Transgender Sisters:
I get lots of emails from people asking how i do it, what do i use for my skin, how i stay so skinny, how i did my make-up, what you do too stay in shape or the best one i hear all the time is ""Do you live full time""?? I would say as long as I walk on this world you guys call earth i will live full time I'm pretty sure ...lol.. Look guys i know what your trying too say or ask so i will try to address it as best i can with out being a smart ass!! I would love too help all my people in the L.G.B.T community but the first thing that has too change before you can change into any women clothing is a "MIND SET"... Everything has too change on the inside, everything you known has too change, the way you think, walk, talk, eat, your movements, mannerisms, its way more more than throwing something on and saying I'm a girl.. I mean you can do whatever you want really, I know i say i don't wear any labels but the truth is there is levels too gender-bending, you have too know where you are or where you want too be or if its even at all possible in your life. This is where i say you have too shit or get off the pot.... or any other dumm ass metaphor you can come up. At some point you have too ask your self how far do i want too go...... For some transgender women its hormonal and for others its just flat out being horny and kinky.... I guess a easy way too find out where you are is get dressed then jack off, if you want too take off your dress right away and put it up then most likely your a CD or TV... If not then you may be more along the lines of a T.G. or T.S. a women born as a boy but feels most comfortable as a women!! Can a TV or CD make the jump sure she can but you have too really want it, i mean like willing too change major shit in your life!! I mean its your happiness, your freedom, your fucking right to do as you wish really... but you have know people will perceive you a certain way no matter what, you cant change how people will react too you, all you can change is how you react too people.... Trust me I been there.. I remember at times when i was growing up people would refer to me as she or her when i was a boy, so they cut my hair and i became a baseball player, soccer player, kick-boxer, almost anything that would turn me into a boy i guess is what they were trying too do with me. I was at time 160lbs and I could not stand the way i felt everyday so made major changes in my life, I'm now 114 and holding, i eat light, drink lots of water (Gives you soft skin), work out daily, mentally, physically, take myself too a place of femininity everyday.... Remember "Femininity is a Sate Of Mind" Its not wearing a dress, lipstick, heels, sucking cock, or anything sexual....
9 years ago
"I guess a easy way too find out where you are is get dressed then jack off, if you want too take off your dress right away and put it up then most likely your a CD or TV... If not then you may be more along the lines of a T.G. or T.S."
This happened to me one night. I even started sleeping dressed (minus wig and makeup) At last I wasn't ashamed any more and I even came out to my GF. She helped me out a lot, but couldn't give me the the kind of sex I needed only someone like me could.
This may seem way outside the box and I do not expect all to be accepting of this thinking.I also know many gurls here will know and embrace it.First I must state that I do not have any desire to be a full time female,I do like my male self. I have 2 spirits,one male one female.Its difficult to explain,I do like living and existing in both worlds.I do feel I am a true female in mind and spirit when the female part of my soul is in control.The 2 spirit beliefs are held in high esteem by many native cultures.You may want to read the term spirit as soul,yet it is a bit more than that.We can attach what ever name one wants,yet fully understanding is based on how open one's mind is. We are the 3rd sex,pansexual,TG,etc.We are all of those but for those who have to have labels,I say fine if that's what they need.Two Spirit people do everyday task,leisure and work wearing clothing associated with both men and women,and do so in the gender spirit that posses them.Two Spirit people see and understand through the eyes of both genders. Its not a state of mind,rather its whats in your heart.The heart guides us and the brain protects us.If it is in the heart it indicates a person whose body simultaneously manifests both a masculine and a feminine spirit.It is not a fetish or a disorder,but as you know people have to label and judge that which they do not understand.Living in both worlds gives one a greater insight to life and love.