Bluebear41

Sobre mí: 18+ NSFW Hi guys – I hope everyone is doing well or as well as can be. My name is Blair and thanks very much for stopping by to check out my profile – I appreciate it. If you are on this site you are like all the other guys on here – horned up and looking to have some fun and get off. Its 2024 – no shame in that. I am available for the following: Chat (PG-13) Chat (Kinky 18+ NSFW) Photo & Video Sharing Hook-ups (Anon BJ's & Cock Worship - cum eating etc) Hook-ups (fuck sessions pound my ass, raw & condom encounters) Open to being EXPOSED & OUTED (adult sites, blogs & chats) *you can film & record me for exposure purposes as well* Servitude (I am owned but instructed to play w/others) I am also NOT looking for any of the following (in no particular order): LTR Scams & Phishing Findom & Tributes Cryptocurrency Advice Invites to 'other' dating sites If you would like to have a casual conversation about the weather or the latest news or something a little more kinky and spicy, share some photos or videos then by all means hit me up and lets have a chat and see where it goes. Just keep in mind I am not looking to change the end goal for being on this site. We can chat and have fun here in cyberspace, connect and have some fun from there. Casual anon sex is always fun and I am a open-minded easy going guy that loves to play and have fun. From mild to wild I am sensual and very hands on, vocal and oral. There are few days that go by that I don't get messaged with a variety of topics from the most bizarre - “I love you”......which always drives me nuts because you can't see someone's photo, read a profile and then be bold enough to say you love them. Its disturbing. It happens ALL the time and these creepy people lay it on so thick I can't help but believe they are not fooling around. Needy, prissy and obviously mentally unstable which is incredibly worrisome. I also get men and women asking for Tributes constantly.....send me $100! I have even had people so bold as to demand it by sending requests on PayPal. Its not going to happen. I live with a disability and don't have many pennies to throw around and in case you missed it in your pampered lifestyle – cost of living is absurdly expensive and not getting cheaper as time marches on. Not to mention that even if I was flush with cash - I am not sending it will-nilly to a stranger for some kink. So, I politely ask you seek others for your lazy desire to have your bank account primed by the generosity of weak minded strangers. Go get a job. Or offer a legitimate service before demanding someone pay you for your precious time. Regardless of the social or sexual hierarchy you think you may belong too I can tell you without hesitation that your time is worth no more or less than anyone elses on Planet Earth. Preying on the weak is a common tactic and there are a lot of men and women who fall into this unfortunate category. Depressed, feeling inadequate, abused and neglected – its way more common than you think. I certainly can't stop you from plying your trade but just don't knock on my door looking for a handout. I also tend to get a few messages from time to time making assumptions. Often these contain content or reference to the content on the no-no list above. Phishing for something. Directly sending me illegal content. I will not only block you if this happens but I will go out of my way to report you to FetLife or whatever platform it happens on. I can't unsee some of what I have seen over the years and it pains me to even come back online and engage in the community knowing it could happen again tomorrow. There may come a day when enough is enough and I refuse to chance bumping into these deprived individuals and close down all my online accounts to avoid any such future exchange. In the meantime you will be blocked and reported. So, don't waste my time or your own. Lastly I am happy to share some of my content but want to be clear that it is not meant to be shared elsewhere unless I personally say otherwise to you. Its not 'public-domain' and I am not here for threats and revenge porn situations. Any content that is sexual in nature is meant for adult sites and private sharing only. That is why we post on sites like this and not on more family oriented social media sites. So, again don't be foolish or intentionally hurtful or demeaning. That said there are evil, twisted people out there and that is what fuels them. I'd prefer if you all stay clear of me. Otherwise you'll get the same treatment, blocked and reported etc. I just don't have time for it. I have zero interest in fighting with people and getting weighed down in the mire they tend to create. If you managed to make it this far – congrats!! Also, thank you for taking the few minutes to read it. I hope it isn't already a fleeting memory. People often get every second word or ignore what isn't conducive to what they want and thus despite being right in front of them they proceed with asking questions or engaging in manners they've been told already is not appropriate. Which is frustrating and annoying. If this happens – you will be ignored and blocked (reported if necessary) etc. Otherwise a bit about me: Name: Blair Sex: Male Age: 53 Pronouns: (if I must) He/Him Location: Eastern Canada (Nova Scotia) Height: 5'11” Weight: 188 I am not into 'everything' (obviously) but I am fairly open minded and can find some fun in most kinks but I am likely vanilla compared to most. Even if it is not my go-to I am often able to find some fun in it or at least willing to explore the idea or topic to see what fruit it may bare. I find it easier to tell people what I don't like or am not into, such as CBT, sc#t, tort#re, p#in/blo#d, watersports, feet, poor hygiene, smoking, tattoos, dr#gs, leather, denim, non-height/weight proportional people.....I may update this from time to time as more come to mind. I am a fairly well read guy with an above average IQ that enjoys the simple things when it comes to sexual fantasy. I am happy to chat openly with both men and women. It doesn't have to be a sexually charged conversation – life is complicated and there are millions of other things to chat about and enjoy. I enjoy music, good books, movies, history, science, documentaries, World news/events and fun games (both video games but also TTRPG and RPG games) – I've been known to be a bit of a geek and hobby collector as well. I mentioned earlier I live with a slight disability which limits my functionality. I have had far too many health issues in the last few years. I am plagued daily by things like chronic pain, positional tolerances and nerve damage among other things that have of course caused numerous issues – but unless I told you – you may not know or even suspect. Like most things in life – we hide our pain as best we can. There are times it controls me much more then I control it. More than I would care to admit. There are worse things – or it can always be worse. I like to throw in that caveat to add some perspective. Still – these issues bother me and are part of my daily grind. I've been trying to focus on some good daily practices lately – reading, writing, eating better, playing the piano and getting in a light workout and enjoying a walk or bike ride. Feel free to reach out if you would like. Otherwise I wish each of you the very best! Blair September 2024 "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson