A STATE OF MIND

Several people over the last few years have asked me how I can feel comfortable and secure about allowing my wife Sarah to satisfy her urge to have sex with very well hung guys. Its all quite simple really, in all but a very few exceptions I am present and often part of the fun. We always have to both agree on what, where, when and who we involve in our sexual adventures and fantasies. We never involve people we know or live close to us to the chance of emotional connections being made by either of us is pretty unlikely. The fun we have had with others hasn't affected the sex and indeed love making we have just between the two of us. On the odd occasion Sarah has had sexual fun with another female she has enjoyed it just as much as sex with other guys and she enjoys watching me have sex with other women and indeed men which I have done without her actually taking part. With regards to the big cock issue. my own cock, whilst not huge is of a size both Sarah and I are happy with and I think the fact I am bisexual has helped me understand and accept her desire that any guy we involve must be well hung. Over the years I have has fun with lots of guys, some with big cocks, some with average cocks and a very few with what would be classed as small cocks and given the choice I would choose a big one every time so it would be rather hypocritical of me to deny Sarah that determining factor.

So it is really all about a state of mind for both of us and my advice to anyone thinking of entering into the world of wife sharing or swinging to thoroughly discuss and agree on ground rules and parameters first.