Anal Sex Tips?
Anal Sex Tips:
-We avoid using products like anal ease at first since if you cant feel pain then you actually might hurt something. Extreme pain tells you when to stop before that happens!
- Have you had anal sex with the wife before? Our tried and true method is the same with men or women: Stretch her out using lubed fingers one by one until usually 3 make a cone shape. That's usually big enough for most cocks but size accordingly :-P If you think about it the old adage about big hands and big cock kinda makes sense and 3 of those fingers on that guy with that cock should correspond to his girth. You can also stretch yourself this way to yourself if you have any anal toys.
-Once a little stretching has happened slide your cock head in until you feel resistance then immediately pull out. When you pull out some of her anal membrane kinda pulls out more toward the "outside" with you so then when you stick your cock in again there is more "room" and that membrane isn't stretched out and hurting. Slowly slide in pulling out slightly at ANY resistance then slide back in again and again until buried to the hilt!
-If you buy anal toys> Start small. I've found that if you buy a dildo the same size as your own cock it slides right on in your ass with very little effort! The gradually sized large beads work great at slowly stretching your rectum. If you are meating any lover for anal sex try to stretch yourself at home with an appropriate dildo FIRST. We once had a dude who was 11 inches and about 2 inches and we both took him all!
-Butt plugs are good but remember that once they go in fully they have that smaller part so your rectum gets smaller again and there will be some pain in RESTRETCHING it when essentially you end up having to push it out like its some sort of colossal deuce.
-And please don't forget the horror stories about guys putting stupid everyday items up their ass and getting them stuck! Its NOT an urban myth its FACT! Seriously, a Doctor friend also in the lifestyle works in the ER and has told us some VERY true stories! Yes, Doctors do laugh their asses off and patient confidentiality just means they don't tell WHO you are, NOT prevent them from making you the BUTT of their jokes with all their friends. ;-)
- One thing I also personally recommend is think VERY hard about letting a woman use a strap-on on your ass. Maybe ever. That is for experienced women and even then I haven't found ONE that I think can handle it to where I feel safe with any but the shortest thinnest cock. Women simply have no "feeling" when using a strap-on and can do some serious damage as a result with a large cock. Guys can actually feel any resistance from their cock head and can act accordingly. Imagine her just thrusting blindly not being able to feel any resistance and falling on top of you with her entire body weight and a 9 inch cock and literally ripping you apart! OUCH!! (But a dildo is another story since a woman can feel with their fingers/hand)
Anyone else have any advice that works for them?
-We avoid using products like anal ease at first since if you cant feel pain then you actually might hurt something. Extreme pain tells you when to stop before that happens!
- Have you had anal sex with the wife before? Our tried and true method is the same with men or women: Stretch her out using lubed fingers one by one until usually 3 make a cone shape. That's usually big enough for most cocks but size accordingly :-P If you think about it the old adage about big hands and big cock kinda makes sense and 3 of those fingers on that guy with that cock should correspond to his girth. You can also stretch yourself this way to yourself if you have any anal toys.
-Once a little stretching has happened slide your cock head in until you feel resistance then immediately pull out. When you pull out some of her anal membrane kinda pulls out more toward the "outside" with you so then when you stick your cock in again there is more "room" and that membrane isn't stretched out and hurting. Slowly slide in pulling out slightly at ANY resistance then slide back in again and again until buried to the hilt!
-If you buy anal toys> Start small. I've found that if you buy a dildo the same size as your own cock it slides right on in your ass with very little effort! The gradually sized large beads work great at slowly stretching your rectum. If you are meating any lover for anal sex try to stretch yourself at home with an appropriate dildo FIRST. We once had a dude who was 11 inches and about 2 inches and we both took him all!
-Butt plugs are good but remember that once they go in fully they have that smaller part so your rectum gets smaller again and there will be some pain in RESTRETCHING it when essentially you end up having to push it out like its some sort of colossal deuce.
-And please don't forget the horror stories about guys putting stupid everyday items up their ass and getting them stuck! Its NOT an urban myth its FACT! Seriously, a Doctor friend also in the lifestyle works in the ER and has told us some VERY true stories! Yes, Doctors do laugh their asses off and patient confidentiality just means they don't tell WHO you are, NOT prevent them from making you the BUTT of their jokes with all their friends. ;-)
- One thing I also personally recommend is think VERY hard about letting a woman use a strap-on on your ass. Maybe ever. That is for experienced women and even then I haven't found ONE that I think can handle it to where I feel safe with any but the shortest thinnest cock. Women simply have no "feeling" when using a strap-on and can do some serious damage as a result with a large cock. Guys can actually feel any resistance from their cock head and can act accordingly. Imagine her just thrusting blindly not being able to feel any resistance and falling on top of you with her entire body weight and a 9 inch cock and literally ripping you apart! OUCH!! (But a dildo is another story since a woman can feel with their fingers/hand)
Anyone else have any advice that works for them?
10 years ago
