Reality vs Fantasy
I’m fairly new to xhamster but I’m finding things similar to adult sites I’ve used to meet people. I’ve met a few interesting people I’ve chatted with but the majority who msg me seem to have been stuck in fantasy. I keep adding more to my profile but am pretty sure most of those setting off my pet peeves aren’t reading it.
Now I know there are many people in this site who come here to watch videos, fall into their fantasies and mastubate themselves silly. I have nothing against that, each to their own, it’s just not for me. What I will admit annoys me more than a little are those people who feel the need to msg me and act and pretend their fantasies and desires are reality. What I think many don’t realize is that if you have been active, you discover things about the reality of situations which will never appear in stories and videos. Eventually, the truth comes out. If you are looking for a masturbation partner, please, it’s not me.
I am a true believer that many of the sexual things we think of as rare, unusual, different and taboo are actually commonplace. Many of us fear we will be judged because of things we have tried, sometimes enjoyed, sometimes not. Many of us judge ourselves thinking we are freaks or different for what makes us tick. Many of us feel we are the only one we know who has done this or that because none of our friends, coworkers or family have admitted to doing the same things. My wish has been to just be able to snap my fingers and know the truth of things. Do we think we are the 1 in 10, the 1 in 100, the one in a million who has done something. Is that the reality or it’s it more that we are the 99 in 100. Not something I’ll ever know, but a thought I often ponder.
im not here to fantasiZe or masturbate. I’m simply here to learn about other people and how we are similar and different.
Now I know there are many people in this site who come here to watch videos, fall into their fantasies and mastubate themselves silly. I have nothing against that, each to their own, it’s just not for me. What I will admit annoys me more than a little are those people who feel the need to msg me and act and pretend their fantasies and desires are reality. What I think many don’t realize is that if you have been active, you discover things about the reality of situations which will never appear in stories and videos. Eventually, the truth comes out. If you are looking for a masturbation partner, please, it’s not me.
I am a true believer that many of the sexual things we think of as rare, unusual, different and taboo are actually commonplace. Many of us fear we will be judged because of things we have tried, sometimes enjoyed, sometimes not. Many of us judge ourselves thinking we are freaks or different for what makes us tick. Many of us feel we are the only one we know who has done this or that because none of our friends, coworkers or family have admitted to doing the same things. My wish has been to just be able to snap my fingers and know the truth of things. Do we think we are the 1 in 10, the 1 in 100, the one in a million who has done something. Is that the reality or it’s it more that we are the 99 in 100. Not something I’ll ever know, but a thought I often ponder.
im not here to fantasiZe or masturbate. I’m simply here to learn about other people and how we are similar and different.
6 years ago
