About

I'm here mainly to chat with interesting women who can help make long-time fantasies come true (virtually) -- yours and mine. And to hear about your hot real-life experiences (sorry, I don't have many). You should know, BDSM is my enduring obsession

Not looking for live sex or meetings or a new lifestyle, and not interested in paying for your favors (looking at you, seductive dommes). Devoted to my high-school sweetheart wife of 50 years, but we no longer have real sex. She "strongly disapproves" of my chatting on here, so I have to sneak around like a guilty 13 y.o. boy -- but it's the only way I cheat on her

I admire and worship my women friends here on xham, the most interesting and stimulating people I've known. Here's to amazing human diversity and worldwide interconnectivity! I hope to have the pleasure of chatting with you about our mutual fantasies -- and our more pedestrian real lives too