggle for no aparent reason. She will begin to give off her own pheromones, and the two of them will become hot for each other all the time, even in front of you! He is her mate now, and that's that!


You´re not her main man anymore! Maybe second and sloppy seconds...

In turn, ! He is programed to have many mates, she is programed to have the best mate. It's human nature. That explains why men struggle with monogamy, and women do too, except that a woman will change partners but will try to maintain just one relationship at a time with the best male possible. The man is always looking to spread his seed around. And men that are better endowed are able to plant their seeds much deeper and cause much more orgasms, which in turn create a suction like contraction inside women?s vaginas.


The difference she get?s on her inside from a large cock versus a normal one;

Now comes the fun part: you react to your wife's lover's pheromones too! Inside every male there exists some female qualities. When you inhale your wife's lover's pheromones, your body is also processing the information about his genes. If you get on your knees and sniff his cock with your wife's scent on it, you will get a hard on.


Her lusty gaze tells it all... get on your knees NOW!


You will have to suck her a lot from these changes on...


If you smell body, you will get a hard on. You are reacting to his superior pheromones mixed with hers. It's a natural reaction.

If you ingest his semen by eating your wife after they had sex or by sucking his cock, the same bonding chemicals that cause her to become hooked on him can cause you to become hooked on him too. You are now her second, beta-male and your female side developes a taste for his spunk. How do you like them apples?


Women tend to enjoy making weaker man submit to them. It is that she'll make you eat his cum from her many and many times.

In fact a lot of women experience pleasure from exerting their new conquered power over weaker males. Many of them report pleasure commanding them to lick their pussies clean. They state they like to include this on the whole cuckolding situation and humiliate their ex-mates by doing so, showing them the evidence of her newfound pleasures and making him experience it by literally eating their love cream!
The two of you (you and your wife) become sub-serviant to him. What a stud he is! The fact that you have been conquered by this superior male makes your wife want him all the more. He has now come (literally too) between the two of you and has stolen your mate. He's also made you like it!



Watching or listening to them make love or smelling and tasting the aftermath of their sexual encounters causes your sperm competition reaction to make loads of sperm, and starts to demand a quick release, and that's what gives you guys "the thrill" of being cuckolded.
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VIII) Sexually submiting to a Cuckoldress or Alpha Female

Women also enjoy all the thrills and consequences of these findings and changes, and if you're lucky enough to evolve your relationship thru this point it may be very pleasurable for both of you. Women enjoy beeing sexually submissive, but they also enjoy and get turned on expressing their power and beeing dominant, specially over beta males. Today many women even use this as a model for their ideal lives: they have a beta male who many times is the provider, while fucking studs on the side for uire sexual fulfillment
You should consider yourself very lucky if you're with a women you truly love and she proposes anyting like this to you, instead of levaing you because you cannot possibly fulfill her sexual needs!


She OWNS you. You are her pet.


You can and even enjoy it, while comprehending that giving her this kind of feelings is . You are not capable of that.


She will hopefully let you watch... Don't forget to always be close to your sweetheart!



Of course all of this is chemical-biological, and has no effect on intellect. The rest is psychology. He is after all, a superior male (physically), so he is a better lover. It's your instinct to compete with him that gets your body in such a hurry to ejaculate. Your body doesn't know that having "staying power" is sexy to your wife, just that it is anxious to get your sperm in the contest. That's why you cum just looking at them, your body "jumps the gun". Staying power is something that is artificial actually, something that can be learned and practiced. In the stone age, men were in a hurry to cum because while they had sex, they were vulnerable to attack by other males.

The inferiority thing is a female trait (that exists in all men, even the studs). You want him to know that he is superior because, after all, he is! It's your female side that is attracted to him also. Remember, all of this is taking place in your charged synapsis, not your concious mind or even a very high level of your sub-concious mind.



It doesn't mean you're gay, or anything like that. He would get the same reactions from a male who was superior to him.The thrill you get out of the humiliation is because of the sperm competition reaction, the penis envy, and the fact that your wife has used her natural selection (Darwin's theory) to pick someone else over you. It's your physical response to it that turns you on, not the mental response. Soon, the emotions of jealousy and humiliation become triggers for the thrilling sensations. That's why feelings of inadequacy and belittlement seem to fuel your desires to be cuckolded.And just because your wife has a physical lover does not neccessarily mean she will leave you or that she will stop liking/loving you. However, it does happen and that's part of the danger, isn't it? After she has "tasted" this alpha forbidden fruit, it?s very unlikely she?ll try to derive any kind of sexual pleasure from your small package. You will have to conform yourself to masturbate watching as she blossons thru her sexual peak.


If you have a solid relationship prior to the new bonding, perhaps she will let you participate or watch her on her sessions with the stud(s).

This will be a familiar , as you will have clean her open pussy of sex juices over and over
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IX) Conclusion

You use your physical response to help with the mental thrill of it all. If you were a weaker person mentally, you wouldn't be able to take them cheating on you, and you would react differently; maybe become violent.To sum it up, you cuckolds are a superior group mentally, but not physically!


You took this picture to help her find a real man to fuck her brains out...

If you two continue to develop your relation and companionship, you will have a new role at her side. The new roles are not limited but specially related to the sexual and physical part or your relationship, you be more like a dear and loved friend or assistant, as you´re not her main mate anymore.


Many cuckold get to register the sexual sessions of their cuckoldresses...


Look at her lustful gaze. She won´t lose respect for you, but as you role in the relation changes, her attitudes towards you are also going to transform. She´ll look to you in a totally different way, as to her you´re more like a boy than a real man.


She might start giving you very dominant stares an will order you to do nasty things for her and her lovers.

Some link references for you to enjoy...

http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/51469938/ns/health-mens_health/t/science-proves-women-men-bigger-penises/#.UWcOaqK-2uI

A small testemony:

