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Información personal
Soy:
Roch, 47 años de edad, femenino, bisexual
De:
South Amboy, Nueva Jersey, Estados Unidos
Buscando:
Nadie
Idiomas:
Inglés
Relación:
Ocupada
Niños:
No, y no quiero ninguno
Religión:
Ateo/a
Fumar:
Nunca
Beber:
Ocasionalmente
Cómo soy
Etnia:
Blanco
Tipo de cuerpo:
Grande
Largo del cabello:
Largo
Color de cabello:
Rubio/a
Color de ojos:
Azul
Altura:
168 cm (5 ft 6 in)
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UPDATE: Due to the massive amount of endless inquiries, as well as the overwhelming level of nonsense, ignorance, rudeness and games I deal with around here, I have decided to take a break from interacting with ALL people on here, with the very rare exceptions. This is temporary for now, but it may be a permanent decision, depending on how I feel about things in the upcoming future. I will do my best to still keep in touch with the handful of loyal friends that I have on here (you all know who you are). Please disregard anything described below, in terms of my offer to chat with people until/if I'm ever back in the game for that again. People on here have repeatedly proven to me that they cannot behave like mature adults, therefore, I'm just another one of the last remaining REAL women on these sites that you men have all chosen to disrespect and push away. Congrats! Need proof? Sure! Just read the wall comments, the blog posts, the 'avoid member list' or contact me directly for the proof via emails, screen shots, etc... .

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Old profile info begins here and is to be currently disregarded (unless you truly feel that you fall under that "very rare exception" category)...

First and foremost, my profile is always kept current, accurate, honest and updated. What I describe here is what I mean and I am hard-set on everything I say. No exceptions, no negotiating or compromise. I say this because I have been getting an influx of people asking to meet me or to cyber with, thinking that I'm willing to change/be flexible of my circumstances or being told that women don't always mean what they say on their profiles or that their profiles are old/outdated. Not the case here. I'm on this site strictly for entertainment purposes. Nothing more. If anything were to ever change (and it won't, I'm happily married), it would be revised, updated and reflected right here on my profile immediately.

Moving on...

As I said, I'm strictly here for entertainment purposes. Like any other people who come here, it means that I come to watch adult videos, pics, the occasional cam, chatting or dabbling into member posts, erotic stories and so on. I am NOT on this site looking for anything or for anyone at all for anything. Let that be known. I'm offering (not seeking) pen pal to anyone interested in the same. Be sure you clearly understand that pen pal is NOT "casual texting"...big difference there! I am willing to hold balanced, non-sexual pen pal chat conversations that lead to long-term online friendships with anyone who is contacting me on here, so be sure you're contacting me specifically for that reason to pen pal for the sake of building a meaningful online friendship with. This means that you should have good communication, English, spelling, punctuation and grammar skills and know how to hold balanced conversations in terms of meaningful, fulfilling and structured paragraphs. Talking in "text" or "shorthand" form is a huge turn-off, as it relays laziness, lack of effort or dedicated time and usually unintelligence. A good rule of thumb is the expectation for you to compose and trade one or two lengthy messages per week from each party, so be willing and enthusiastic to write messages out and dedicate free time to do so. Communication, balance and acknowledgement are all key points in a two-way conversation, so I expect that in return. I expect proper correspondence as a courtesy measure during any such time when life gets in the way and you find yourself unable to hold conversational chats, until that time period passes (e.g.: medical issues, abundance of work, family issues, life events, etc...). Good so far? If not, please bypass me. If so, read on...

If you are from India, Nepal, Turkey, Qatar, Serbia, Egypt, Pakistan, Morocco and Kazakhstan, then I have no interest in talking to you, since the majority of my issues on here stem from people who write to me from these countries.
If you choose to contact me, speak fluent English and please be a gentleman (or lady-like, if you're the rare female) and you'll have no problems here. Do you like to chat? Are you looking for good company online here to pass free time with general non-sexually balanced chat conversations via pen pal relationship? If so, get to know me. I'm a nice woman and expect to be treated nice. I do not care about your sexual stuff at all such as your perversions, fantasies, wants, wishes or if you are hard and horny. Go away! I'm NOT interested in sex chat, watching your cam on request, pic/video trading, link sharing, sharing my name, sharing my phone number, texting or talking off site. I'm not on this site for it's "Dating" section. I am taken (married to a man) and have no interests whatsoever to meet anyone from here in person (whether for in-person friendships, sex or otherwise). If you're contacting me in the message center, just have a reasonable level time to do so and show up around here frequently. Invest time, effort and enthusiasm into your compositions and chat to me like a decent and respectful human being...you won't regret it. I'm more than willing to establish meaningful online friendships with the right people, if you so choose to take that on. If you meet the criteria, introduce yourself with something more than a "Hi" or "Hello", as I will judge interactions like that upon you being a lazy, vague, boring or uninteresting person directly from the start who has no time, effort or fulfillment to invest with me. There's no second chance to make a good first impression, so make it count.

