In the 80’s I bought my wife a razor strap for discipline. She preferred me to lay over pillows bottoms up on all fours so the muscles in my buttocks were stretched making the whipping more painful. Standing at the side of the bed, she would flick the strap with her strong right arm again and again anywhere from 200 to 400 times punishing my ass and thighs, until they were bright, red, and painfully on fire. Keeping me in position, I would watch her strap on a dildo and kneel behind me giving my ass a good screwing as part of my punishment. She believed in long, hard fucking for over 30 minutes, so I knew that she had a cock that was far more superior than mine.
Yes I think you are right you cannot turn the clock back and well I also agree no real regrets but would have like to have tested myself against a caning from Katie Strickland and whoever else would have been with them at the time and the fact that we are still watching the films is great...I did make some with Cassie Hunter once and I certainly don’t regret that...
Never have regrets, they are only films and being chastised real-time and not for the camera is so much more rewarding. I have spanked males and females with another female present, the dynamic is really so intense. As you can imagine I have also spanked males with another fellow male dominant. So no regrets you just need to make a resolution to do it once it is safe.