Female Orgasms
I'll start by saying that while all women have the same anatomy, they all do not respond identically. Use the information below as a guide to start from and enjoy exploring the fun you can have with a woman's body and what she specifically responds to well.
I have been fortunate that most of my female companions have been both multi-orgasmic (like me) and willing to let me explore how their bodies respond. It surprises me that most of them were not aware of aspects of sexual pleasure short of "ya get wet and stick it in and out, repeat." Sadly, a lot of the guys I've talked with think that's sex as well. So I'm writing this hoping that it will bring you more fun and more rewarding sexual experiences.
Women can have orgasmic experiences through a range of stimulation. I'm going to list and explain the ones I've found repeatedly and you can try them out when you get the opportunity.
1. Nipple stimulation. This seems to respond like a sympathetic clitoral orgasm for some women. For the women who are sensitive to it, you can buckle their knees just by playing with their nice full nipples. Note though that this will vary. Some women like their nipples pinched, others pulled hard on as if I'm milking them. A few like them bit or nibbled on, others like them sucked hard, while a couple just enjoy a light teasing with a flicking tongue. This is specific to each woman as nipple sensitivity varies so try things out and learn what she enjoys. I recommend starting softly and working up on the force threshold until you hit what she really likes.
2. Clitoral stimulation. Every woman I've been with has received orgasms from this. That said they do vary. Some like hard pressure almost to the point of crushing their clit against their pubic bone. Others really respond to light barely tongue flicking their hood. Remember that she has two sets of lips down there one of which connects directly to the clitoral hood. Lick, suck, and just run your tongue along these pairs of lips to explore how she responds best. The longer you play here, giving her one or two orgasms during the process, the wetter she will be when you want to go deeper. My recommendation to draw them out longer and really build well is to suck on the clitoral hood or use your tongue to rock it back and forth, near where it connects with her body above the clit itself. The stimulation is more subtle (not just hammering the clit) and can have her begging you for release.
3. Shallow vaginal. Shallow means only a centimeter or two inside. I trigger this one with my tongue, inserting it inside her and then flicking her vagina entryway up and down with the tip of my tongue. This is not external licking. Force your tongue to stay inside her entry and flick just the tip. You'll rock her vaginal entry and stimulate it all around your tongue. When she does orgasm, she'll attempt to close down and push you out. Firm up your tongue though and tongue-fuck her through it. Every time I have done this, after they recover from the orgasm they immediately demand I drive my cock deep inside. It's a vaginal orgasm that lacks having something filling to wrap around. So while it is a good orgasm it seems to leave them wanting more.
4. G-spot. This spot (about the size of a fingertip) is located inside a woman's vagina, on the wall towards her front, just above her pubic bone. To find it the first time, I recommend using your fingers. Have her lay on her back, slide your fingers inside her vagina pressing up toward her front. You can feel her pubic bone and follow along it as you go inside. When you've reached the top of the pubic bone keep going a little farther, your fingers will slide past the pubic bone and press into the soft tissue again. Right around there, above the pubic bone, if you rub that soft tissue it changes its texture. It reminds me of how the areola feels. Smooth most of the time, but when you stimulate them the skin becomes ridged as the nipples harden. That same texture is what I've encountered inside woman's vaginas when rubbing this spot. It will trigger a very strong orgasm once released. Note where it is in her body. Then the two of you can work on various positions to hit it regularly with a nice erection or toy inside her. I've found cowgirl leaning backwards, jockey, and her face down with me laying fully on top fucking from behind to be consistently good at triggering this spot during intercourse.
5. Deep vaginal. This one is tricky and takes depth control with practice. All my successes have been in missionary position with her legs held up or on my shoulders. The area you are trying to target with your cock head is just in front of the cervix. If you're sensitive enough you may be able to feel the cervix touching your tip so you know you've got the depth right. It takes a lot of control though because let’s face it, when you are that deep you really feel like going all the way and bottoming out inside. That will be too far though or worse, if you pound/slam the cervix you've just sent a jolt through her insides and all of my partners that I've done that to have had their orgasmic build reset. Now if you do get this spot to trigger, DAMN is all I can say. I've had partners flood the bed with their release and be out of breath when the orgasm subsides, towels have no chance to catch it all. I've also had a couple black out during it. What they describe is an orgasm so strong that it feels like all their internal organs are vibrating. Be advised though, I have only hit this on a few of my partners. I don't know if all women can achieve it or we just were not patient enough for the rest to reach it.
6. Anal. I'm not big on anal, primarily because I like to keep playing while recharging and anal requires cleaning up immediately afterwards. No dropping down for oral etc. I have been with a few women who do enjoy receiving it though. None of them had orgasms that I am aware of (unless they were weak ones). From what I was told, vaginal intercourse feels great driving in while anal feels great drawing it out. Make sure you use a lot of lube though and press in slow. The anus isn't self-lubricating as a vagina is and it's designed to be fully closed tight where vaginas are not. Once she adjusts to your girth, you should be good to go for as long as she wants to ride. From my experience, once she's lubed and fully received you, draw out slowly almost to the base of your tip. Then drive in fast right to your base, rocking her forward. The hard fuck and hit tends to tighten her ass down on you. Then slowly draw back out again. Making her tighten down followed with that slow draw apparently feels fucking amazing. The low groans and moans that follow during withdrawal are very nice to hear. Let her be your guide on what she wants to feel. My only suggestion is if she is up for it, to have her do an enema first. She may enjoy feeling what you are doing back there but imo it’s not much of a turn-on to look down watching yourself fucking her ass and seeing shit streaked on your shaft.