"I've had sex with two guys before this last guy that I heard was better than average. I was married for 15yrs faithfully. You girls know how we talk about anything about our men but we tell them we don't tell our friends how big they are. Well my friend openly asked how big he was and I did'nt know. So she told me how to do this without him knowing by making him fully erected and then putting my hand beside it with the fingertips pressed lightly against the pubic bone and remember where his tip ended. Which was wrong to do but later I grabbed a school ruler and messured to the line on my palm and it said 5.25 inches. My first boyfriend was a little smaller cuz I could feel the difference with my ex our first time. I told my friend and she said I was missing out on the feeling that you get when a penis is at least 7"long and 5" around that makes her have a uterine orgasm. I asked her what it feels like and she said I would know it if I had one. I have toys my ex bought me but he made sure they was his size. Recently I met this nice guy my friend set up and when he pulled is pants down and I was nerves cuz it was the same size soft than when my ex was hard. So I did the messure trick and it went past my palm and had to use a little vein as a marker. He was the same thickness as my ex but ended up being 7.5-7.75 to be on the safe side. For the first time in my life I felt my cervix being touched and jarred around form a penis and this intense plessure sensation in my upper tummy to the opening of my vagina. After no longer than 10min doggy style I started to feel a warm tingly sensation through out my whole body. Which felt real close to when I had a orgasm with my clit. But it was building up to something more and I did'nt want it to stop and soon my vagina was pulsating around his shaft until the this huge wave of plessure washed over me and my vagina muscles would contract and release on its own. Plus there was a this nice pressure in my chest I've never felt before. After it died down my body was still lightly shaking and twiching and noticed the covers was a little soaked with a clear slippery liquid. This happen just a week after my husband left me on good terms but he's confused now cuz I told him I wanted him back but after what happen now I don't. I just want to feel that pleasure again but he cant reach that far. Can a another woman plz explain what a uterine orgasm feels like for them and if what happened to me was because of the size? cuz it never happened till I felt these nice pressure points."

from: http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/22974-i-think-i-had-my.html
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Penis Size Matters
ASHLEY LEVINE | MARCH 11, 2010 | 6 COMMENTS
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Penis size matters

I need a big penis to feel sexually satisfied. There, I wrote it. Size matters a great deal to me.

At first I thought that size matters because I liked seeing a big penis. I would have visions of skysc****rs and baseball bats, and think to myself, wow, that’s a really big penis. I wonder how it’ll feel inside me.

And then I even debated over the theory that size matters because I have evolved as a woman to want a big penis because it comes with the belief that the owner of such a huge phallus will be able to impregnate me more easily than peewee.

But then it dawned on me: Size matters because I like big penises. They just feel amazing pressing against my vaginal walls. I never have to worry about not feeling it in certain positions or consistently having to tell this man that his penis is “not too small. No really, honey. It’s just right.”

Telling people why size matters
Whenever the penis topic arises with my girl friends, I am always met with mixed reactions. Some women think I am a big whore and sleep around considering size matters so much to me and I want such a big penis.

And the guys, oh man, the guys think that my vagina must be the size of a subway tunnel considering my penis preferences include the adjectives “big” and “thick.”

Having the size matters talk
But I’m not a whore and my vagina doesn’t rival the Grand Canyon. I’m just a girl who prefers big penises. My MO doesn’t include sleeping with a guy, discovering he has a toothpick for a penis and then bolting midway through faking an orgasm.
What I do is, after a few dates (before we’ve had sex), I bring up the topic of sex with my potential partner. After a mild conversation about what our preferences are, I casually ask how big he is. And in case you’re wondering, yes, they often overestimate. So I guess size matters to men as well.

But I do have a way of getting the truth out of him. I make it clear that size matters a great deal to me and I enjoy a big penis, and I go into detail about the length and girth preferred.
Usually, if a guy doesn’t meet the criteria, he becomes defensive (sometimes angry) and feigns losing interest in me. Others become shy and withdrawn. But the ones who meet the description I provide, lean back, open their legs and ask me if I’d like another drink.



Big penis problems
Of course, big penises aren’t always fists full of fun; they come with their own issues and drawbacks.

To begin with, a big penis is hard to swallow — literally. I’ve had to master the art of simultaneous masturbation and fellatio because I’m a gagger. By the time I’m four inches in, I’m already blocking my airways and he’s wondering when I’m going to take it all down.

As well, in certain sexual positions and during certain times of the month, a big penis sometimes hits my cervix and forces me to stop mid-sex and tend to my soreness.

Small penis experience
But the pros far outweigh the cons because I’ve tried a small penis and I knew from the moment I saw it how much size matters to me. This average-sized phallus wasn’t going to remain on my “to-do” list.

My first sexual experience was with a guy who was about 5” solid and, even though it was my first time, it didn’t hurt the way my friends were saying it would and I didn’t enjoy the experience at all.

But when I met Tony, that’s when I knew what I was lacking in my first relationship. Of course, I didn’t leave my first simply because he had a small penis, but it was part of the grand list of “things I can’t stand about you.”

Tony had it all: brains, beauty, and was hung like a horse. During our first sexual encounter, I had such a powerful orgasm that I cried. Life was coming up orgasms.

When I asked my friends about their penis preferences, they didn’t have much to say… at first. But after I described my experiences to them so openly, many of them began to come out of their shell and revealed their secret desires to go back to the big stuff. So, more often than not, size matters to most women.

Penis size matters
There are certain things that are deal breakers in relationships; if he cheats, steals from me, lies, or has a small penis, it’s not going to last. There’s nothing wrong with a small penis, per se, but sex is a very important part of my relationships and I don’t want to live unhappily. Life is way too short for that.

So finally, what is big? I’d say about 8″ long and 6″ in girth. I like my men solid and strong.

from:
http://datedaily.mate1.com/sex-advice-sexuality/penis-size-matters
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Sound Off: I Like Big Penises and I Cannot Lie
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May
24
2011

Hi.

My name is A Big Butt and a Smile and I am a size queen.

I like big penises. Really big ones. It’s funny though, because I’ve learned that big is relative. I had this conversation with my cousin and a friend of hers and when they said big they meant seven maybe eight inches. When I told them I liked them nine inches or better, the told me I liked to have my uterus rearranged and quickly decided I was secret masochist who liked a little pain with my sex.

Hmmm…there might be some truth to that.

A little pain never hurt anyone. And there is no pain quite like a large penis entering you for the first time. Something about that full feeling that works so well for me. Now granted, all of the men I have slept with haven’t been big ones. Most are definitely above average, one will forever be known as Mr. Coke Bottle Penis (there is a such thing as too big), one was so small that I’ve seen bigger ones on six month olds (no we didn’t have sex, I mean how could we) and one was crooked (never again, those things are dangerous).

But these days. These days I want to have the kind of sex I want to have and one component of that would be to have a nice long, thick penis. One that I could write about and make me wince from making me feel that super delicious pain I enjoy.

So how does one guarantee that the penis she unwraps is the one she’s looking for BEFORE the clothes come off?

You check.

And no I don’t mean you have him whip his penis out (though that works) or have him send you a penis pick (I have a relative who does that), but instead you audition him before the big show. You have him over for a nice pre-sex make out session. I’m a HUGE fan of old school making out. There is no need for every encounter to end with intercourse. The end all be all doesn’t have to be penis meet vagina. You give cars a test run, you should give potential sexual partners one too.

