Yvette in Social Media Land or Why Are Most Transe
First off, a caveat, I have a mild case of dyslexia and it makes proofing a bit erratic⊠so if a word is missing now and then, its my genes. And if I ramble off in one direction donât worry I will wander back (LOL)!
In February 2013 I stumbled into the world social media and friending on xHamster. It turned out it was quite addictive and interesting. I am a total neophyte in these cyber worlds. So please help me out, especially with the jargon.
Now I restricted myself to the xHamster transsexuals category â since there was no category for crossdressers. So my observations are limited to that niche of universe. Later, I discovered there were a significant number of crossdressers that used the men category rather then transsexual. Otherwise to my mind both groups seemed the same, just one group of men did not like/prefer/accept the term transsexual.
Here some observations and some questions, I would like to hear from others.
First, what is it with the white paper plates as IDs in verification photos? What I am I missing? The jargon on the profiles escapes me also⊠pimps sluts etc etc
Second, most of the profiles in transsexual category arenât! About 95-98% are crossdressers. Almost all are white, middle aged, educated and pretty normal looking trannies. There are very few really nut cases, although some of those German trannies are scary to poor little Yvette.
Third, men wearing womenâs cloths in public is still a social taboo in most societies, so we have more than our share of headless trannies.
Fourth, I became fascinated by how we all talk about our crossdressing in our profiles⊠especially what I call the âcooingâ.
Since womenâs clothing is a fetish for most of us, we almost always coo about dressing up and how the clothing feels on our bodies. Why not? The clothes and the act of dressing up are a buzz and a rush for most of us. Some other observations.
One of the first distinctions gurls make in their profiles is about âmenâ. Some gurls want nothing to do with males/men and say so. They tend to be sweet and mostly bi curious if they express any sexual sentiment. It seems to me that about half or more of these profiles fall into that category.
And there is the converse, gurls who are attracted to men. It is my impression that out and out gay crossdressers are about 1/3rd of the profiles I looked at. Among them there is profound proclivity to lust after BBC.
Some crossdressers disparage and demean their fem persona â they call themselves sluts, worthless, etc etc. Again it is my impression, that these gurls a minority. Most appear to be interested only in men. Humiliation as a way of life escapes naĂŻve little Yvette.
Last, there are some truly beautiful people on xHamster... some are quite elegant and tasteful, especially some of the French and Italian gurls.
As a senior citizen who was in the closet for years I find the young crossdressers particularly refreshing. Talk about attitude!
I paid little attention to men or couples. I did befriend a few lesbians that I found refreshing. In fact, I find their love scenes more to my taste, than the wham, bam, thank you mam shemale videos.
What I found illumining was how your âsixth senseâ develops as you get more and more experience inspecting a gurlâs profile. I looked at three elements, their particulars (location etc) and whether they wrote about fem selves; second, who they befriended; and did they have pictures posted of their fem selves.
Profile details seemed to fall into intuitive and logical patterns. When things did not seem right or something was âwrongâ you know the whole profile was a fake. (And there are goodly number of fakes⊠mostly male males trying to masquerade as a tranny.)
Now most cross dressers are enormously narassitic about themselves dressed. So even in the ânot passableâ profiles with their headless photos it was always fun to see how they presented their fem persona. There are some really great photo sequences on xHamster, and we no doubt would differ depending are peculiar preferences. (I love chic, classy and sensual while others may like the slut or bimbo. There is something on xHamster for everyone.) My impression is that about half the sites had no personal pictures or an odd mix of favorite photos.
Who a gurl befriends is also a revelation of the gurlâs personality. What is the predominate category befriended? Men, fems, trannies, girls, couples etc?
Well âbirds of a featherâ friend each other. Old gurls with old gurls. Pantyhose with pantyhose. People from Texas with people from Texas and so on.
Some friending addicts, like myself trolling for cute and chic gurls, amass a 1000 or so friends while others friend only a few hundred. I found myself going back to those gurls with a few friends. Others have such élan and verve their personalities leap off the screen⊠I literally always wanted to see where they were today on the site.
Further, there is a clique of regulars, people who always show up on the most profiles; after awhile they got to be âold friendsâ and a I sometimes wondered do these people ever sleep?
As for the videos, I curiously find them the least satisfying part of the friending process. Maybe itâs my age, its not that I have seen it all, itâs that most videos, even the most explicit and lurid are clichĂ©d and redundant.
There are only so many narassitic masturbation scenes one can suffer through; just as the guys with a shemale videos are very predictable; and those eastern European videos are appalling. As you can see on my profile I have found less than 10 videos that I sort of like. (I know a lot of that is due to our personal preferences.)
Now just like you, I have my favorite gurls and I love to see them pop up in the âMy Newsâ section. Still this is social media, not a real meeting nor even a phone call. So one should keep a sense of perspective in all this⊠this is our secret selves made âsomewhat publicâ and there is the rush of risk and seeing how much others will reveal about themselves. That keeps our hormones flowing.
Last, I stayed away from the live cam shows and other âsocialâ activities. While my experience is limited, I found the rare encounter with men a melancholy experience, since most seemed lonely and lacking in basic social skills to engage in any interaction. In sense some of the gurls might be just as isolated and lonely â it is called âbeing in the closetâ for a reason â but still we have are fem selves to savor ⊠usually thatâs a lot fun, along with a little hormonal rush.
