My BDSMTest Results and Discussion
I've seen those BDSMTest results on many of pages and figured it wasn't exactly for me. I don't exactly live a "BDSM lifestyle" since I don't have sex. I have kinks i like in porn and fetishes i'd like to experience potentially, but it's impossible to say that I'm a slave or a master or a Sadist or whatever because I don't have a sex life, just a masturbation life.
I saw one on a profile I liked and finally decided to say "Fuck it" and give it a try. My first test was bit innacurate, so I took a second one with better results. I'm posting them here and explaining levels the best I can.
This post ended up WAAY longer than I wanted, so I don't expect many to read it all, but some this can give you insight to me if you have any interest.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
100% Non-monogamist
94% Degrader
91% Voyeur
84% Dominant
79% Boy/Girl
78% Experimentalist
76% Master/Mistress
74% Daddy/Mommy
74% Owner
72% Exhibitionist
71% Ageplayer
65% Sadist
64% Degradee
60% Submissive
59% Brat tamer
51% Rigger
51% Slave
49% Primal (Hunter)
47% Brat
21% Masochist
18% Vanilla
6% Rope bunny
6% Primal (Prey)
5% Pet
http://bdsmtest.org/r/s6RkhxRt
Switch - So i may have intentionally skewed this a bit. Having not had sex, I don't truly bounce around the Dominant/submissive spectrum as much as this would imply. It's more or less my open-ness to watching porn where the male is dominant or is being submissive to a woman. While most of my favorite porn is of dominant male or just a single person doing something on camera, I have a deep seeded fetish for a Mommy or Mother+Father that takes care of me. I have a HUGE kink for horny MILFs in their 40-60s and the thought of needing younger men for sex, especially if the play the ROLE of a biological mother. Oddly enough, I have ZERO sexual attraction to my own IRL mother, so don't try to assume I have some sort of mommy issue. I've lived near exclusively with my mother as a c***d sure, but the thought of us having sex together would disgust us both.....so I'd rather have a woman who is NOT my mom pretend to be mine.
Non-Monagamist Pretty much from the moment I discovered that I love porn, I never believed that monogamy was necessary. I have way too many kinks and fantasies to ever expect one person to fufill, especially since i'm attracted to different body types. I do understand some arguments for monogomy - Reduced/elimnated risk of STDs, stronger sexual and romantic bond and understanding of your partner, strong trust. That said, I dream of a slutty wife that fucks around and is still horny enough to lust after me while smelling like her other partners. I hate the idea of finding a partner who loves me and forcing her to only have sex with me an absolutely nobody else in her one single life simply because of religious traditions and dogmas. My only counter to that is that I do like the idea of a Cuckquean wife that likes being humilated and forced to watch me fuck other girls - she could be a slave and only have sex with me maybe (even then, i'd still want her to "cheat", lol)
Degrader - Dirty talk is huge for me. I can probably have sex without it, but much of the passion would be gone. Browse my XHamster faves and you'll see the countless number of self degrading women and slutty sissies.
Vouyer - I almost wonder if this should be higher, since I watch so much porn and would love to watch real people fuck. I don't do any i*****l upskirts or private camera stuff, but I do watch vids of that sometimes. I've been to the local adult theather a couple times and I hate how i've never seen a couple fuck and it's mostly anxious/nervous guys (like myself) sitting awkwardly. I never get to see people fuck IRL.
Dominant - I masturbate to submissives. My counter to that is I fantasize about women dominating me with handjobs, footjobs and dirty talk.
Boy/Girl - I feel this number might be too high, but I think that's because the survey doesn't have enough questions to address this. Basically, i have fantasies of a horny mother or horny mother AND father taking care of me and using me sexually. I'm lazy and sometimes irresponsible so I like the idea of a more experienced person in charge and getting sex in return.
Experimentalist - I may have boosted this result a bit. My kinks in porn are extremely open minded, but when I think about BDSM, I think of all the extreme ropes, whips and chains kind of shit and I'm not that into being hurt. I do like the of satisfying a kinky and/or sadistic dominant female, but only up to a certain point.