If your profile is set to "visible to friends only" or if your basic location is "Earth" or if your profile contains little to no details about you or a description, then I know nothing at all about you up front, and therefore, I'm not interested in talking to people blindly without knowing some background stats or critical profile information that's not visible to me.
Also, I'm not a 'friend' collector. I don't just randomly add complete strangers to my 'Friends' list, because you aren't my friend. Friends are a privilege and it's something that's earned through ongoing and interesting conversations, having things in common, mutual bonding attraction, honesty, personality, trust, balance, cooperation, compliance, respect and any other key values which make friends, actual friends. If you actually want to make it to my 'Friends' list, then be prepared to earn that over the course of time. Otherwise, your request will simply be deleted.

Follow through with what you have begun! If you decide to contact me, then we're game-on at that point and I expect the outlined terms to be followed. If, for whatever reason, you find yourself no longer interested in what's being offered here, then I expect communication to be followed through to the end with a proper and respectful level of closure and manners like a decent and mature human being.

Rudeness won't be tolerated. Blocking me won't be tolerated. Ignoring me won't be tolerated. Not acknowledging me won't be tolerated. Grow up! If you do any of these things you will be on group watch.

And to the rest of the peanut gallery: To those who don't understand that you're in no way obligated to drink alcohol if you go to a bar/club, but rather to socialize, play pool, watch live entertainment, mingle, play video games, and so on...you'll never quite understand your own idiocy. The analogy I make is to NOT attempt to mock me or belittle me because I'm on an adult site and CHOOSE to NOT talk sexually. Life has choices....yes, imagine that! Although I watch adult oriented things privately behind the scenes, does NOT automatically mean that I'm here to dirty talk/cyber or to be your verbal whore. We all have choices in life, comfort zones, reasons, restrictions, limitations and so on. Please respect that. I'm tired of the idiotic accusations, mockery and judgements from those who simply cannot understand this simple concept!
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whiskeygingerale
whiskeygingerale 18 días atrás
Thank you for your nice comment on my wall. It is sometimes frustrating to navigate through the "mire" that masquerades as communication here!
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lovingmale53
lovingmale53 19 días atrás
para Rochblue : That's Sadly 
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drsulfur 1 mes atrás
para hypermatum : Well said 
Rochblue
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hypermatum 1 mes atrás
para drsulfur : I agree. Not just common sense, but no manners. No respect. It's the kind of stuff I lose z's over at night trying to sometimes understand. Like does this rude strategy ever work for men? A lot of guys come here looking to attract women for one reason or another. Then they do the total opposite and get rude, talk like jerks, don't read profiles, ignore, block and so on. They then land on public testimony with posted blogs, screenshot pics of chats they had for the world to read of how they treat women, word of mouth passed from friend to friend/member to member within a community of people who all know each other and talk to each other. It is just unbelievable to think that in this day with everything digital and social media, that men would act out of line, knowing that their reputation can be crushed in an instant with a few clicks and taps in minutes. It is one of the strangest ironies to try to wrap your brain around!
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hypermatum 1 mes atrás
para TheOnly1One : Aw, you shouldn't talk that way about yourself.
Rochblue
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hypermatum 1 mes atrás
para Rochblue : EXACTLY!!!
Rochblue
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 1 mes atrás
para Dell60 : Thank you.  I'm delighted that you've enjoyed the information so much.
Rochblue
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Dell60
Dell60 1 mes atrás
para Rochblue : I was pleased to read your very detailed text. a very good statement.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 1 mes atrás
Thank you, dear.  Appreciate your feedback.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 1 mes atrás
