Swinging for starters
When you first start swinging every couple asks themselves a question.
Are you a full swap, same room, group or party type?
It's always something to consider before you start to meet others, because the last thing you want is one of you wanting one thing when your partner is not interested.
Strange but the answer may change depending on the situation. There are so many ways to be secure when you swing. Every one, every couple are different, so talk about it first
Terms Soft or Full-On
Some people consider a soft swap to be just the ladies playing together but no exchanging of male-female partners. Some think that mutual masturbation constitutes a soft swap. Or if no intercourse takes place that’s a soft-swap. A Full swap is pretty simple, but there are lots of varieties,
Same room- Separate room, Dinner parties, Key parties, Small or Larger groups, Dogging, Sex clubs, Same Sex, Bisexual, full Gay and Lesbian and orgies. Talking about your desires first is always the best way.
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What are your Rules?
Whether you choose if you want your experience to be successful, you MUST have rules a framework. Remember what’s OK for one maybe taboo for the other. A list of things you may want to consider:
• Boundaries, vital if thinking about BDSM
• Do you have a veto? If so who decides?
• Same Sex, or different sex partner
• Threesomes who are getting the most pleasure and is it an extra man or woman?
• Are you dipping your toe in with one other couple or one other person?
• Will you host the first session or go to theirs or a hotel?
• Protection; will one carry or both?
• What do you do if one is having a great time but not the other?
Keeping It Safe
When hooking up with strangers, you have to think about safety. Will you go back to their place? Have them at yours? Or is a hotel the best bet? Decide what feels best for you. If things change, you can always go with the flow.
And then there is protection! You don't want to find yourself meeting a fantastic couple or single only to realise no one brought condoms or anything else. What a chocker.
Keep talking
Let’s be honest, often just talking about it is a turn on for you. Keep talking. After your swinging experience be open and say what you liked or did not like. Sometimes, feelings, or issues arise that you may not have anticipated. If so
you may realise that this isn't for you. Or, it might be just the thing that's been missing in your relationship!
More stores from experience soon ©
Are you a full swap, same room, group or party type?
It's always something to consider before you start to meet others, because the last thing you want is one of you wanting one thing when your partner is not interested.
Strange but the answer may change depending on the situation. There are so many ways to be secure when you swing. Every one, every couple are different, so talk about it first
Terms Soft or Full-On
Some people consider a soft swap to be just the ladies playing together but no exchanging of male-female partners. Some think that mutual masturbation constitutes a soft swap. Or if no intercourse takes place that’s a soft-swap. A Full swap is pretty simple, but there are lots of varieties,
Same room- Separate room, Dinner parties, Key parties, Small or Larger groups, Dogging, Sex clubs, Same Sex, Bisexual, full Gay and Lesbian and orgies. Talking about your desires first is always the best way.
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What are your Rules?
Whether you choose if you want your experience to be successful, you MUST have rules a framework. Remember what’s OK for one maybe taboo for the other. A list of things you may want to consider:
• Boundaries, vital if thinking about BDSM
• Do you have a veto? If so who decides?
• Same Sex, or different sex partner
• Threesomes who are getting the most pleasure and is it an extra man or woman?
• Are you dipping your toe in with one other couple or one other person?
• Will you host the first session or go to theirs or a hotel?
• Protection; will one carry or both?
• What do you do if one is having a great time but not the other?
Keeping It Safe
When hooking up with strangers, you have to think about safety. Will you go back to their place? Have them at yours? Or is a hotel the best bet? Decide what feels best for you. If things change, you can always go with the flow.
And then there is protection! You don't want to find yourself meeting a fantastic couple or single only to realise no one brought condoms or anything else. What a chocker.
Keep talking
Let’s be honest, often just talking about it is a turn on for you. Keep talking. After your swinging experience be open and say what you liked or did not like. Sometimes, feelings, or issues arise that you may not have anticipated. If so
you may realise that this isn't for you. Or, it might be just the thing that's been missing in your relationship!
More stores from experience soon ©
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