Master/Mistress - I like being called Master when playing with girls and sissies on mic, but I not down with the 24hr responsibility that would come with it. I'm a lazy fuck and I feel I barely take care of myself, let alone another person (I will NEVER be a parent) and i'd be terrible at taking care of their finances, bodily functions, food/health, etc. I suppose if I had the PERFECT slave, I could drop this laziness, especially since I am a decent cook and I'm sure I make more money than some of the sissies that want me.
Daddy/Mommy - Cute girls and sissies calling me daddy makes me weak. Alot of if comes from loving family porn, despite ironically having no sexual attraction to my own family (I'll admit, I Got some cute cousins though
Owner - I really like the idea of having slaves that help with chores and submit to my sexual needs. This really, though, boils down to my ULTIMATE fantasy, of owning a large castle/kingdom that I am the King of while I have multiple wives/partners. Different parts of the castle will have areas and dorms dedicated to certain kinks. For example, an orgy room with lots of cushions and furniture to support various sex positions, a fully stocked kitchen to support food fetishes, a dungeon where submissives can be tied up and abused, a market where people can sell sex related goods and services, a pool/beach area that support swimwear attire and welcomes vouyers exhibitionst alike, the same area features a pool filled with semen, and another one full of piss.
Exhibitionist - I'm not really an exhibitionist. I hate my body so i don't want to be seen. That might change if I liked my appearance more. This more ties into the fact that I like seeing group sex and potentially participating in one. I like the idea of being part of a masturbation group of gooners watching porn and we're all hearing and watching each other masturbate. I recently was complimented by a sissy once, so it felt good to be desired and maybe I could show myself more, but that's unlikely
Ageplayer - I felt this number was too high. I'd say I only dabble in AP thanks to hentai and AP audio. I do like teen porn of course and the way girls dress up Max Hardcore videos. I do want a cute teen girl with cute clothes and furnishings to call me daddy, but I don't need you to wear diapers and play with coloring books. Also, my depravity with porn has made me open to loli/shota hentai, because they are just cartoons. so there's that. Having Mommy call me "her little boy" is super hot too.
Sadist - Maybe this number can be higher? I'm huge into rough porn where a girl being slapped, deepthroated, written on, humiliated and used with bodily fluids. Cum, spit, snot, piss, puke, farts and more, i love it. I sometimes like to see a girl choked or crying, but I can live with out it. Total dominance is hot to me - but part of me is scared of being too rough. I occasionally watch videos of girls hurting each other and rarely, cuntbusting.
Degradee - This number should probably be lower. I love dirty talk. I like watching videos featuring humilation, but I'm not really into being humiliated myself. I guess this is one of things that really fluctuates depending on the situations. I'm not a cuck, but alot of things of cuck porn i like as well (multiple partners, sloppy seconds, cleaning up cum)
Submissive - There's a small part of me that want to be submissive. I'm not sure exactly what that means, but I'm basically open to dominant mommies and tgirls that top. There is the one amazing video of a guy tied up and the his mistress is a dominant he calls mommy - she says she can only cum for her and he has him tied up and plays with his cock. Kimber Haven is a great example - she makes videos with degrading text about herself and saying she is an F-word, but also have videos were's she is dominating and fucking other tgirls and calling them names. I remember a hot clip of Yasmine Lee fucking a guy with an aggressive look on her face.
Brat tamer - I like the idea of converting a bratty girl into a submissive slut
Rigger - I'm curious about tying up a girl and leaving her helpless to my whims. Restrictive ropes and such aren't a huge kink for me, but i've seen plenty hot pics of it, so I'm open to it. I do like the idea of various restrictions holding up a girl so that they are easy to be abused by a group of men for facefucking, slapping and spanking.
Slave - This ties more into being submissive for a dominant woman and less pure lifetime slavery. Videos of dominant women using men as toilets, furniture and playthings are pretty hot to me. I'm HUGE into feet and the though of serving a woman's feet is pretty high up there in my kinks. I have a love/hate relationship with trample vids - I love the sight of feet and heels on a cock, but that ballbusting shit can go. Having her call me names while using feet to dominate me sounds hot as hell though.