Overall it was a fun experience. I shall soon go into withdrawal, got to get some work done. Send me a note telling me what you think.
In February 2013 I stumbled into the world social media and friending on xHamster. It turned out it was quite addictive and interesting. I am a total neophyte in these cyber worlds. So please help me out, especially with the jargon.
Now I restricted myself to the xHamster transsexuals category â since there was no category for crossdressers. So my observations are limited to that niche of universe. Later, I discovered there were a significant number of crossdressers that used the men category rather then transsexual. Otherwise to my mind both groups seemed the same, just one group of men did not like/prefer/accept the term transsexual.
Here some observations and some questions, I would like to hear from others.
First, what is it with the white paper plates as IDs in verification photos? What I am I missing? The jargon on the profiles escapes me also⊠pimps sluts etc etc
Second, most of the profiles in transsexual category arenât! About 95-98% are crossdressers. Almost all are white, middle aged, educated and pretty normal looking trannies. There are very few really nut cases, although some of those German trannies are scary to poor little Yvette.
Third, men wearing womenâs cloths in public is still a social taboo in most societies, so we have more than our share of headless trannies.
Fourth, I became fascinated by how we all talk about our crossdressing in our profiles⊠especially what I call the âcooingâ.
Since womenâs clothing is a fetish for most of us, we almost always coo about dressing up and how the clothing feels on our bodies. Why not? The clothes and the act of dressing up are a buzz and a rush for most of us. Some other observations.
One of the first distinctions gurls make in their profiles is about âmenâ. Some gurls want nothing to do with males/men and say so. They tend to be sweet and mostly bi curious if they express any sexual sentiment. It seems to me that about half or more of these profiles fall into that category.
And there is the converse, gurls who are attracted to men. It is my impression that out and out gay crossdressers are about 1/3rd of the profiles I looked at. Among them there is profound proclivity to lust after BBC.
Some crossdressers disparage and demean their fem persona â they call themselves sluts, worthless, etc etc. Again it is my impression, that these gurls a minority. Most appear to be interested only in men. Humiliation as a way of life escapes naĂŻve little Yvette.
Last, there are some truly beautiful people on xHamster... some are quite elegant and tasteful, especially some of the French and Italian gurls.
As a senior citizen who was in the closet for years I find the young crossdressers particularly refreshing. Talk about attitude!
I paid little attention to men or couples. I did befriend a few lesbians that I found refreshing. In fact, I find their love scenes more to my taste, than the wham, bam, thank you mam shemale videos.
What I found illumining was how your âsixth senseâ develops as you get more and more experience inspecting a gurlâs profile. I looked at three elements, their particulars (location etc) and whether they wrote about fem selves; second, who they befriended; and did they have pictures posted of their fem selves.
Profile details seemed to fall into intuitive and logical patterns. When things did not seem right or something was âwrongâ you know the whole profile was a fake. (And there are goodly number of fakes⊠mostly male males trying to masquerade as a tranny.)
Now most cross dressers are enormously narassitic about themselves dressed. So even in the ânot passableâ profiles with their headless photos it was always fun to see how they presented their fem persona. There are some really great photo sequences on xHamster, and we no doubt would differ depending are peculiar preferences. (I love chic, classy and sensual while others may like the slut or bimbo. There is something on xHamster for everyone.) My impression is that about half the sites had no personal pictures or an odd mix of favorite photos.
Who a gurl befriends is also a revelation of the gurlâs personality. What is the predominate category befriended? Men, fems, trannies, girls, couples etc?
Well âbirds of a featherâ friend each other. Old gurls with old gurls. Pantyhose with pantyhose. People from Texas with people from Texas and so on.
Some friending addicts, like myself trolling for cute and chic gurls, amass a 1000 or so friends while others friend only a few hundred. I found myself going back to those gurls with a few friends. Others have such élan and verve their personalities leap off the screen⊠I literally always wanted to see where they were today on the site.
Further, there is a clique of regulars, people who always show up on the most profiles; after awhile they got to be âold friendsâ and a I sometimes wondered do these people ever sleep?
As for the videos, I curiously find them the least satisfying part of the friending process. Maybe itâs my age, its not that I have seen it all, itâs that most videos, even the most explicit and lurid are clichĂ©d and redundant.
There are only so many narassitic masturbation scenes one can suffer through; just as the guys with a shemale videos are very predictable; and those eastern European videos are appalling. As you can see on my profile I have found less than 10 videos that I sort of like. (I know a lot of that is due to our personal preferences.)
Now just like you, I have my favorite gurls and I love to see them pop up in the âMy Newsâ section. Still this is social media, not a real meeting nor even a phone call. So one should keep a sense of perspective in all this⊠this is our secret selves made âsomewhat publicâ and there is the rush of risk and seeing how much others will reveal about themselves. That keeps our hormones flowing.
Last, I stayed away from the live cam shows and other âsocialâ activities. While my experience is limited, I found the rare encounter with men a melancholy experience, since most seemed lonely and lacking in basic social skills to engage in any interaction. In sense some of the gurls might be just as isolated and lonely â it is called âbeing in the closetâ for a reason â but still we have are fem selves to savor ⊠usually thatâs a lot fun, along with a little hormonal rush.
Overall it was a fun experience. I shall soon go into withdrawal, got to get some work done. Send me a note telling me what you think.
11 years ago
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