So, you let him know that sex isn’t happening that night, but a little making out will. If he has a problem with that, then he can stay his ass home. No harm no foul. Should all go well however, with a few well placed caresses, you should be able to get a good feel for what he’s working with. And that way n one has to be embarrassed when the clothes come off. I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been known to put folk out of my bed for all sort of things, having the wrong size penis is one of them.

So what say you? Are you a size queen? Do you check the goods before hitting the sheets? Or do you have the chocolate mentality, you never know what you’re going to get?

Sound Off.

from:
http://abigbuttandasmile.com/2011/05/24/i-like-big-penises-and-i-cannot-lie/
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Does Size Matter to Women or Is There More To It?



Does size matter to women? The simple truth? Yes, size does matter. But not in the way you think. Read this to understand how size really matters. By Kayla Kissinger


Have you ever felt self conscious about how well you’re endowed down there?

You’re not alone.

Unless you’re hung like a horse, almost all men have found themselves asking this question through the years.

It starts in the school showers and lasts all the way through their adulthood.

But with all the emphasis that men give their members, does size even matter to women?

[Read: 20 things that turn a girl on sexually or otherwise when she sees a guy]

Does size matter to women?

Well, this is not an answer that can be answered simply with a yes or a no.

As a woman, I can tell you that it’s not just the length of the pole that matters entirely. It’s what you do in the hole that really counts.

Even before we get to the details, here’s something you need to remember. Don’t let your penis decide how much of a man you are.

If you’re a guy with a less than memorable penis size, you could end up shying away from the opposite sex just because you feel less than well endowed down there.

And just imagine how that’ll affect your morale and confidence!

Feel more confident about your assets down there, and focus more on pleasuring her through extended foreplay instead of sending your little guy into the tunnel and waiting for him to work all the magic. [Read: 10 things women want in bed to feel sexy and loved]

After all, your sexual abilities and confidence as a person can definitely compensate for your lack of girth or length any day.

Men, women and their oversized obsessions

Women obsess about the size of their own breasts. They constantly wonder if they’re too small. But as a guy, you don’t always care, do you? Okay, maybe you do. [Read: 8 ways to get any girl you like to notice you]

Some guys are obsessed with big breasts while some guys love breasts anyway they come. But if you fell in love with a girl who’s extremely beautiful, smart and fun, would you still care if her breasts are smaller than average or mosquito bites?

For women, it works the same way with a man’s size down there. If she likes you for who you are, she’d be willing to accommodate your less than satisfactory package.

But then again, if she does find out that she’s dating a guy with a bigger penis, she’d obviously be happy to know that. It feels great to date a man who’s well endowed down there. And just the thought of something that big going into her can excite her or even turn her on! [Read: How to make a girl want you sexually]

And let’s face it, a girl gets bragging rights if the sizes conversation ever does come up with her own girlfriends on a drunken night.

So does size matter to women? Well, even if a small penis functions just as well when it has to do its job, she would definitely prefer an average or a slightly above average one over a tiny one for all the other reasons.

What’s the average size of a male member?

There’s no hard and fast rule about the size of a penis. But to put your mind at ease, anywhere between five to six inches is definitely considered average. Anything less than that and you’d get a sympathetic smile. Anything more than that, and she’ll plaster a wide smile of awe that is directly proportional to the length of your penis!

Almost everyone in the world is average, so don’t fret about it. Girls are fine with an average sized member. All said and done, being average is okay, but when you’re too small, it can be quite a letdown when she slips her hand in and find’s a baby penis in your shorts. You know what, it may even freak her out! [Read: Are attractive girls actually mean to guys?]

Does a big penis make a difference while having sex?

Do girls like a big member while having sex? Well, this is the most confusing part of all. Many girls are happy to snuggle with an average member, while many other girls want something that’s way bigger than just the average.

Some girls say a bigger penis means better sex, while other girls hate a big member because it hurts them. So what’s the deal here?

Does the size of a man’s member actually affect the outcome of sex?

The truth – Yes, the penis size does matter

The size of a man’s penis definitely does matter when it comes to having sex. And your size does play a huge role in whether you’ll be able to help your woman orgasm better.

There, I’ve said it! Size definitely does matter to women. But then again, it’s really not in the way you think.

If you have a considerably big penis, you may have experienced this. Some girls love the way you feel inside them. And some girls may actually cringe in pain and ask you to slow down or avoid penetrating fully. So what’s happening here? The same penis brings pleasure to some girls, but hurts other girls? Isn’t that weird? [Read: 10 ways to build sexual tension with a girl you like]

Kama sutra and the sizes

The Kama sutra is a manual of love written over 2000 years ago in India by a man named Vatsyayana. In one of the chapters on sexual union, he explains about the division of men into three kinds based on the size of their lingam (penises). Additionally, he also divides women into three types based on the depth of their yoni (vulva) *the depth of the yoni here signifies the depth of the vagina*.

According to the Kama sutra, based on the size of his lingam, a man can either be a hare, a bull or a horse. And a woman, based on the depth of her yoni, can either be a female deer, a mare or a female elephant.

And the outcome and pleasure of sexual union between a man and a woman can be determined by these divisions.

Men (size of the lingam) - Women (size of the yoni)

Hare (small lingam) - Deer (short yoni)

Bull (average lingam) - Mare (average yoni)

Horse (large lingam) - Elephant (deep yoni)

The sexual union between a hare man and a deer woman, a bull man and a mare woman, and a horse man and an elephant woman would lead to more pleasurable orgasms and a better sexual union than any other type of combinations of men and women. These three unions are called equal unions or perfect unions.

On the other hand, if a horse man penetrates a deer woman, that is, if a man with a longer member penetrates a woman with a short vagina, it’ll end up causing discomfort to the woman. The only way around this is for the man to penetrate her halfway or to the point where she is comfortable.

Another scenario is when a hare man penetrates an elephant woman. In this case, a man with a short member penetrates a woman with a deeper vagina. In this case, the woman may never be able to experience heightened orgasms or sexual satisfaction with him because the man would never be able to reach deeper into her. [Read: The step-by-step guide to having tantric sex for the first time]

Sizes and pleasurable sex

According to the Kama sutra, if a male’s erect member goes through the vagina of a female and touches the entrance to the cervix when the vagina is penetrated *the cervix is the opening to the uterus*, it leads to powerful orgasms and a much better sexual experience.

So does size really matter? Now you know that it definitely does. And the constant confusion over a few women saying size doesn’t matter and size does matter can actually be answered by keeping the Kama sutra in mind.

An elephant woman with a deeper vagina would definitely prefer a horse man with a longer member. While a deer woman with a shorter vagina may be fascinated by a large erection, but she’ll be able to experience the best sex with someone like a hare man who has a small member. [Read: How to sit next to a girl and make her horny]

Big isn’t always better. Small isn’t always snug.

