Same here. I used to meet up with guys in the 1990s. Back before the Internet, you had to answer ads placed in locally-published magazines that were available in your local adult book store. Back then the ratio of flakes to real ads was very, very low, almost every ad I answered resulted in a hookup. Most were married guys looking to discreetly suck other guy's cocks. Most were incredibly good at sucking. A few resulted in me having sex with both husband and wife. A few women welcomed the experience and but many didn't, not that their protestations changed the outcome. I'd never engage in those scenarios today, but back then things were different.