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So, I have a bunch of pics in my album that I uploaded at least 8 years ago. Now, they are locked and I can't share them. What the hell is this site doing?!… อ่านเพิ่ม

Does anyone even meet people on xHamster? Surprisingly, i've never met people through xHamster. I was a paying member of AFF, Swappernet, and a few others. I was on this site because, at the time, it was less restrictive and I could connect with people and watch porn. Now, that has changed. You used to be able to post pictures, videos and search stories. Now, you sadly cannot. Also, I feel like people aren't meeting irl through here. I don't know if it is worth it anymore,… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, in my early blog post, I wrote how I met up with R. Well R thinks that she's a BBW, even a SSBBW. While it's refreshing to meet a woman who is comfortable and realistic about her body and not trying to downplay/downsize her size, R is not a BBW and she is nowhere near an SSBBW. I would call her a woman with an average size body. I honestly don't think that she qualifies to barely be a BBW. This was one of the things we talked about and I think it all has to do with perspective. R lives in San Francisco. She's on the West Coast, surrounded by these lithe and tiny women. After a wh… อ่านเพิ่ม

Meet R the other day. She was from the city by the bay. We got in touch online, chatted a bit, traded some information, and agreed to meet. It was a good decision. Conversation was easy, she took care of herself, It was nice. The physical went smoothly as well. The crescendo of anticipation built up from the initial meeting, to conversation, to the foreplay, to finally a long, drawn out physical symphony of our bodies responding to one another. Post coitus wasn't forced as well. Just a natural, lazy conversation as our bodies came down from a joyous high. Hopefully we will see each ot… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, have you ever randomly run into a person that you recognize from xHamster (or another site) in real life before? I'm not talking about a planned meeting where you know that you're going to meet. I'm talking like, randomly minding your own business, running errands, and you just happen to run into someone that you recognize from the site. Some people don't know how to act and that can be forgivable. I'm sure that Miss Manners doesn't discuss how one should act when running into your online sexlife acquaintance in public. But generally speaking, you should probably play it cool. You… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, I was having a conversation with a female friend and we got on the topic of how people seem to assume that if you really, really like to have sex (especially kinky stuff), then you must have been m*****ed in your past. Neither of us have had a "bad touch" experience, but we love sex and have engaged in a lot of different types of kinky action. (Swinging, gangbangs, 3somes, public play, etc..) I understand that there are many people out there who have unfortunately been sexually abused or attacked. Sexual abuse and sexual assault is not atrocious, infuriating, sad and inexcusable. I al… อ่านเพิ่ม

I love women, period. Doesn't matter if you are young, old, short, tall, big or small. I love them all. While physical attraction is important, it is not the only factor in determining who I am attracted to. Intelligence, conversation skills, how one carries themselves, upbringing, how we interact with one another and who you associate with are just some of the other favors that I look at when determining if I'm attracted to a woman. Because I use all of these factors to determine what's sexy to me, I've had an opportunity to meet a wide variety of women. I've been with mature women (I… อ่านเพิ่ม

Baby got back. Yeah, me and Mix-A-Lot have one thing in common: we both love a big ass. I mean, there's nothing like a real woman with a nice, big ass. Something you can grab onto. Something you can smack and pound, when you are going to town. The view of a nice, fat ass when it's bent over in front of you is exquisite. There is something about it that makes you turn primal. So, for all of you ladies with a nice, big ass, hit me up sometime.… อ่านเพิ่ม

My first foray into online dating/sex was back in 2001 or so. I joined this site called Adult Friend Finder, with naive visions of me meeting tons of hot women for sex. Well, for those of your who know or can guess, I was sadly mistaken. Back then, while Adult Friend Finder was new, it was quickly being filled with TONS of fake profiles and bots, used to promote all sorts of things. The female to male ratio was horrible. The site was buggy. There were other issues as well, but you get the gist of what i'm saying. Luckily, I only brought a month long, gold membership and I happily let it… อ่านเพิ่ม

Pornography is not new. Before the invention of photography, there were drawings/paintings of people in various states of undress depicting the human need to have sex. The evolution of drawings/paintings to photography made it more convenient and easier to not only produce porn, but to distribute it to the masses. It makes sense if you think about it. Here's the rough evolution timeline of porn: Spoken word Written language Drawing/Paintings Photographs Film Instant photos (Old school Polaroids. No longer must one develop their own film, or have it developed by a third party. Now… อ่านเพิ่ม