Of course, we can’t all go measuring the lengths and depths each time we date someone. And you can’t really figure the sizes of someone’s privates by just looking at them.

But at the end of it all, when you do have sex with someone, what matters is how comfortable both of you are down there while having sex. If it’s too big for her, you’ll hurt her. If it’s too small for her, she won’t feel what she wants to feel. [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

A guy who feels small about himself down there may actually be able to give better orgasms to many girls than a guy who’s hung like a horse. [Read: How to hook up with a girl you just met and have sex with her]

So however well or less than well endowed you are down there, fret not, there’s a perfect match or an almost perfect match in all of us. Just as long as you avoid the contrasting opposites as a sexual partner, you’ll definitely have a great time in bed.

So how do you recognize a contrasting sexual partner? Well, just have sex. You’ll know the next morning, won’t you?!

[Read: How to get a girl who's a friend to have sex with you]

So if you’re still wondering about the big question now, does size matter to women, well, you do know that big is not always the best, after all. A perfect match is way better!




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‘What’s that?!?!’ ‘It’s a toy, honey.’ [So why object to that?] Why toys? ‘Why not, honey — it might be better, honey.’ Why – because it’s bigger? ‘Say, that’s a good idea honey … I was thinking about it never getting tired’ [A lie, but not a bad one …]. ‘But once you’re used to it [i.e., you’re going to use it repeatedly], then you’ll know if bigger is better]. ‘Well why did you get such a big toy?’ ‘Well it was on sale/only average by the others in the store [pick the line of your choice]. Or say, ‘why buy a duplicate of what she already has!’

Explain that but for the disadvantage of getting tired, a real penis is always better than a plastic dildo. It’s the same temperature as her body, it’s 100% natural in movement, etc., and a real one can feel if it’s starting to bump her cervix. Explain that you’ll need her to tell you if you’re going too deep and start striking her cervix.’ Telling her this gets her thinking up front about ‘how a real one is better…’

Let her get used to it.
Let her learn to like it.
Let her come to expect it.
And when it knocks off her socks …
Then you ask her if she’s ‘getting used to it …’

And after a few more times…

‘So … did I bring home the “right one?”’

Once a woman is hooked on the regular use of a dildo, it seems to take about a year at the most until her body starts demanding real. Of course 6 months along the way, you decide to upgrade the 7″er to a 8-9″er, since she’s ‘used’ to it [and seems to like it]. If the experience repeats itself, I suspect she’ll be ready for about anything by the time the year’s finished

Clever Fool

from:
http://www.sexualmusings.com/introducing-my-wife-to-my-black-cock-fantasy/

strategy to go black:

Guide to getting your girl blacked


Hi I'm not the writer of this but thought it would be good to share guide how to convince your wife or girlfriend to fuck a black guy?

There are so many stories out there from white guys who admit that they want to see their wives and girlfriends whore for black cock or who want a "slut wife" that they can whore out to groups of black guys. I just can't believe so many guys don't know how to make actually make it happen and so I offer this formula that has worked for me and several of my friends that shared mutual interests.

First, you should know that when it comes to black cock, there are three kinds of women:

* One group will never, ever try it, no matter what you say or do. If your wife or girlfriend is in that category and you have these desires, you'd better find yourself a whore or a new girl.

* Another group is women who will whore for black cock no matter what you say or do. If you introduce her to black cock, don't ever think of changing your mind, because she'll do anything to cheat on you and whore for black cock every chance she gets so you have to be prepared that this could happen to you.

* The third group is women who would probably enjoy whoring for black cock if they were only given a slow introduction that somewhere down the line lets them know they have your permission to be a nasty little whore. Guys with these women are by far the largest group of men out there.

If you really want your wife to be a slut for black cock, you have to take it slowly but HAVE A PLAN! One of the more successful methods is to begin to frequently bring home videos that exclusively have interracial scenes in them. Whatever you do, and you want to be successful, don't start off by showing her an aggressive group of black guys gang-fucking a white slut! You should work your way toward that though, over a period of several weeks, since that should be your ultimate goal in turning her into a total slut for black cocks, but you need to start off slowly.

When you first begin and you're watching an interracial scene in a video, its very important to let her know how much it turns you on -not by telling her, but by showing her! Assuming that as you watch the videos, you're making love to her by kissing and caressing her, slowly, make sure her pussy gets wet as you play with her, then begin to eat her pussy more aggressively as interracial scenes are showing, and when you strip her and begin to fuck her, make sure you try to fuck her deeper and harder than you do when you're not watching an interracial video.
Let the way you "work her" while watching black men using white women, leave no doubt in her mind that seeing that pretty white whores doing black cock really makes you hot and results in her getting better sex.

Then make sure that when you make love without the interracial videos, it's not as pleasurable for her. If you do this right, she'll be suggesting or begging that you watch interracial videos on a regular basis.
As time goes on and you know she has gotten the connection between the level of satisfaction she gets when watching interracial videos, that's when you begin to show her more explicit videos, eventually involving multiple black cocks, gang bangs, anal, and some serious whoring for black men by white housewives!

It might be at this point that you introduce a large black dildo into your lovemaking so that she can see what big black cocks feel like. Its important that when you do this you do everything to see that her pleasure is increased, including bringing her to multiple orgasms with the dildo, your cock, and your mouth until she can't stand it and pushes you away!

The next step is a little more difficult, but by this point you should have found a way to verbalize how hot it makes you feel to see the white sluts in the videos with black cocks. Then as you're making love and using the black dildo on her, you should let her know that you've fantasized about seeing her in that situation with a real black cock. Don't look for her to agree to anything right away and maybe she won't even respond or will say she could never do that! It will take a little time, but if you're patient and continue to see that the only time she is totally satisfied is when you're watching interracial videos and talking about how much you'd like to see her with the real thing, eventually she'll get comfortable with the idea and start fantasizing about it herself.
Talk to her and continue to tell her how much you'd like to see her and ask her to admit that she'd like it. If she says she won't do it, or doesn't respond after a few weeks of super sex and multiple orgasms, you should just stop and leave her "high and dry" and not bring her to orgasm. If she asks what's wrong, tell her that you really had hoped she would share your fantasies and when she is so firmly opposed, it turns you off. It won't take long until she will tell you what you want to hear and begin to really fantasize herself!

At that point, you should begin to bring home some swingers magazines such as UnReal People, Cocoa and Creme, or Taboo that feature white women looking for black cock. Don't shove them in her face, but leave them laying where she'll know you were reading them but didn't necessarily want her to find them. Its important to mark them in some manner so that you know she found them and has looked at them. She may make it easy and ask you about them right away, but if not, you have to be prepared to tell her that you know she has been reading them and ask what she thinks.

