22 Hand Job Techniques He’ll Never Forget
Most women tend to head straight for oral sex, but guys really love hand jobs, too—you can provide different kinds of pressure and sensations using your fingers. Need tips on how to give an a-ma-zing hand job? Try one or all of these moves and watch him melt with pleasure.
1) The Slippery Slidey
There's nothing worse than a dry handy, so prep with lube, lotion, or at least saliva before you begin stroking him.
2) The Soft Glide
No, it's not the name of a women's razor—it's the best way to kick off a manual stimulation session. Slowly and lightly move your hand up and down his joystick to rev him up.
3) The Piano Player
Using your fingertips, tap up and down along the underneath side of his shaft, as though you were playing the piano. This sensation will deeply stimulate his nerve endings and increase blood flow (read: arousal) to his penis.
4) The Sexy Squeeze
Gently squeeze the base and middle of his penis in a pulsing motion, and then lightly pinch the skin on the underside of his penis.
5) The Love Tunnel
By this time, he should be pretty turned on, so increase the pressure. One technique that feels amazing for guys is when you stroke in a hand-over-hand rhythm. So as soon as one of your hands caresses the head of his penis, the next one is already making its way up his shaft. It's like never-ending stimulation.
6) The Sausage Wrap
To nail this classic handy technique, wrap all of your fingers around him and stroke up and down. Then try the "Reverse Sausage Wrap": Turn your hand upside down (so your thumb is towards the base of his penis instead of the tip). It's a totally different feeling for him.
7) The A-OK
Make the "okay" sign around his penis, with your thumb and forefinger touching. Move your fingers along his shaft so that he only feels these two fingers against his skin.
8) The Windshield Wiper
Do the sausage wrap, but every time you reach the top of his penis, swipe your thumb to one side of the head and then the other, like a miniature windshield wiper.
9) The DIY Penis Ring
Make the A-OK sign and squeeze the base of his magic wand with that hand. (Use a good, solid grip, like you were squeezing a jar of mayonnaise.) It acts like a penis ring to trap blood, making him harder and more sensitive to touch. Now slide your other hand up and down his penis.
10) The Bottle Cap
The tip of his penis is the most sensitive part, because that's where his nerve endings are most concentrated. Give it special attention by twisting your hand back and forth over the tip, like you were trying to unscrew a bottle cap
11) The Twist and Shout
Transition between twisting your hands as you're gliding them along his shaft and moving straight up and down.
12) The G-Spot Shot
The perineum (aka the taint) is located between his scrotum and his anus—it's where semen is produced, so it's a very powerful hot zone. Get his male G-spot in on the hand job action by pushing up into it like a button.
13)The Egg Roll
While one hand is caressing his penis, delicately roll his balls around in your other palm like you were handling a pair of eggs. Some guys also like the sensation when you tug on the skin of his scrotum.
14) The V Massage
His entire pelvic region (inner thighs, lower abs, butt) is packed with nerve endings, so massaging and drawing your fingertips around this area yields major pleasure.
15) The Knob Polisher
Open your palm and place it flat down on the head of his penis. Let your fingers drop down alongside his shaft. Twist your hand back and forth, as though you were polishing a door knob.
16) The Back Door Entry
If your man is cool with it, take things up a naughty notch by letting one hand drift to his butt and gently caress his anus with your finger.
17) The 360
Changing up the angle of your body will affect what he feels, so vary your position. Sit to one side, on top of him, or stand behind him and reach your hand around.
18) The Double Trouble
Grab his hand and place it on top of yours, so that he can feel what you're doing to arouse him. Or put your hand over his while he strokes himself—it's not only hot for both of you, but you get a peek at the moves he uses to turn himself on.
19) The Tongue Twirl
The hottest hand jobs have a little bit of oral sprinkled in here and there. So squeeze his shaft while twirling your tongue around the head of his penis, or think of your mouth as an extension of your hand, and move them in tandem along his disco stick.
20) The Wrist Twist
Let your wrist lead the way as you slide your hands up and down. Then after a few seconds, switch: Keep your wrist straight and use your arms to pump your hand motions.
21) The Hand Warmer
For a nice treat now that it's getting chilly out, wash your hands under warm water or wrap them around a hot mug for a few minutes before slipping them down his pants.
22) The Orgasm Extender
Two of the biggest hand job mistakes that women make happen at the very end. 1) When you sense he's about to climax, maintain a steady grip and rhythm. Only change things up at that point if you're trying to make him last longer. 2) Don't let go too soon. A man's orgasm can last for several seconds, and it feels awesome for him if you're pumping the whole time. If you release your hand right when he comes, it's a buzz kill. Wait for him to give you the cue that he's done.