Primal (Hunter) - This is low because i'm lazy honestly. That said, I've seen an increasing number of girls interested in generally being forced and consensual non-con is slowly becoming a turn on for me. Criminal sex offenders are creepy, but the thought of a girl being so slutty that she enjoys it is kinda hot.
Brat - I can see it being cute if my submissive is being disobedient, provided that the idea is for me to be more strict/rough to make her more obedient. The idea of making you submissive, instead of you just being instantly submissive.
Masochist - I don't like pain or being hurt. I think the only reason this isn't lower is part of me likes the idea of entertaining a dominant mommy type
Vanilla - I wonder if this should be higher. I'm always bored of seeing peoples profile and there is nothing but ONLY photogenic people having, normal straight sex. I've watched porn for years, so I need to see something weird or interesting to get off. But also, I cut my teeth on vanilla porn. For years I watched amateur couples fucking and playing with cum. There is something romantic and nice about having intimate oral sex with the one person you love. It is sometimes hot to see a hung stud fuck a hot babe. And honestly, when I've gone too far down the rabbit hole of porn kinks, sometimes a simple picture of a typical hot model or a webcam video of a girl showing off her tits or masturbating is all I need to shoot a huge load and get back to reality. Seriously, this rating is too low.
Rope bunny - I can live with never being roped up. The only counter to this is again, that video I mentioned above about a "mommy" who tied up his boy and saying that his cock and cum is only for her. It's one of the hottest dominant female videos ever and reenacting that could change my mind. I also love videos of handjob torture, handjobs through tables, and guys wrapped up in saran wrap or latex while the woman plays and "pleasure torture" his cock. That is so hot.
Primal (Prey) - I'm not sure what this really means, but if this means some creepy guy hunting me down for sex HELL NO! I think the only reason why this isn't is a zero is because I'm sure there has to be some sex crazed woman who might be horny and crazy enough to hunt me down and force fuck me. I don't feel sexy, so if a woman did that to me, I'd probably feel honored (unless she did it to get pregnant)
Pet - Eh, I'd rather use a pet than be one.
I saw one on a profile I liked and finally decided to say "Fuck it" and give it a try. My first test was bit innacurate, so I took a second one with better results. I'm posting them here and explaining levels the best I can.
This post ended up WAAY longer than I wanted, so I don't expect many to read it all, but some this can give you insight to me if you have any interest.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
100% Non-monogamist
94% Degrader
91% Voyeur
84% Dominant
79% Boy/Girl
78% Experimentalist
76% Master/Mistress
74% Daddy/Mommy
74% Owner
72% Exhibitionist
71% Ageplayer
65% Sadist
64% Degradee
60% Submissive
59% Brat tamer
51% Rigger
51% Slave
49% Primal (Hunter)
47% Brat
21% Masochist
18% Vanilla
6% Rope bunny
6% Primal (Prey)
5% Pet
http://bdsmtest.org/r/s6RkhxRt
Switch - So i may have intentionally skewed this a bit. Having not had sex, I don't truly bounce around the Dominant/submissive spectrum as much as this would imply. It's more or less my open-ness to watching porn where the male is dominant or is being submissive to a woman. While most of my favorite porn is of dominant male or just a single person doing something on camera, I have a deep seeded fetish for a Mommy or Mother+Father that takes care of me. I have a HUGE kink for horny MILFs in their 40-60s and the thought of needing younger men for sex, especially if the play the ROLE of a biological mother. Oddly enough, I have ZERO sexual attraction to my own IRL mother, so don't try to assume I have some sort of mommy issue. I've lived near exclusively with my mother as a c***d sure, but the thought of us having sex together would disgust us both.....so I'd rather have a woman who is NOT my mom pretend to be mine.