Have her read some of the nasty letters in Taboo, or the true life stories in UnReal People. Again, if she shows interest, see that she is well satisfied sexually, if not, leave her to get horny but don't give her any release!
The most ideal situation is if you can get her to a place where she can actually see a white slut doing black cock in person! There are a couple of ways to do this from taking her to a integrated swingers club where I guarantee you she'll be able to see the white women there being well satisfied by the black members. Another way is to contact an interracial couple and tell them the predicament you're in and ask for their help. One way this has been successful in the past has been when an interracial couple has agreed to meet them at XXX-rated theaters. If you can get your wife or girlfriend to go to an xxx-theatre and have the couple agree to be there with maybe one or two of their other black friends, you're on your way for sure.
The guy and his wife sit in an agreed upon location in the theatre without her knowing things were set up, then watch the movie for a short while. In a short time, the interracial couple and her black friends come and sit near the guy and his wife, and one of the black guys starts to work on the white female with them. First he may just start deep-kissing, then he might expose her tits and finger her, and before long, she might drop to her knees and begin sucking and playing with their cocks, oblivious to those around her, and giving everybody including the guy and his wife a real show.

The guy should keep watching and let his wife know he's getting turned on just like they do at home when they're watching the interracial videos. Before long, she won't be watching the screen; she'll be staring at the slutty white whore shamelessly sucking two thick, black cocks. At this point, the guy can whisper to his wife and encourage her to go over and join the slut and her black lovers. A little pushing to encourage her and maybe the slut could motion for her to come closer. The guy says they should move closer even if she isn't going to join.

I've seen situations move in many different directions from this point. One woman became a little frightened and left (although she came back to the theatre by herself two weeks later looking to see if the slut and her lovers were around). Some women just stay where they are and their husbands finger them or lick their pussies, while they watch the action, usually with the husband telling them how beautiful it is to see the white woman with the black men. (These women are usually only a few weeks away from the actual experience.) And, surprisingly, some women after coming closer and sitting one or two seats away, finally give in to their desires and join the white slut and her black lovers; and when this happens, their husbands usually are very vocal in telling them how very happy they have made them. Once this has happened, they will never go back, and these women usually become whores for black cock from that day on!

Another place couples interested in watching before they participate can go is the XXX-rated book stores with peep booths in the back. The husband should find one that has adjacent booths where you can watch the people in the next booth from across the isle, or better yet, if he can find the ones that have glory holes where guys can stick their cocks through to suck, these are the best.

Again the husband could arrange to take his wife there and arrange to have an interracial couple go there at a predetermined time. Once again, the entire scene should appear very spontaneous to the woman. Sometimes, they decide to first notice each other in the book store/video rental section. After watching the white slut and her black lover do a little teasing and exhibitionist play, they usually move to the video booth section, where they enter a booth and the husband and wife enter the adjacent one.

They usually watch as the black man or men work the slut over for a little while, and then the guy can usually get his wife pretty hot as they watch. By the time the black guy sticks his thick, black cock through the glory hole in the couples booth, the wife is usually ready to suck him off while her husband fucks her and tells her how beautiful she looks and how much he loves her. Often, his wife ends up in the booth with the black man and tastes the real thing in her pussy for the first time while her husband watches. Again, there is no turning back after she's had a big thick black cock in her pussy and her husband now has a full fledged slut for black cocks for the rest of his life!


The only thing I would warn guys about is to not pursue this unless you're really sure you want your wife to be a whore for black cock. Like any extremely pleasurable experience, its very difficult to give it up once you've tried it and I guarantee that she will find it pleasurable as only a black man can make a white woman feel. A return to anything else seems mundane and she won't be able to stop.
But if you're really sure this is what you want, "Do it and do it now without delay!"

It takes some planning and a little work, but the first time you see a couple of black guys strip your wife, work her nipples and clit as they undress her ...

The first time you see the nervous look in her eyes as she looks for your approval, knowing she's so turned on that she couldn't stop anyway ...

The first time you see a black hand slip up your wife's milky white thighs under her skirt to her soaking wet pussy and finger her within minutes of meeting her in a dark restaurant or hotel bar ...

The first time you see her on her knees as that thick, black cock glides past her lips and you know its her greedy mouth's saliva making that black skin shine ...

The first time you see that long, thick, black cock meat sliding into your wife's open cunt, thoroughly soaking his dick with her cum as you watch her eyes roll back into her head as he brings her to multiple orgasms like you could never do ...

The first time you see her take a long thick black cock in her mouth, pussy and ass at the same time, begging them to fill her with their potent black sperm ...

The first time you watch her dress to go out, knowing she's dressing like a total slut because she's going to get that black cock that she's been thinking about all day ...

The first time she comes home at 5 a.m. thoroughly fucked and coated with dried cum all over her and you put your hand under her skirt and feel the soaking wet panties she put back on to keep the massive amounts of cum from running down her legs ...

The first time you smell and taste the cum on her face, her hair, her tits, and you know she's been whoring all night ...

The first time you see her in a black bar being passed from one guy to another as they dance slowly with her, running their hands all over her on the dance floor and every guy in the place knowing your wife's a whore for black cock ...

The first time you see your wife enter a room full of black guys because she's being whored out by a special black guy who really knows how to please her ...

The first time you watch her get fucked all night long, guys cumming in her and all over her ...

The first time you watch her begging for more and more black cock as guys tease her with the tip of their big black cocks, putting them at the entry to her pussy, then withdrawing them again and again while she begs for them to fill her ...

The first time you hear her admit over and over that she's a total whore for black cock...
... then you will know that all your effort, time and care will have been well worth it.

Once you've had this experience, then you can write and tell the world what a lucky guy you are and know that you are envied by so many others out there who didn't have the courage or who were married to women that will never live up to their fantasies!







here is Lesson #1 in it's entirety(i didn't write this, btw)

If you really want your girl to be a slut for black dick, you
have to take it slowly, but HAVE A PLAN!! One of the most
successful methods is to begin to frequently bring home videos
that exclusively have interracial content in them. If you want
to be successful at this manipulation don't start showing her
an aggressive group of black guys gang-fucking a white slut!
You should work your way towards that though, over a period of
several weeks, since it will give you a bench mark of how far
she is turned on by the idea, and also depend on whether your
ultimate goal is turning her into a total slut for black
dicks. But what ever your boundary is, you need to start off
slowly and remember to approach the situation in a jovial
fashion. Joking her along about "How about having a black guy
then" and seeing what her reactions are etc.