1) The Slippery Slidey
There's nothing worse than a dry handy, so prep with lube, lotion, or at least saliva before you begin stroking him.
2) The Soft Glide
No, it's not the name of a women's razor—it's the best way to kick off a manual stimulation session. Slowly and lightly move your hand up and down his joystick to rev him up.
3) The Piano Player
Using your fingertips, tap up and down along the underneath side of his shaft, as though you were playing the piano. This sensation will deeply stimulate his nerve endings and increase blood flow (read: arousal) to his penis.
4) The Sexy Squeeze
Gently squeeze the base and middle of his penis in a pulsing motion, and then lightly pinch the skin on the underside of his penis.
5) The Love Tunnel
By this time, he should be pretty turned on, so increase the pressure. One technique that feels amazing for guys is when you stroke in a hand-over-hand rhythm. So as soon as one of your hands caresses the head of his penis, the next one is already making its way up his shaft. It's like never-ending stimulation.
6) The Sausage Wrap
To nail this classic handy technique, wrap all of your fingers around him and stroke up and down. Then try the "Reverse Sausage Wrap": Turn your hand upside down (so your thumb is towards the base of his penis instead of the tip). It's a totally different feeling for him.
7) The A-OK
Make the "okay" sign around his penis, with your thumb and forefinger touching. Move your fingers along his shaft so that he only feels these two fingers against his skin.
8) The Windshield Wiper
Do the sausage wrap, but every time you reach the top of his penis, swipe your thumb to one side of the head and then the other, like a miniature windshield wiper.
9) The DIY Penis Ring
Make the A-OK sign and squeeze the base of his magic wand with that hand. (Use a good, solid grip, like you were squeezing a jar of mayonnaise.) It acts like a penis ring to trap blood, making him harder and more sensitive to touch. Now slide your other hand up and down his penis.
10) The Bottle Cap
The tip of his penis is the most sensitive part, because that's where his nerve endings are most concentrated. Give it special attention by twisting your hand back and forth over the tip, like you were trying to unscrew a bottle cap
11) The Twist and Shout
Transition between twisting your hands as you're gliding them along his shaft and moving straight up and down.
12) The G-Spot Shot
The perineum (aka the taint) is located between his scrotum and his anus—it's where semen is produced, so it's a very powerful hot zone. Get his male G-spot in on the hand job action by pushing up into it like a button.
13)The Egg Roll
While one hand is caressing his penis, delicately roll his balls around in your other palm like you were handling a pair of eggs. Some guys also like the sensation when you tug on the skin of his scrotum.
14) The V Massage
His entire pelvic region (inner thighs, lower abs, butt) is packed with nerve endings, so massaging and drawing your fingertips around this area yields major pleasure.
15) The Knob Polisher
Open your palm and place it flat down on the head of his penis. Let your fingers drop down alongside his shaft. Twist your hand back and forth, as though you were polishing a door knob.
16) The Back Door Entry
If your man is cool with it, take things up a naughty notch by letting one hand drift to his butt and gently caress his anus with your finger.
17) The 360
Changing up the angle of your body will affect what he feels, so vary your position. Sit to one side, on top of him, or stand behind him and reach your hand around.
18) The Double Trouble
Grab his hand and place it on top of yours, so that he can feel what you're doing to arouse him. Or put your hand over his while he strokes himself—it's not only hot for both of you, but you get a peek at the moves he uses to turn himself on.
19) The Tongue Twirl
The hottest hand jobs have a little bit of oral sprinkled in here and there. So squeeze his shaft while twirling your tongue around the head of his penis, or think of your mouth as an extension of your hand, and move them in tandem along his disco stick.
20) The Wrist Twist
Let your wrist lead the way as you slide your hands up and down. Then after a few seconds, switch: Keep your wrist straight and use your arms to pump your hand motions.
21) The Hand Warmer
For a nice treat now that it's getting chilly out, wash your hands under warm water or wrap them around a hot mug for a few minutes before slipping them down his pants.
22) The Orgasm Extender
Two of the biggest hand job mistakes that women make happen at the very end. 1) When you sense he's about to climax, maintain a steady grip and rhythm. Only change things up at that point if you're trying to make him last longer. 2) Don't let go too soon. A man's orgasm can last for several seconds, and it feels awesome for him if you're pumping the whole time. If you release your hand right when he comes, it's a buzz kill. Wait for him to give you the cue that he's done.
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