Need advice: Is my friend and his wife hinting at
Iām not sure how to start this. I guess over the past little while Iāve been getting a vibe from a friend and his wife, and Iām not entirely sure what it means, if anything. I was wondering if anyone could help me figure it out.
The whole thing started pretty innocently. My buddyās wife had a k**, and afterwards he told me sheād been feeling a little self-conscious about her about her looks. I thought that was a little ridiculous, because sheās a good looking woman, and if anything she was now thin with curves and big boobs (she didnāt have those before). Anyways, when weād hang out heād often comment on her appearance in front of me, and then look my way and ask āRight?ā Essentially trying to get a complimentary reply out of me for her. It felt a little forced at first, but it happened often enough that the follow-up comments became second nature, even if heād commented about something specific like her breasts or ass.
Privately, heād also bring her sex life a fair amount. And not just mundane things. He told me all about the porn she likes to watch (rough gangbangs), stuff she liked to do in bed, where she takes cumshots, and some sexual stories from her past that essentially can be summed up as āShe was a slutā before they were married. Heās also shown me some flattering pictures of her exposing her cleavage, and repeatedly talks about how awesome her tits are now.
It was around this time I realized (and it continues to this day) that when I visit, she never wears a bra and is always wearing tight clothes. Her nipples are ALWAYS erect and thereās no missing them. The other night she came out in her revealing pyjamas (braless, thin top, short shorts) and my friend called her back into the room so we could look at her because she looked āso hotā. Another day she did her exercises in front of me (again, braless) that mostly involved bending over in front of me, or arching her back like crazy, emphasizing her boobs.
Finally, pretty recently my friend asked me if I ever checked her out, and before I said anything he told me he didnāt care if I did. I told him Iād tried to keep it respectful because it was his wife, but I couldnāt help but notice some things. He again reiterated that he didnāt mind, she was hot, so I could check her out all I wanted.
Thereās also a bit of a backstory too. When she drinks she can get a little sexual and heās always played on that. At a party a few years ago, while they were dating, he encouraged her to take off her top and bra in front of a bunch of his friends, and she did. He watched me check her tits out back then. Another night after sheād been drinking she told us she didnāt know why she had her clothes on, and then promptly went topless. That same night, he also pulled her pants down in front of a bunch of us, bent her over and yanked the fabric of her thong so tight it was pretty much bare ass and exposed racing strip.
So thatās it. Think thereās anything to it? Would appreciate any advice.
The whole thing started pretty innocently. My buddyās wife had a k**, and afterwards he told me sheād been feeling a little self-conscious about her about her looks. I thought that was a little ridiculous, because sheās a good looking woman, and if anything she was now thin with curves and big boobs (she didnāt have those before). Anyways, when weād hang out heād often comment on her appearance in front of me, and then look my way and ask āRight?ā Essentially trying to get a complimentary reply out of me for her. It felt a little forced at first, but it happened often enough that the follow-up comments became second nature, even if heād commented about something specific like her breasts or ass.
Privately, heād also bring her sex life a fair amount. And not just mundane things. He told me all about the porn she likes to watch (rough gangbangs), stuff she liked to do in bed, where she takes cumshots, and some sexual stories from her past that essentially can be summed up as āShe was a slutā before they were married. Heās also shown me some flattering pictures of her exposing her cleavage, and repeatedly talks about how awesome her tits are now.
It was around this time I realized (and it continues to this day) that when I visit, she never wears a bra and is always wearing tight clothes. Her nipples are ALWAYS erect and thereās no missing them. The other night she came out in her revealing pyjamas (braless, thin top, short shorts) and my friend called her back into the room so we could look at her because she looked āso hotā. Another day she did her exercises in front of me (again, braless) that mostly involved bending over in front of me, or arching her back like crazy, emphasizing her boobs.
Finally, pretty recently my friend asked me if I ever checked her out, and before I said anything he told me he didnāt care if I did. I told him Iād tried to keep it respectful because it was his wife, but I couldnāt help but notice some things. He again reiterated that he didnāt mind, she was hot, so I could check her out all I wanted.
Thereās also a bit of a backstory too. When she drinks she can get a little sexual and heās always played on that. At a party a few years ago, while they were dating, he encouraged her to take off her top and bra in front of a bunch of his friends, and she did. He watched me check her tits out back then. Another night after sheād been drinking she told us she didnāt know why she had her clothes on, and then promptly went topless. That same night, he also pulled her pants down in front of a bunch of us, bent her over and yanked the fabric of her thong so tight it was pretty much bare ass and exposed racing strip.
So thatās it. Think thereās anything to it? Would appreciate any advice.
9 years ago
Maybe just ask when he goes back to that sort of storyline if they've ever done any group sex participation, given his comments and her general ease in being sexually 'available' around you? I guess I'd say good luck?