When you first begin and you're watching an interracial scene
in a video, it's very important to let her know how much it
turns you on, not by telling her, but by showing her! Assuming
that as you watch the videos, you'll make love to her by
kissing and caressing her, slowly, make sure her pussy gets
wet as you play with her. Then begin to eat her pussy more
aggressively as interracial scenes are showing. And when you
strip and fuck her, try to make sure that you fuck her harder
and deeper than you do when you're not watching an interrace
video.

Let the way you 'work her' whilst watching black men using
white women leave her in no doubt that seeing that pretty
white whore doing black dick really makes you hot and results
in her getting better sex.
Then make sure that when you make love without the interracial
videos that it's not as pleasurable for her.
If you do this right, she'll be suggesting or begging that you
watch interracial videos on a regular basis. As time goes on
and you know she has got the connection between the level of
satisfaction she gets when watching interracial videos. That's
when you begin to show her more explicit videos, eventually
involving multiple black dicks, gangbangs, anal and some
serious whoring for black guys by white housewives!

It would be a good idea at this point or earlier if you think
she's ready for it, that you introduce a large, thick black
dildo/vibrator into the love making, so she gets to feel what
big black dicks are like. But for Christ sake, when
penetrating it first off, do it slowly and carefully, maybe
lubricating it with saliva or lube jell. You don't want to put
her off the size, because this could go against you in the
later stage of actually suggesting she try black!
Its important that when you use the black dildo/vibrator you
do everything to see that her pleasure is increased, including
bringing her to multiple orgasms with the dildo, your cock and
your mouth, until she can't stand it and pushes you away!

The next step is a little more difficult, but by this point
you should have found a way to verbalize how hot it makes you
feel to see the white sluts in the videos with black dicks.
Then as you're making love and using the black dildo on her,
you should let her know that you've fantasized of seeing her
in that situation with a real black dick. Try and say it in a
'matter of fact' style.
Don't look for her agreement at all at this stage just let her
know it's a fantasy of yours. She might not respond verbally
at this stage, but you can be sure the train of thought will
run through her mind. She might even say she could never do
that! It will take a little time, even some time, but if
you're patient and continue to see that the only time she is
totally satisfied is when you're watching interracial videos,
using the black dildo and talking about how much you'd like to
see her with the 'real thing'. Eventually she'll get
comfortable with the idea and start fantasizing about it
herself.
Encouraging her to use the big black dildo/vibrator when
you're not around might help reinforce the fantasy.

Joke about the situation to her, pass comments to her whilst
in the car and in town when seeing a black guy. Let her know
it's a bit of fun but it's a real turn on for you. Getting
visibly hard through your trousers in these situations will do
the most to convince her, this isn't just fantasy for you and
her in the bedroom, that its reality. Really turns you on to
the idea of seeing real black guys with her.

Talk to her and continue to tell her how much you'd like to
see her do it, and ask her to admit that she'd like it. If she
says she won't do it, or doesn't respond after a few weeks of
super sex and multiple orgasms, you should just stop and leave
her 'high and dry' and not bring her to orgasm. If she asks
what's wrong, tell her that you really had hoped she would
share your fantasies and when she is so firmly opposed, it
turns you off. It won't take long until she will tell you what
you want to hear and begins to really fantasize herself!

By this time you should be seriously thinking about bringing
the whole experience to fruition. This will involve some deep
subtlety and manipulation followed by swift decisive and
forceful action to secure your new lifestyle (and by this I
don't mean getting some black guy to **** her!).

Introducing her to interracial swing sites on the net, placing
ads informing of possible sexual liaisons between your wife
and black guys at some future date, letting them know that at
this stage although committed to the idea that you both are
going easy until you've found the right guy for her first
black experience. Get her to chat personally and privately to
a black guy, you've vetted and therefore he has got to first
base. Let him know what maybe in the offing so that he can
happily help manipulate and seduce her on-line. Helping to
reinforce those desires that have found a newly opened door in
her mind. Remember she doesn't have to know that you've been
contacting any black guys, just let her get talking to some
you've vetted privately in a chat room on Yahoo or Excite.
This can bring pleasures on all of its own, but don't get
stuck at this point if she's getting of on the idea of bbc and taking bbc dildos ect just get her wasted take her out get her drunk go back to yours or a hotel blindfold her and have a black guy take over from you and surprise her remember alcohol always brings out a white girls inner slut lol

From user http://pt.xhamster.com/user/Shakeaspear :

"An early thirty-something couple, now done having our babies, two little beauties.
Ready to experiment with fantasies, maybe???. ... Flirting and petting with other attractive couples.

Love going out to the clubs and have her dress sexy, flirt with certain black men is especially appealing and fun, dancing, romantic innuendo and flirting, we are role playing, with the fantasy idea of one day extending an invitation and all access pass for him to entertain her in the bedroom. Not that it would happen we just wanted to fuel our scenarios where I would play the part.

More and more our foreplay in the bedroom involved, how hot it looked when she was dancing and looking so sexy getting her groove on and being pursued by a black man, as he suggestively touches her and they grind together simulating what could happen in the bedroom. A new man or men every few weeks when we could arrange the opportunity to have a night on the town would have the opportunity to have the lovely blonde honey in his arms. She certainly enjoyed the dancing part, and I was the one who promoted the fascination with the whole hot-wife genre.

All the encouragement I gave her was solely for the purpose of heating up and providing additional fuel to ignite the fire in our bedroom between the two of us.

Last night was different, at the club she was openly grinding and kissing her tall and fit dance partner, loving being held in his muscular dark arms. Her diamond ring was sparkling as she danced almost solely with him, sometimes joining him at his table, enjoying private conversation. He boldly intimated to her he had prior highly successful experience guiding other white couples into the lifestyle. I had to admit they looked hot dancing together. It was unique spending most of the evening on the periphery as a voyeur.

She made sure I could see them kissing exchanging tongues, as he held her in his muscular black arms.

It is hard to explain the emotions and impressions of observing your partner and love of your life accepting and even encouraging the rising amorous advances from another man.

Eventually inviting him to our home, after one drink in the living-room where she was almost exclusively engaged in conversation with him, letting him glimpse her cleavage and thighs, she barely looked at me. She had on her tiny black club dress, black matching push-up bra and thong. Then she kissed him passionately they exchanged tongues deeply in a choreographed tango, she suddenly stood and took his hand and methodically led him to our master bedroom and locked the door.

I never thought she would go through with this she was going to take this further then I could ever imagine. Before entering the bedroom she gave me a stare, her face was radiant with a profound expression, as if to claim, "you have to be careful about what you wish for." Thankfully the k**s were at their Grandmothers.