kalou66- Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures! On 9/17/24 he contacts me saying "My english is bad... sorry". I respond back politely, asking him why he felt the need to contact me, if what he's telling me is contrary to my profile, as well as many other red flag issues from the start. Over the course of four days, I have POLITELY written to him six times in order to: A.) Understand his point of contact with me. B.) Offer him a pen pal IF he somehow fits the outlined criteria. C.) Give him a fair chance that other women don't. D.) Form a proper and respectful level of closure, if in fact there is no relevant purpose. All of my PM's were just ignored by him. RUDE! I come back again here on 9/21, realizing he's again disrespected yet another profile rule and has now blocked me. Being true to my description, he has now been put on public community blast for his terrible behavioral disorders! This includes comment sections, screen shots of our entire series of chats posted to blogs, blacklisting, and testimony to his pool of friends and peers alike. You'd think that by now, men would understand that they exist in a world of social media, where everything they say, do or act can instantly be posted and distributed, destroying their reputations and odds of any success. Smh!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
aslidream - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid her at all measures!
This person contacted me on 8/23/24 by thanking me for the testimony I had left against a male member on here. According to her, she was in the process of setting up a meeting with this guy to have him fly in to her country and she called the plans off when she read the testimony that was left against him by other women on this site for his poor behavior and poor testimony by the terrible way he interacts with women around here. So in the upcoming days, she writes comments to me in her attempt to explain things, but it tends to raise more confusion. I'm assuming it's a language barrier between us, a possible word translator or that English isn't her first language, so I politely try to untangle the confusion by asking her what her comments mean or trying to decypher them back to her. In turn, she pretty much omits everything I said or asked, then irrelevantly says: "I think you are bisexual. This situation started to interest me." out of the blue for no apparent reason. I again politely followed up with her on 8/27, explained everything about the bisexual thing, then tried to realign chat back to the questions and comments that were still pending answers to. No reply. Meanwhile, I check her profile daily and see her being signed into this site frequently. I try again on 9/1. No reply. I try again on 9/3, politely asking why she's ignoring me suddenly and reminding her that I'm still awaiting replies. I arrive online today (9/4) and now notice she's rudely blocked me. Ironic that she compliments and thanks me for calling out rude men, when she does the same exact things to end up on public notice, as well. Unreal! And this is what you get when you engage with aslidream and take your time and effort to compose paragraphs of info to her. In the end, you'll just get ignored/stonewalled, disrespected and then rudely blocked. She made it to the same blacklists and public boards as all of the other men around here...and truthfully, I probably suspect "her" to be a guy/catfish, since there is no hard proof anywhere that tells me she's a real woman...plus, when's the last time anyone has seen a REAL woman from Turkey show up on here? Anyone from Turkey just screams "sausage party" to me. So, take my strong advice and avoid aslidream at all measures if you encounter this person. Uploads to come soon with screen shots of the conversations held between us both, for transparency purposes.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
minicranberry (a.k.a. "Nick") - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures!
He contacted me in early 2023. Things were fine at first. He decides to shift gears for unknown reasons, so he starts pushing buttons, breaking rules, overriding profile content and ruining our conversational relationship that he's started with me. Messages become sparse...then he just ignores me altogether. I'm left to constantly babysit him, follow-up, never receive replies, answers or explanations back. This goes on for well over a year. All I want is an answer, a determination and or a proper level of civil closure. Currently he replies, gets cocky with me in a few replies and still refuses to cooperate, comply or be a reasonable and respectful human being. He's now resorted to rudely blocking me, then setting his profile's settings immediately to a "profile is visible to friends only" status. Because of this fiasco, he's now on the public Hall of Shame boards, blacklists and forwarded to his entir list of friends...and beyond. The posted screen shots of the entire history of conversations I've had with him is on public view, for transparency purposes.

