I would like to add after watching her full video. She is a very lovely person with her charm and honesty and I do hope her marriage is much longer than mine was which was 22 years.
If Baily Jay has fully transitioned then I see her as a woman. She would be the same for me as the young woman, Nicole Maines who played the part of Dreamer in the Supergirl series. I wouldn't have known at all that she was once a young boy at one time in her life.