I think she believes she will hold more power over me by by excluding my visual stimulation, but I also believe she was following his request and direction and lead. They knew I wanted to observe, but I think he wanted to control both of us, but mostly he wanted her to break free of all her inhibitions and establish psychologically his ongoing place with her in our bed. He wanted to secure his position and ongoing privileged rank and authority in our bedroom. He had informed her that he had enlightened other couples forever transforming the expectations of those lovely wife's pussy.

She likes to be romanced, she will insist on privacy in the candlelit bedroom, some cool soulful jazz playing, Egyptian cotton sheets as cool as the other side of the pillow await a special man. When she feels an attraction she becomes the most giving and gracious lover one could ever find. Locked out I could only imagine her conclusive and secretive seduction as his big dark hands stripped her naked.

Honestly I was jealous, so far we had just played and fantasized about it, now she was prepared to share and let him experience her perfectly toned body and her natural beauty in full blown glory. Now that it was going to happen the two of them were going to deny me the pleasure of observing him touching her.

It had been at my initiative telling her hot it would be watching another man touch her intimately, over time to increase the drama our whispered private fantasies revolved around a very endowed black man entering into the picture.

As a post vasectomy safe couple we both fear and are excited in our pillow-talk by the reality of a broken condom or the possibility of her overheated behavior if she finds herself really attracted to this man in allowing him to proceed sans condom, bareback and unprotected sliding inside her receptive pussy, when we fantasized scenarios together. She desires full on intimacy with no barriers.

She is in there granting him a rare, enviable and exclusive birds-eye view of her supple breasts, and lovely blonde landing strip, her attentively erect peaking out clitoris, and her pink engorged damp lips, letting him soak it all in. Her body signals her open invitation to him.

Slowly the distinct sounds tell the tale. They make intense romantic love, breaking into bouts of him fucking her without mercy testing her endurance as her body absorbs the most intense orgasms of her life, then back to tender heartfelt bonding intimacy. There is very little sleep as they repeat their bouts of passion, at times I hear the most sexually graphic rap music accompanying their own coarse dialog.

The two of them had demonstrated a remarkable communal rhythm dancing and he now applied that enchanting magnetism to the bedroom, moving with her in ideal unison, cultivating her expanding passion and pleasure.

At times it seemed the walls were shaking, the mattress was creaking and the headboard was slamming. The incredible fast pace slapping of flesh as she rode him with a demon's rhythm gyrating her magic pelvis.

Relegated to the guest bedroom I am haunted throughout the long night with their vocal cries of heated passion, some of it racially charged as they explored the taboo dynamic. She is enjoying being so out of her conventional character, tonight she wants to be his uninhibited whore, I hear her imploring him to take ownership of her wet tight pussy.

He had obviously struck a hidden chord with her introducing her to a new and raw sexuality laced with all the colorful flavors, stressing the taboo nature, savoring the cultural indoctrination, making her familiar with the interracial mystique. What was going on in that bedroom was explosive, I heard them both shouting the "N" word exploiting all the overtones of a white married lady inviting a black man into her bedroom. He had unleashed her dirty little hidden secret.

Her involuntary cooing noises provided confirmation she absolutely adored the way he was doing her, she would express her gratitude by bestowing her genuine affection upon him demonstratively.

For a multitude of reasons I was audibly witnessing her getting her freak on, normally self reserved she was tonight letting her freak flag fly. She had leaped with both feet into the actuality of the Hot Wife genre. The echelon of pleasure and desire she was reaching was a sweet mixture so radical and rigorous almost bordering on pain.

At times you might have thought that he was killing her, the violent nature would soon be resolved by her encouraging banter, as deep seated orgasms reached there peaks and valleys. His stamina was incredible, a perpetual hard-on, showing her a whole new level of intensity.

Will she fulfill our pillow-talk fantasy and wrap her well toned white thighs and arms around him and plead for him to finish their lovemaking by coming inside her?

My wife has only been with three other men. He had worked her up into such a hyper sexual frenzy she worshiped him and from the sounds she was giving him everything, at one point from his description she was even darting her tongue up his black ass.

Some of the coarse involuntary language leads me to believe they are rocking each others world, he is in fact having her cheating married white pussy bareback without protection, and she is bestowing him the ultimate honor by receiving his potent seed from his bare black cock. It frightens the hell out of me imagining him ejaculating his hot bursts of perilous come deep inside my wife. I do not recall her ever being so vocal coming for him at least a dozen times.

Ultimately leaving us with the dilemma of complete disclosure of our one night of scandalous behavior, taking our game to far, together we will face the telling dark fruit for allowing a high stakes game of Russian roulette to be wagered in her fertile pussy.

She confesses the following morning, that he indeed awakened and scratched a deep dark need in her pussy causing her to be inflicted with an incurable case of rampant jungle fever, and she intends to date him. Her eyes are bright and her face is flush as she declares the merits of a really big man delighting her enlightened pussy! Unapologetic, she declares her sense that having him totally occupy her and surrendering to him emancipated her and she wants him to make her feel that way again soon.

She stood before me defiantly confident indicating I was equally responsible.

She proclaimed he knew exactly when and where to touch her, and her response was amplified when she absorbed the visual contrast of his dark skin, and even more pronounced when the head of his penis crested deliciously in the virgin territory of her vagina that only he has exclusively traveled in. She claimed both her mind and body felt electric as she comprehended the ramifications of what she was doing.

I had heard her a few minutes earlier escort him to the front door, it was apparent he was just kissing and utilizing his hands to caress her now very familiar naked flesh underneath her robe as they prolonged his departure by at least five minutes. Apparently they had not gotten enough after practically fucking throughout the entire night. That bastard must be grinning ear to ear having the good fortune to have a beautiful woman, another mans wife granting him no bars intimacy.

She had carefully chosen a man of color to make the situation much more dramatic understanding a third c***d with darker features would raise many eyebrows. Would are marriage survive her sudden escalation and everlasting and altered status?

The novel enthusiastic guttural sounds she made, her open raw passion, the way she relished as he dominated and subjugated her sinful white flesh would be etched in my brain forever. Hell she may have even submitted to the chance he could impregnate her.

She opens her short silky white robe exposing her corrupted white flesh to me, her budding nipples are swollen, distended and fuller then I have ever seen them, he marked the flesh of her tits with his big lips, she shifts her thighs and her fully engorged labia is throbbing and gaped open, glistening, actually sparkling with dew. She presents me with the indisputable creamy evidence of her first dark infidelity. He did come inside her, she took it upon herself to escalate our previous flirtations with the hot-wife game. She allowed him to darken our world.

She wanted me to fully soak in the sinful condition of her decadent hot flesh, fresh with her decision to take our private fantasy to fruition. She stood there basking in the deep gratification she had achieved. She never looked more feminine, absolutely aglow, then it dawned on me she was exhibiting the swollen erogenous zones of a woman in estruses. She was clearly satisfied with her conclusion to live this out fully.