Non-Monagamist Pretty much from the moment I discovered that I love porn, I never believed that monogamy was necessary. I have way too many kinks and fantasies to ever expect one person to fufill, especially since i'm attracted to different body types. I do understand some arguments for monogomy - Reduced/elimnated risk of STDs, stronger sexual and romantic bond and understanding of your partner, strong trust. That said, I dream of a slutty wife that fucks around and is still horny enough to lust after me while smelling like her other partners. I hate the idea of finding a partner who loves me and forcing her to only have sex with me an absolutely nobody else in her one single life simply because of religious traditions and dogmas. My only counter to that is that I do like the idea of a Cuckquean wife that likes being humilated and forced to watch me fuck other girls - she could be a slave and only have sex with me maybe (even then, i'd still want her to "cheat", lol)
Degrader - Dirty talk is huge for me. I can probably have sex without it, but much of the passion would be gone. Browse my XHamster faves and you'll see the countless number of self degrading women and slutty sissies.
Vouyer - I almost wonder if this should be higher, since I watch so much porn and would love to watch real people fuck. I don't do any i*****l upskirts or private camera stuff, but I do watch vids of that sometimes. I've been to the local adult theather a couple times and I hate how i've never seen a couple fuck and it's mostly anxious/nervous guys (like myself) sitting awkwardly. I never get to see people fuck IRL.
Dominant - I masturbate to submissives. My counter to that is I fantasize about women dominating me with handjobs, footjobs and dirty talk.
Boy/Girl - I feel this number might be too high, but I think that's because the survey doesn't have enough questions to address this. Basically, i have fantasies of a horny mother or horny mother AND father taking care of me and using me sexually. I'm lazy and sometimes irresponsible so I like the idea of a more experienced person in charge and getting sex in return.
Experimentalist - I may have boosted this result a bit. My kinks in porn are extremely open minded, but when I think about BDSM, I think of all the extreme ropes, whips and chains kind of shit and I'm not that into being hurt. I do like the of satisfying a kinky and/or sadistic dominant female, but only up to a certain point.
Master/Mistress - I like being called Master when playing with girls and sissies on mic, but I not down with the 24hr responsibility that would come with it. I'm a lazy fuck and I feel I barely take care of myself, let alone another person (I will NEVER be a parent) and i'd be terrible at taking care of their finances, bodily functions, food/health, etc. I suppose if I had the PERFECT slave, I could drop this laziness, especially since I am a decent cook and I'm sure I make more money than some of the sissies that want me.
Daddy/Mommy - Cute girls and sissies calling me daddy makes me weak. Alot of if comes from loving family porn, despite ironically having no sexual attraction to my own family (I'll admit, I Got some cute cousins though
Owner - I really like the idea of having slaves that help with chores and submit to my sexual needs. This really, though, boils down to my ULTIMATE fantasy, of owning a large castle/kingdom that I am the King of while I have multiple wives/partners. Different parts of the castle will have areas and dorms dedicated to certain kinks. For example, an orgy room with lots of cushions and furniture to support various sex positions, a fully stocked kitchen to support food fetishes, a dungeon where submissives can be tied up and abused, a market where people can sell sex related goods and services, a pool/beach area that support swimwear attire and welcomes vouyers exhibitionst alike, the same area features a pool filled with semen, and another one full of piss.
Exhibitionist - I'm not really an exhibitionist. I hate my body so i don't want to be seen. That might change if I liked my appearance more. This more ties into the fact that I like seeing group sex and potentially participating in one. I like the idea of being part of a masturbation group of gooners watching porn and we're all hearing and watching each other masturbate. I recently was complimented by a sissy once, so it felt good to be desired and maybe I could show myself more, but that's unlikely
Ageplayer - I felt this number was too high. I'd say I only dabble in AP thanks to hentai and AP audio. I do like teen porn of course and the way girls dress up Max Hardcore videos. I do want a cute teen girl with cute clothes and furnishings to call me daddy, but I don't need you to wear diapers and play with coloring books. Also, my depravity with porn has made me open to loli/shota hentai, because they are just cartoons. so there's that. Having Mommy call me "her little boy" is super hot too.