How far is too far for you? What lines won't you cross? What have you done? Dirty chat/text, check Dirty messages, check Taking pictures (Well obviously), check Taking videos, check Threesome with two women, check Sex with three different women at one time, check Sex in public (stores, schools, etc, check my blogs), check Sex in an Adult Theater, check People watching me have sex, check Gangbang, check Fucking another guys wife while he watches, check Fucking another mans girl while he watches, check Fucking another girl's woman while SHE watches, check Going to a on premise… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, this is a post about limits. How far would you go? How far have you gone? What is too far? One person's limit, is another person's starting line. Learning about who you are and what you like, or don't like, takes time. So, I've done a lot of things (and women, High oh!)so I've experienced a lot of different things. But, it took me a while to get that far. Me at 18 is way different than the me today. I've come to realize that I was a very naive person. I had no idea what was out there. But, as I grew older, and asked more questions, tried to find more answers, a whole different… อ่านเพิ่ม

This is a post on a different visit to Sun Aura, with a female friend. Talking with a female friend, we decided to go down to Sun Aura together. It was her first time, and my second. So, here's our relationship: We are friends, who have had sex on multiple occasions, but we were not fwb, dating, or in an exclusive relationship. It was a mutually beneficial relationship. Occasionally, we would get together and I would take pictures or videos of her in staged photo shoots. (sorry, for various reasons, I don't have any of her posted...yet). She needed someone who could take model qual… อ่านเพิ่ม

Sun Aura and Ponderosa Sun Camp. To the uninformed, they sound like two, new age hippy communes. In reality, they are two nude or clothing optional communities in my area. One hosts a fairly popular pageant called Nudes A Poppin. The other is a known in the swinger community. I haven't been to the Ponderosa Sun Camp, so i'll talk about Sun Aura. For those who aren't nudist, being naked is unnatural. Majority of people were taught to always wear clothing, or be covered up. At Sun Aura, one has a chance to experience life sans clothes in a nude community. First of all, let me inform y… อ่านเพิ่ม

Every once in a while, I like to play in public. For those of you who haven't partaken in sex in public, it is something that everyone must experience at least once in their life. For those who have, you know the feeling. The rush of doing something "dangerous" (you could get caught), out of the norm, something freeing and primal. I'm not talking about messing around or just fucking in a car. I've done that plenty of times. Hell, i've had sex on the hood and trunk of a car. It was exciting the first few times, but after that, it's just a means to an end. I'm talking about, sex in publ… อ่านเพิ่ม

So i'm at this party and the girl that I attended the party with is introducing me to people and socializing with the other guests. The party is moving into the next gear, and i'm sitting at a table enjoying a drink. I see my girl, K, talking with a couple across the room. Younger woman, tall, very thick but not as big as K (Not that it matters, but just for accuracy sake), red hair. Older man, shorter than the red head, big but not fat, curly hair and glasses. They eventually come over and introduce themselves, and we start to chat and hang out. So the redhead the redhead says somet… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, the yahoo friend that introduced me to The Lifestyle lived in Peoria. After my first, non-playing visits to a few parties in the Chicago area, we made plans to meet and go to a party that some good friends of her's were throwing at their place. I drove down, and met her face-to-face for the first time. You can see her pics in my "How it all started" album. First meets are always fun. The sight, sound, smell, touch. Everything is new. The anticipation of what's yet to come. Ours was pretty good. We met, talked a bit at her place. Messed around. Went to go get something to eat… อ่านเพิ่ม

So, people keep asking me the same question, so I figured I just put it out in a blog so I don't have to go over it again each time. I was in my mid 20s, just ended a relationship and I was looking to stop the cycle of madness. (Meet girl, go on dates, get in relationship, break up, and immediately meet another girl and start the cycle all over again.) Around that time, I started to join some Yahoo groups (when those were still popular). In one of those groups, I met a woman who introduced me to the Lifestyle. The Lifestyle, or swinging, was totally out of my comfort zone. I was a lat… อ่านเพิ่ม