I’m sleeping with my nephew…is it wrong?

I don't know why I'm all of a sudden deciding to post this here and ask for advice, but here I am.

MY boyfriend is 31 years younger than I am.
That might be all right but he’s also my nephew.
Now when i say boyfriend we are obviously not exactly Facebook official, but are in a intimate relationship.

My nephew was always around my two sons growing up, who have always enjoyed his company and looked up-to him as their older cousin.
I’m 49 and he and I have always been close since his mum died when he was 15.
She was my older sister.
We’re both very touchy-feely people and have been
there for each other. We have kissed before in a friendly, family way, but
that was all.

I’ve been single since my husband walked out four years ago. He see's our c***dren each weekend and is still a good father to my boys.
My nephew had technically had nowhere to live when his mother passed away due to his father not being present in his life, so he moved in with us in the spare room.

We often went for a drink together in our local pub where there was no problem with him getting served and one evening I told him I felt old and unattractive, which i really did at the time. Being left by the father of my two c***dren really hit my confidence, especially adding the fact he went to a new woman. I was left raising my two c***dren and my nephew which left me with so little free time. I managed to go out on a few tinder dates but nothing more than that. When i told my nephew how i felt he actually said he thought I looked good, like a woman should.


A couple of evenings later, he told me I looked stunning. We were having a
cuddle at the time (No different to how i snuggle with my sons watching tv) but in the heat of the moment I said, “If you weren’t my nephew, I’d be all over
you.”

Then he kissed me passionately. I know I should have stopped it there and
then but my whole body was alight.

We slept together that night and have done ever since. This was 14 months
ago. Nobody suspects anything, as he has his own room and we act like a
normal aunt and nephew when others are around, but behind closed doors we’re
a proper couple.

I know he’ll find someone younger eventually and I accept that, but all my
friends say they’ve never seen me so happy and joke about me having found a
new man. Surely we’re not doing anything wrong, even if we’re related?
Published by -H-
6 years ago
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windinpines
windinpines 4 years ago
Good for you.
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-LAD-
-LAD- 6 years ago
Wrong Wrong Wrong
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abemuna
abemuna 6 years ago
Well damnnnn ... got to admit the video upload is kind hot considering the circumstances but this is very taboo
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to DDY2883 : I understand your opinion. But lust took over
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to passive60 : thanks for your informed incite.
we have not come across the judgment of others yet because we are keeping it a secret but i am personally ready for that slander when it comes.
But like i said i know this will not last
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to 4skinmask : Thanks very much x
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to ChelseaBadBoy : It is real and thanks
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to alkonfa : Well i dont know about that
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to NWO1 : Yes like i said before it is fully consensual, yes we did start before he was 18 but its what he wanted
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to NewRight : Yes you dont like it but would still watch it .. so your kind of a hypocrite!
ive posted a video on my page
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-H-
-H- Publisher 6 years ago
to tilflower : Its far from accepted here. We are both consenting tho.
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DDY2883
DDY2883 6 years ago
to passive60 : people are judging? fuck that.

Family is family. You don't fuck family. And it's ridiculous to encourage it.
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passive60
passive60 6 years ago
to 4skinmask : I second this notion . suppose that he was not her nephew, even with the age gap this relationship could be a favourable one. why bother that much?
people can't choose their relatives,and sparks did happen for both people especially on that night on the sofa, he made the move after a verbal invite. what's wrong with true love or even arousing romance?
people are sometimes just restraining themselves with unnecessary stress. they are really brave, because they have to face endless rumors and slanders,probably life long, even if they wind up breaking up.

But that just my opinion on the matter, i am a guy who enjoys age gaps incredibly and knows just how exciting it is to be with a member of the opposite sex sexually who is young and energetic. It makes for great sex and chemistry.

To many people are judging in the comments of this blog
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4skinmask 6 years ago
love is a powerful things.. So Helen, i pray for your love... u r very brave...
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ChelseaBadBoy
ChelseaBadBoy 6 years ago
if it's real, then I hope you live a happy life. It's definitely illegal, but anyways...
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alkonfa 6 years ago
As far as the blog goes, I read somewhere that incest is an expression of narcissism, something about the person loving themselves so much they would like to have sex with themselves. Due to being physically unattainable they choose someone most similar to themselves (from the same gene pool).
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alhubb 6 years ago
This is good and i wish i was your nephew or sons
'iidha kunt abnak sa'abdhul qusaraa jahdiun lilqabd ealayk mumarasat aljins mae abn eami hataa dhlk alhin yumkinuni aibtizazuk fi mumarasat aljins maeia
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NWO1
NWO1 6 years ago
you are both adults so do what makes you happy .. it is illegal tho

Plus a question to you is if you have been having sex for 14 month he was technically underage when it all started ??
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misplacedsext
misplacedsext 6 years ago
to NewRight : I dunno how anyone could possibly make this shit up, let alone actually make it real! They'd be extremely pyschotic!
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NewRight
NewRight 6 years ago
But i call out bull shit on this site so next thing i've got to say is prove it
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NewRight
NewRight 6 years ago
Pretty damned sick.... but most people would watch a porn video of this
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-Markus_
-Markus_ 6 years ago
Tell him it has to stop now and lessen the temptation by asking him to find somewhere else to live!!
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tilflower 6 years ago
This is normal for Indian culture but in you culture not so much
People see it as a very bad thing but if both people are enjoying then there is no harm doing
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kessiel
kessiel 6 years ago
Firstly you are breaking the law because it is illegal for an aunt to have a
sexual relationship with her nephew. Also it crosses all the proper
boundaries within a family. You both know that it’s wrong, because you
realise the need to keep it a secret.

But on the other hand this is a porn site and for some reason incest is a popular genre so im sure you will find someone who likes or agrees with what you are doing
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DarrenWay
DarrenWay 6 years ago
Sorry to pour cold water all over this relationship but it’s wrong on more
than one level. Even if the sex is good and regular lol
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