Sadist - Maybe this number can be higher? I'm huge into rough porn where a girl being slapped, deepthroated, written on, humiliated and used with bodily fluids. Cum, spit, snot, piss, puke, farts and more, i love it. I sometimes like to see a girl choked or crying, but I can live with out it. Total dominance is hot to me - but part of me is scared of being too rough. I occasionally watch videos of girls hurting each other and rarely, cuntbusting.
Degradee - This number should probably be lower. I love dirty talk. I like watching videos featuring humilation, but I'm not really into being humiliated myself. I guess this is one of things that really fluctuates depending on the situations. I'm not a cuck, but alot of things of cuck porn i like as well (multiple partners, sloppy seconds, cleaning up cum)
Submissive - There's a small part of me that want to be submissive. I'm not sure exactly what that means, but I'm basically open to dominant mommies and tgirls that top. There is the one amazing video of a guy tied up and the his mistress is a dominant he calls mommy - she says she can only cum for her and he has him tied up and plays with his cock. Kimber Haven is a great example - she makes videos with degrading text about herself and saying she is an F-word, but also have videos were's she is dominating and fucking other tgirls and calling them names. I remember a hot clip of Yasmine Lee fucking a guy with an aggressive look on her face.
Brat tamer - I like the idea of converting a bratty girl into a submissive slut
Rigger - I'm curious about tying up a girl and leaving her helpless to my whims. Restrictive ropes and such aren't a huge kink for me, but i've seen plenty hot pics of it, so I'm open to it. I do like the idea of various restrictions holding up a girl so that they are easy to be abused by a group of men for facefucking, slapping and spanking.
Slave - This ties more into being submissive for a dominant woman and less pure lifetime slavery. Videos of dominant women using men as toilets, furniture and playthings are pretty hot to me. I'm HUGE into feet and the though of serving a woman's feet is pretty high up there in my kinks. I have a love/hate relationship with trample vids - I love the sight of feet and heels on a cock, but that ballbusting shit can go. Having her call me names while using feet to dominate me sounds hot as hell though.
Primal (Hunter) - This is low because i'm lazy honestly. That said, I've seen an increasing number of girls interested in generally being forced and consensual non-con is slowly becoming a turn on for me. Criminal sex offenders are creepy, but the thought of a girl being so slutty that she enjoys it is kinda hot.
Brat - I can see it being cute if my submissive is being disobedient, provided that the idea is for me to be more strict/rough to make her more obedient. The idea of making you submissive, instead of you just being instantly submissive.
Masochist - I don't like pain or being hurt. I think the only reason this isn't lower is part of me likes the idea of entertaining a dominant mommy type
Vanilla - I wonder if this should be higher. I'm always bored of seeing peoples profile and there is nothing but ONLY photogenic people having, normal straight sex. I've watched porn for years, so I need to see something weird or interesting to get off. But also, I cut my teeth on vanilla porn. For years I watched amateur couples fucking and playing with cum. There is something romantic and nice about having intimate oral sex with the one person you love. It is sometimes hot to see a hung stud fuck a hot babe. And honestly, when I've gone too far down the rabbit hole of porn kinks, sometimes a simple picture of a typical hot model or a webcam video of a girl showing off her tits or masturbating is all I need to shoot a huge load and get back to reality. Seriously, this rating is too low.
Rope bunny - I can live with never being roped up. The only counter to this is again, that video I mentioned above about a "mommy" who tied up his boy and saying that his cock and cum is only for her. It's one of the hottest dominant female videos ever and reenacting that could change my mind. I also love videos of handjob torture, handjobs through tables, and guys wrapped up in saran wrap or latex while the woman plays and "pleasure torture" his cock. That is so hot.
Primal (Prey) - I'm not sure what this really means, but if this means some creepy guy hunting me down for sex HELL NO! I think the only reason why this isn't is a zero is because I'm sure there has to be some sex crazed woman who might be horny and crazy enough to hunt me down and force fuck me. I don't feel sexy, so if a woman did that to me, I'd probably feel honored (unless she did it to get pregnant)
Pet - Eh, I'd rather use a pet than be one.
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