Second-hand scissoring.
Late life experience. Way back, me & female colleague - I was her boss - used to discuss our sex lives. Love of porn, wanking with guys & affairs on my part. Bisexuality, mild S&M - dressing up, tied up and exposed - on her's. We often finished the day with a beer and sex chat, but whenever I suggested a fuck, no chance. “Never fuck the boss”.
Time went by. She divorced, started a lesbian relationship, & married her partner; I went to the wedding. But it didn't work out, and they soon separated.
We recently resumed the sex chat, now both retired. So when I suggested a fuck, the answer was “Why not?”
The sex was good, and in various post-coital moments I asked “What do lesbians actually do?” She laughed. “Same as straights. Fingering, licking, rubbing, masturbating, exposing, watching. Everything except cock in cunt penetration. And we have dildos even that. Silly question.”
So what about scissoring? Can you get off that way? It's a serious question. Look at 30.30ish below. They get their clits touching but no real pressure.
Before answering, some background. My friend, I'll call her Sandy, usually came easily and quickly. Her lover, I'll call her Mandy, was slower, sometimes much slower. Nothing wrong with that, people differ, but they adjusted to it by letting Mandy usually cum first. Once she was sorted, Sandy could easily rub one out, or whatever.
So Sandy explained. Scissoring was a turn on, but it was difficult for both partners to get the right friction to cum. If Sandy found a bit of mons to press her clit against Mandy's clit was neglected. Of course Mandy could've just wanked herself off, but that wasn't what they did. Sandy lay on her side, top leg bent while Mandy sat astride her thigh and pressed her cunt up against Sandy's bits, and focussed on her own pleasure. If the build up had been good she soon orgasmed. Then she rolled back and let Sandy rub a good one out.
Golly! Wish I'd been there!
Time went by. She divorced, started a lesbian relationship, & married her partner; I went to the wedding. But it didn't work out, and they soon separated.
We recently resumed the sex chat, now both retired. So when I suggested a fuck, the answer was “Why not?”
The sex was good, and in various post-coital moments I asked “What do lesbians actually do?” She laughed. “Same as straights. Fingering, licking, rubbing, masturbating, exposing, watching. Everything except cock in cunt penetration. And we have dildos even that. Silly question.”
So what about scissoring? Can you get off that way? It's a serious question. Look at 30.30ish below. They get their clits touching but no real pressure.
Before answering, some background. My friend, I'll call her Sandy, usually came easily and quickly. Her lover, I'll call her Mandy, was slower, sometimes much slower. Nothing wrong with that, people differ, but they adjusted to it by letting Mandy usually cum first. Once she was sorted, Sandy could easily rub one out, or whatever.
So Sandy explained. Scissoring was a turn on, but it was difficult for both partners to get the right friction to cum. If Sandy found a bit of mons to press her clit against Mandy's clit was neglected. Of course Mandy could've just wanked herself off, but that wasn't what they did. Sandy lay on her side, top leg bent while Mandy sat astride her thigh and pressed her cunt up against Sandy's bits, and focussed on her own pleasure. If the build up had been good she soon orgasmed. Then she rolled back and let Sandy rub a good one out.
Golly! Wish I'd been there!
1 month ago
