Your surrender....
I keep coming across subs & slaves who seem to think that they are going to move in with Me and just be a part-time or play sub/slave and somehow Im going to change My goals to suit them just to have a partner...sorry, wrong answer.
Im looking for a needle in a very large haystack,... and I DO well know it... so Im asking u.... up front..
What are the differences between a bogus or bedroom submissive and a genuine one? ....Really? Its not My intent to be insulting, (yet!) BUTT which are u?
To Me, the difference is a matter of character and nature. Some people play a submissive role. But some of us find that TPE submission reveals ur truest selves, ur deepest, most authentic nature.
Submission is NOT about what u DO. Submission is about who u ARE.
The acid test comes the first time a Master directs you to do something you really don’t want to do.
Many slaves are willing to play a submissive role temporarily—as long as she trusts that the Master will do exactly what she wants him to do to please her. There is nothing wrong with that. But it isn’t submission, it’s just cooperation.
True submission is complete & total surrender.
Of course u want pleasure, and a good Master like Me wants that for u when u've earned it. But Total Power Exchange submission means completely letting go of ur own will, and trusting Me, without setting ur own pleasure or wants as a condition for doing so. For a true submissive, that very act of surrender IS the pleasure—that intoxicating rush of letting go and giving all of urself to Me. Whether its just u or there's more than u serving Me, ur level of service and devotion to service should not change because My Domination over u shouldn’t and will not change.
You may think it sounds passive and easy to surrender your will. TRUE Total Power Exchange is far from easy. It is a conscious choice u must make, over and over again, that requires a great deal of courage and inner strength. Saying yes to Me means that you must be strong enough to say no to everyone else, including yourself. True submission means having true power, and then giving it away. u must own ur own power, before you can give it away. Therefore Im not looking for a doormat, but if u are, expect to be treated as the doormat u wish to be within MY limits. (and I DO have some limits.)
An order IS an order....Whether its comes from Me to u from across the bed, the room, across the street, or across the Atlantic....True submission is complete & total surrender.
Saying "no" to an order is not submission, and certainly not surrender, not online, not in person, not in chat or IM & not on a phone call....once u agree to be owned, even on a temporary basis, ur to follow every order I give, or u find a respectful way to ask not to do it. Im not of the mindset to ever tell u to do something, "just because"...I have a purpose for telling u to do it. I will never mind telling u why if u respectfully ASK.
....Im not a play Master, Im not looking for play slaves...
"Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom...Mastering others is strength, Mastering yourself is true power."
This IS MY 24/7 life as a Master, If I cant Control Myself then I cant control u... So really? Total Domination isn’t about what I DO. My Mastery is about who I AM. I will expect u to be of that same mindset as a slave or at the LEAST truly willing to learn to be of the same mindset as a slave. But be honest and real about it....BECAUSE I FULLY AM.
Now if that's a bit much for u.... I understand....
Because Im going to be blunt force trauma real with u from the very start.
SIR
Im looking for a needle in a very large haystack,... and I DO well know it... so Im asking u.... up front..
What are the differences between a bogus or bedroom submissive and a genuine one? ....Really? Its not My intent to be insulting, (yet!) BUTT which are u?
To Me, the difference is a matter of character and nature. Some people play a submissive role. But some of us find that TPE submission reveals ur truest selves, ur deepest, most authentic nature.
Submission is NOT about what u DO. Submission is about who u ARE.
The acid test comes the first time a Master directs you to do something you really don’t want to do.
Many slaves are willing to play a submissive role temporarily—as long as she trusts that the Master will do exactly what she wants him to do to please her. There is nothing wrong with that. But it isn’t submission, it’s just cooperation.
True submission is complete & total surrender.
Of course u want pleasure, and a good Master like Me wants that for u when u've earned it. But Total Power Exchange submission means completely letting go of ur own will, and trusting Me, without setting ur own pleasure or wants as a condition for doing so. For a true submissive, that very act of surrender IS the pleasure—that intoxicating rush of letting go and giving all of urself to Me. Whether its just u or there's more than u serving Me, ur level of service and devotion to service should not change because My Domination over u shouldn’t and will not change.
You may think it sounds passive and easy to surrender your will. TRUE Total Power Exchange is far from easy. It is a conscious choice u must make, over and over again, that requires a great deal of courage and inner strength. Saying yes to Me means that you must be strong enough to say no to everyone else, including yourself. True submission means having true power, and then giving it away. u must own ur own power, before you can give it away. Therefore Im not looking for a doormat, but if u are, expect to be treated as the doormat u wish to be within MY limits. (and I DO have some limits.)
An order IS an order....Whether its comes from Me to u from across the bed, the room, across the street, or across the Atlantic....True submission is complete & total surrender.
Saying "no" to an order is not submission, and certainly not surrender, not online, not in person, not in chat or IM & not on a phone call....once u agree to be owned, even on a temporary basis, ur to follow every order I give, or u find a respectful way to ask not to do it. Im not of the mindset to ever tell u to do something, "just because"...I have a purpose for telling u to do it. I will never mind telling u why if u respectfully ASK.
....Im not a play Master, Im not looking for play slaves...
"Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom...Mastering others is strength, Mastering yourself is true power."
This IS MY 24/7 life as a Master, If I cant Control Myself then I cant control u... So really? Total Domination isn’t about what I DO. My Mastery is about who I AM. I will expect u to be of that same mindset as a slave or at the LEAST truly willing to learn to be of the same mindset as a slave. But be honest and real about it....BECAUSE I FULLY AM.
Now if that's a bit much for u.... I understand....
Because Im going to be blunt force trauma real with u from the very start.
SIR
11 years ago