She stared at me smugly, conveying that my insistence on playing these games had driven her into the arms of her first black lover, and he put an abrupt end to the games, by taking control and consummating fantasies and turning them into reality.

She had also purposely decided to deny me any participation or even the consideration of observing her in the act that had dominated my fantasies. She must have looked incredibly beautiful and vulnerable with her naked white flesh molded into his powerful dark body.

She stood there before me silently taunting me, letting me take in her her vagina was teeming with her black lovers semen, wanting me to fully absorb there are consequences to the games I encouraged her to play. She had turned our bedroom into a playground.I knew she had been purposely vocal all night to highlight for me she was entertaining her new black lover. It was as if she was non-verbally saying to me, "this is what you should have known was going to happen constantly encouraging these role-playing games, so deal with the consequences."

Then with a mocking projection of false modesty, she calculatingly utilized her hand with the sparkling diamond and ring of our pledged fidelity to cover and shield her deceitful vagina,with the abundant and visible viscous corroborating evidence. The expression on her face was a contrived remorse, but the sparkle in her eyes matched the gratification radiating from her JayJay.

The fact that our birth control for the past few years was my vasectomy was exasperated by the potent and fertile fluids, she was mockingly attempting to conceal.

Her bright eyes spoke volumes as if to say, all those nights I encouraged her to dress provocatively, the way I promoted that she flirt and dance with a specific type of man, so I could take voyeuristic pleasure, had led us to this time and place with her fertile vagina teeming with another mans sperm.

I am both excited and resentful that she shared herself without reservation making the choice to allow him to become her lover. As she sashayed away claiming she was going to take a long hot bubble bath, she casually mentioned she accepted his offer for a future date a few moments ago while they were embracing in our front doorway.

She fully intended to see him again, she was escalating our game to a new intense level, signaling she would entertain him again in our bed, granting him bareback privileges.

I could not help but recall some of her desperate vulgar vocalizations that echoed through the walls throughout the prior evening, especially about how he now owned her white pussy.

How does she plan to change the dynamics in our bedroom?

A very potent and fertile revelation or fantasy.....!"

" Have for many years been drawn to cuckolding. I fantasize often about my beautiful middle aged wife being serviced by a man much larger than me while I watch and occasionally run my hand up his wet shaft feeling him enter my wifes tight vagina!! I believe I could handle an occasional tryst.
strokin54
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I have always been bi and submissive to hung men; but it was my wife (then girlfriend) who turned me on to cuckoldry. We started dating and were really into each other, but after we had been together sexually a few times, she confessed that I did not measure up to her desires or needs and she wanted to break-up. I begged her to stay together as a couple but invited her to enjoy her superior sexuality with others. Needless to say, we are still together and she is still getting the sex she needs.
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""First off, NSFW

I can answer this one fairly first hand. My first wife and I (which will become apparent in a moment why I label her as that) had a cuckold relationship. This means she had lovers and I did not and we both liked it that way.

Her main boyfriend (now her husband) started having relations and I found out he was almost double my dimensions (I know many will say impossible but later I saw it myself) I'm just under 5″ and he's in the 9 range. It started out she would come home after 3 hours of heavy sex with him and and literally couldn't feel me but complained it was downright painful for the first half hour of having sex with him. She felt so loose (but wonderful to me). Think like warm chunky soup, there was something there but zero resistance. The next day however or a couple days later it would be 100% back to normal.

As their relationship furthered he eventually moved in and they would have sex 5–6 nights a week. When he would leave for a few days or even a week for work and I once again had access and she was completely different down there. She would tell me that when they first got together it would always take quite a few minutes for her to adjust to him, now it didn't, he just went in after a little warming up. They had a break at one point and even after a few months of only sex with me she was still far more loose than before her boyfriend came into our lives. Before they started having sex I could make her orgasm easily with my member. By the time he moved in it it would never happen again without oral and fingers. She just said it wasn't enough friction and on my end there wasn't much either.

This experience leads me to believe that the vagina was created to fit and enjoy her husbands penis. It is elastic certainly and will go back to “normal” state of you have the odd large toy or encounter but repeatedly stretching the elastic over months or even years will make her vagina have a new “normal” state. This is a good thing, if a woman marries a person who is very well endowed, it shouldn't be painful all her life, her vagina eventually adjusts to him. What might be interesting would be whether it would ever go back, let's say over a year or so, but as you can guess I never found out.

Anyways I believe this can also be a warning flag to anyone pursuing a fetish, sometimes when you play with the devil, you get burnt. That was quite a while back but boy writing this makes it easy to see why I'm on to my 2nd (very monogamous) marriage.

Cheers

Update, in the comments section I have put my full story in case anyone is interested.
Updated 21 Jun · View Upvotes"

""I’ve read the answers about how and why vaginas do not stretch out from having sex with larger penis’s. I agree that they do not stretch out permanently, but they can for quite a while. I’ve had the unfortunate experience of my wife having a week long, very sexual affair with a much larger man.

I apologize for being graphic, but I’m about average length, and on the low end of the average girth. My wife and I had been married for 13 years, and she had always been very easily orgasmic. Clitoral, PIV and vaginal orgasms. There were times that I could make her orgasm by just giving her a sensual massage. When we were dating, I was the first man to ever make her orgasm - period. She had never even given herself an orgasm.

Well, due to problems in our marriage she ended up having the affair with the much larger man. He was almost 50% thicker, and about 50% longer.

They had sex sometimes 3 times a day for long periods of time. Basically they had sex 10 times in 8 days, and the only reason they missed a few days was because of work commitments.

I suspected an affair, but was in denial at the time. My wife ended up with a very bad UTI from this guy, and we didn’t have sex for two weeks after she last had sex with him. When we did, I couldn’t feel a thing. She was so stretched out it was like the proverbial “tossing a hot-dog down a hallway”. She didn’t have an orgasm with me for almost two months, except for oral.

Prior to the affair I had a hard time getting two fingers in her, afterwards - 4 fingers and I think I could have put my whole fist up there.

Her vagina did eventually go back to “almost” her prior tightness, but it was never as tight as before him. Not a big difference, but it’s noticeable. For her as well.

We’ve spoken of the affair recently and she said she really couldn’t feel me for at least a month after him and that she missed the sensation.

So, do large penis’s stretch out a woman's vagina? Absolutely. Permanently, not likely unless she keeps having sex with the larger man. Most commentators say it goes back right away. I can tell you in my wife’s case it did not. It took a while.
Written Jun 28 · View Upvotes""