When you go out of your way to be polite, accept someone into your loop as a friend, he'll just rudely turn on you when he doesn't get his way, disrespect you, ignore you, get sarcastic, block you and then try to cover it all up by shadowing his profile to ONLY his friends. He'll only contact you to mislead you, lie to you, disrespect you, waste your time/effort, ignore you, dodge questions/comments and then ultimately block you when your kindness only seeks a proper closure. Again, it's all clearly proven on the screen shot conversations we've had. This is where a year and a half of my time, effort and kindness has gotten me for accepting HIS offer to chat. Ladies, you have all been forewarned about minicranberry (a.k.a. "Nick")! Do your background checks and research on him. Hard pass on this guy if you ever encounter him. You'll all thank me later!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
Mopar - Has no idea what he's talking about!  Do your background research on this guy to see how rude he is to women around here.  He's merely backlashing on my profile wall, due to his enormous ego being crushed when women like myself put him on public display for his choice in behavior.  Just read all of the blogs, read through the screen shots of conversations that RESPECTFUL women have had with this RUDE guy.  The evidence never lies! He shows up on my wall, incriminating himself through even more terrible behavior and poor reputation through stupidity, lies, fabricated nonsense, irrelevance and yes, rudeness.  Don't ever fall for his sales pitch introduction, which is fancy and tasteful at face value, as this leopard never changes its spots and his real RUDE self will emerge in no time.  I again invite you all to do your homework, your background checks, your research...look through blogs, watch groups, blacklists, forums or ask through word of mouth.  Nothing good is said about this guy across anyone in this community.  Hard pass on him, ladies!  You'll all thank me later!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
Mopar - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures!
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Mopar09 2 meses atrás
User Is a Unhappy Liberal Cat mom obese and alone that  spews hate everywhere Fuck this cunt 
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
Chlgger - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
youngdude140 - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 2 meses atrás
soundman2019 - Our latest Hall of Shamer! Avoid him at all measures!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
prince_charming - Due to numerous times he's censored and deleted my comments on his wall, he has resorted to blocking me now, as a way to hide and cover up his poor behavioral disorders to the public. It's all about transparency, folks. Be sure to read through the public blogs, blacklists and screen shots to see what he's trying to hide from all of you.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
erko3535 - Our latest Hall of Shamer!  Avoid him at all measures!
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
jumpinthefire34 - Due to numerous times he's censored and deleted my comments on his wall, he has resorted to blocking me now, as a way to hide and cover up his poor behavioral disorders to the public. It's all about transparency, folks. Be sure to read through the public blogs, blacklists and screen shots to see what he's trying to hide from all of you.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
Tonyblack36 - Due to numerous times he's censored and deleted my comments on his wall, he has resorted to blocking me now, as a way to hide and cover up his poor behavioral disorders to the public. It's all about transparency, folks. Be sure to read through the public blogs, blacklists and screen shots to see what he's trying to hide from all of you.
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
para Rochblue : Update: Due to numerous times he's censored and deleted my comments on his wall, he has resorted to blocking me now, as a way to hide and cover up his poor behavioral disorders to the public.  It's all about transparency, folks.  Be sure to read through the public blogs, blacklists and screen shots to see what he's trying to hide from all of you.  
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
para scams : Indeed it is a lot of reading.  Much of it tends to be going over behavioral and interaction issues.  We all must ask ourselves why that much criteria must be explained up front in coaching, if in fact we're all supposed to be responsible and grown adults here.  If there was decency and cooperation, my profile should only have to contain a small paragraph of only myself, my interests and my expectations. Look down my list of comments and also my blacklist post, then decide for yourself why so much info must therefore be relayed on a profile. :smile:
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scams
scams 3 meses atrás
That's a lot of reading
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 3 meses atrás
Hassan5609 - Here's a genius of a guy!  So, for all of you unaware, he has a rap sheet across the site for poor behavior with many women he's encountered.  Just the other day he's left a rude comment (calling me a "bitch") right here on my wall, which has disappeared overnight by his censorship tactics.  He's also attempted to remove my comments from his wall (unsuccessfully, as mirrored to blogs/blacklists before he did so).  I'm again mirroring his wall comment here, for communal transparency purposes, to override his censorship tactics....

"You just gotta love the censorship with this Hassan5609 guy. I checked back here and on my profile, only to find the comments vanished overnight. He is actually convinced that "deleting" messages is an absolute delete. He's apparently unaware that EVERYTHING that he (an I) post is immediately screen shot, then saved, then backed up and then uploaded as updated columns to blogs and blacklists. Your "deletes" and censorship tactics are a miserable fail! By doing so, it only shows your peers that you have bad behavior that you are trying to hide and cover up in the attempt to preserve your reputation; unaware that it's further eroding your reputation even worse than if you left comments up. Too funny! Like I said before, you have a lot of inner-demons that you need to control.
F.Y.I. - This comment again will be immediately screen shot upon publishing, saved and/or uploaded to public blogs and blacklists for communal transparency purposes."
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 5 meses atrás
para Lovebaps00 : My pleasure.
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Lovebaps00
Lovebaps00 5 meses atrás
Thank you for accepting my friend request.
Rochblue
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 5 meses atrás
And "hello" to you, too. 
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Rochblue
Rochblue Anfitrión 6 meses atrás
para fiilpinolove : Well thank you so much for that kind note.  I have enjoyed reading it and I sincerely appreciate all of the nice words you've left.  Glad you enjoyed.  You're a rare gem around here, so keep shining on!  We need wayyy more polite and respectful people like yourself around here...and ones that have courtesy, dignity and manners.  Thanks again and have a wonderful day.
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