i agree! sometimes your hole just needs to be stretched and full!!! although i do like to wear leather 'cause it looks and feels hoT! but the s&m can take a back seat to the enjoyment of getting fisted.
Admittedly hot, but I'm liking that fisting isn't so tied up in s&m and leather as it used to be. Sometimes a dude just wants his hole to be bucket for the masses without all those extra peripherals.