One Night Stand
There are legions of women more than ever who are seeking no-strings-attached sex – score! In a 2008 there was a study published in the journal Human Nature, 54 percent of women reported that they felt good after a one-night stand. But just because women are more casual than ever about casual sex, that doesn’t mean you can grab the nearest girl and relieve her ?of her pants employing nothing more than monosyllabic grunts and some hand signals. There is an art to the one-night stand, and a misstep at any point could derail the whole endeavor leaving you with the a bad case of the dreaded ‘blue balls’! Follow the tips I’ve collected and a parade of successful one-night-only encounters will be yours…..
While most girls used to be ashamed of indulging in a one-night stand, these days more and more women occasionally enjoy uncomplicated sex with a veritable stranger (big score for you horn dogs!). To illuminate these pitfalls—and devise a no-fail one-night-stand plan—we here at MYSS chatted with women who’ve been happily whammed, bammed, and thank-you-ma’amed freely and happily.. Take notes fellas!
Choose Your Target
It’s nearly impossible to tell simply by looking at her whether a woman is on the prowl for no-strings-attached sex, but if she’s alone at a bar after midnight on a Tuesday, chances are she’s not there for the rockin’ jukebox. Another clue? Body art – don’t believe us? Check out the 2006 study at Hanover College in ?Indiana suggested a significant correlation between women with piercings or tattoos and the likelihood that they’re into one-night stands. The most important cues a woman will offer, however, are behavioral, so train yourself to be a careful observer!
- In conversation tend to fix your gaze on the eyes, nose, and mouth – if a woman is sexually attracted to you, her eyes will dart to your lower torso area. Yes—your crotch.
- Check her posture: When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, she will position her heart toward him
- If your target/woman/lay is looking to get laid, the first thing she’ll do is touch you – women who are looking for a tryst are not too subtle with physical interaction.
Go With Caution if: She have her arms crossed over her breasts-then she’s protecting them—and herself—from being your prey… on to the next one my friend
Seal the Deal
While you should never preface a hookup with a douchey line like, “Yo, so you know this is a one-time thing, right?” you can actually benefit from letting the woman know you’re not looking for anything serious.
*NOTE MEN*
Women are willing to do more sexually if they knew in advance the encounter was not going to end in a relationship!
Just remember while being up-front about your (non-) intentions to keep things light and fun. There’s no need to have a “talk.” – sometimes this ‘talk’ will lead you to the front door instead of the bedroom…
Get Your Freak On
Be sure to maintain the proper tone in bed. A one-night stand is about hot a****l sex, not hours of butterfly kisses in candlelight. Start “making love” instead of screwing and you may send a dangerous (read: boyfriendly) message.
Chances are, however, she wants the sex to be just as down-and-dirty as you do – pull on her hair, smack that ass b*o – go for the gusto! Just don’t veer onto the disturbing side of the kink spectrum. If you want to be memorable in a good way, make sure the woman gets off—after all, that’s why she’s doing this in the first place. Make it your mission to please her as you are being pleasured!
Exit Like A Stud!
We know the main thing on a guy’s mind after a one-night stand is, when can I bust out of here-stat? But the lamest thing you can do is pull the old Irish slip on a woman after she’s let you into her pot of gold. That means no ducking out the front door while pretending to get a drink, or even while she’s still sleeping. Seriously.
Then again, don’t stay too long
Another morning-after mistake: an artificially affectionate send-off. Women hate it when guys kissed them goodbye on the lips and said things like “Call you later” when they didn’t mean it. The ideal move? Leave your contact info—it saves women from feeling hurt when you don’t call and lets us feel like we have power over the situation. And the chances actually contact after a night of fun are slim to none.
Of course, if the sex was amazing and you wake up feeling warm and fuzzy for the girl ?lying next to you, there’s no rule that says you shouldn’t try to see her again. If you really want her number, go ahead and get it. And call. But don’t be surprised if she blows you off. After ?all, why ruin a good thing?
Thanks for reading my blog!
If anyone wants to chat with me add me on yahoo messenger, my id is sexy.michelle19
While most girls used to be ashamed of indulging in a one-night stand, these days more and more women occasionally enjoy uncomplicated sex with a veritable stranger (big score for you horn dogs!). To illuminate these pitfalls—and devise a no-fail one-night-stand plan—we here at MYSS chatted with women who’ve been happily whammed, bammed, and thank-you-ma’amed freely and happily.. Take notes fellas!
Choose Your Target
It’s nearly impossible to tell simply by looking at her whether a woman is on the prowl for no-strings-attached sex, but if she’s alone at a bar after midnight on a Tuesday, chances are she’s not there for the rockin’ jukebox. Another clue? Body art – don’t believe us? Check out the 2006 study at Hanover College in ?Indiana suggested a significant correlation between women with piercings or tattoos and the likelihood that they’re into one-night stands. The most important cues a woman will offer, however, are behavioral, so train yourself to be a careful observer!
- In conversation tend to fix your gaze on the eyes, nose, and mouth – if a woman is sexually attracted to you, her eyes will dart to your lower torso area. Yes—your crotch.
- Check her posture: When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, she will position her heart toward him
- If your target/woman/lay is looking to get laid, the first thing she’ll do is touch you – women who are looking for a tryst are not too subtle with physical interaction.
Go With Caution if: She have her arms crossed over her breasts-then she’s protecting them—and herself—from being your prey… on to the next one my friend
Seal the Deal
While you should never preface a hookup with a douchey line like, “Yo, so you know this is a one-time thing, right?” you can actually benefit from letting the woman know you’re not looking for anything serious.
*NOTE MEN*
Women are willing to do more sexually if they knew in advance the encounter was not going to end in a relationship!
Just remember while being up-front about your (non-) intentions to keep things light and fun. There’s no need to have a “talk.” – sometimes this ‘talk’ will lead you to the front door instead of the bedroom…
Get Your Freak On
Be sure to maintain the proper tone in bed. A one-night stand is about hot a****l sex, not hours of butterfly kisses in candlelight. Start “making love” instead of screwing and you may send a dangerous (read: boyfriendly) message.
Chances are, however, she wants the sex to be just as down-and-dirty as you do – pull on her hair, smack that ass b*o – go for the gusto! Just don’t veer onto the disturbing side of the kink spectrum. If you want to be memorable in a good way, make sure the woman gets off—after all, that’s why she’s doing this in the first place. Make it your mission to please her as you are being pleasured!
Exit Like A Stud!
We know the main thing on a guy’s mind after a one-night stand is, when can I bust out of here-stat? But the lamest thing you can do is pull the old Irish slip on a woman after she’s let you into her pot of gold. That means no ducking out the front door while pretending to get a drink, or even while she’s still sleeping. Seriously.
Then again, don’t stay too long
Another morning-after mistake: an artificially affectionate send-off. Women hate it when guys kissed them goodbye on the lips and said things like “Call you later” when they didn’t mean it. The ideal move? Leave your contact info—it saves women from feeling hurt when you don’t call and lets us feel like we have power over the situation. And the chances actually contact after a night of fun are slim to none.
Of course, if the sex was amazing and you wake up feeling warm and fuzzy for the girl ?lying next to you, there’s no rule that says you shouldn’t try to see her again. If you really want her number, go ahead and get it. And call. But don’t be surprised if she blows you off. After ?all, why ruin a good thing?
Thanks for reading my blog!
If anyone wants to chat with me add me on yahoo messenger, my id is sexy.michelle19
13 years ago
way cool...
xxx
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