Well that wraps up what I wanted to cover. Keep in mind sex is so much more than just stick it in and pull it out. You can experiment with numerous positions to change entry angles, adjust your cadence, vary your depth, and combine any of those. A vagina is an amazingly sensitive organ. You can stimulate it in so many ways to give a range of outcums. Do it well and she'll want you to keep doing it. :D
I have been fortunate that most of my female companions have been both multi-orgasmic (like me) and willing to let me explore how their bodies respond. It surprises me that most of them were not aware of aspects of sexual pleasure short of "ya get wet and stick it in and out, repeat." Sadly, a lot of the guys I've talked with think that's sex as well. So I'm writing this hoping that it will bring you more fun and more rewarding sexual experiences.
Women can have orgasmic experiences through a range of stimulation. I'm going to list and explain the ones I've found repeatedly and you can try them out when you get the opportunity.
1. Nipple stimulation. This seems to respond like a sympathetic clitoral orgasm for some women. For the women who are sensitive to it, you can buckle their knees just by playing with their nice full nipples. Note though that this will vary. Some women like their nipples pinched, others pulled hard on as if I'm milking them. A few like them bit or nibbled on, others like them sucked hard, while a couple just enjoy a light teasing with a flicking tongue. This is specific to each woman as nipple sensitivity varies so try things out and learn what she enjoys. I recommend starting softly and working up on the force threshold until you hit what she really likes.
2. Clitoral stimulation. Every woman I've been with has received orgasms from this. That said they do vary. Some like hard pressure almost to the point of crushing their clit against their pubic bone. Others really respond to light barely tongue flicking their hood. Remember that she has two sets of lips down there one of which connects directly to the clitoral hood. Lick, suck, and just run your tongue along these pairs of lips to explore how she responds best. The longer you play here, giving her one or two orgasms during the process, the wetter she will be when you want to go deeper. My recommendation to draw them out longer and really build well is to suck on the clitoral hood or use your tongue to rock it back and forth, near where it connects with her body above the clit itself. The stimulation is more subtle (not just hammering the clit) and can have her begging you for release.
3. Shallow vaginal. Shallow means only a centimeter or two inside. I trigger this one with my tongue, inserting it inside her and then flicking her vagina entryway up and down with the tip of my tongue. This is not external licking. Force your tongue to stay inside her entry and flick just the tip. You'll rock her vaginal entry and stimulate it all around your tongue. When she does orgasm, she'll attempt to close down and push you out. Firm up your tongue though and tongue-fuck her through it. Every time I have done this, after they recover from the orgasm they immediately demand I drive my cock deep inside. It's a vaginal orgasm that lacks having something filling to wrap around. So while it is a good orgasm it seems to leave them wanting more.
4. G-spot. This spot (about the size of a fingertip) is located inside a woman's vagina, on the wall towards her front, just above her pubic bone. To find it the first time, I recommend using your fingers. Have her lay on her back, slide your fingers inside her vagina pressing up toward her front. You can feel her pubic bone and follow along it as you go inside. When you've reached the top of the pubic bone keep going a little farther, your fingers will slide past the pubic bone and press into the soft tissue again. Right around there, above the pubic bone, if you rub that soft tissue it changes its texture. It reminds me of how the areola feels. Smooth most of the time, but when you stimulate them the skin becomes ridged as the nipples harden. That same texture is what I've encountered inside woman's vaginas when rubbing this spot. It will trigger a very strong orgasm once released. Note where it is in her body. Then the two of you can work on various positions to hit it regularly with a nice erection or toy inside her. I've found cowgirl leaning backwards, jockey, and her face down with me laying fully on top fucking from behind to be consistently good at triggering this spot during intercourse.
5. Deep vaginal. This one is tricky and takes depth control with practice. All my successes have been in missionary position with her legs held up or on my shoulders. The area you are trying to target with your cock head is just in front of the cervix. If you're sensitive enough you may be able to feel the cervix touching your tip so you know you've got the depth right. It takes a lot of control though because let’s face it, when you are that deep you really feel like going all the way and bottoming out inside. That will be too far though or worse, if you pound/slam the cervix you've just sent a jolt through her insides and all of my partners that I've done that to have had their orgasmic build reset. Now if you do get this spot to trigger, DAMN is all I can say. I've had partners flood the bed with their release and be out of breath when the orgasm subsides, towels have no chance to catch it all. I've also had a couple black out during it. What they describe is an orgasm so strong that it feels like all their internal organs are vibrating. Be advised though, I have only hit this on a few of my partners. I don't know if all women can achieve it or we just were not patient enough for the rest to reach it.
6. Anal. I'm not big on anal, primarily because I like to keep playing while recharging and anal requires cleaning up immediately afterwards. No dropping down for oral etc. I have been with a few women who do enjoy receiving it though. None of them had orgasms that I am aware of (unless they were weak ones). From what I was told, vaginal intercourse feels great driving in while anal feels great drawing it out. Make sure you use a lot of lube though and press in slow. The anus isn't self-lubricating as a vagina is and it's designed to be fully closed tight where vaginas are not. Once she adjusts to your girth, you should be good to go for as long as she wants to ride. From my experience, once she's lubed and fully received you, draw out slowly almost to the base of your tip. Then drive in fast right to your base, rocking her forward. The hard fuck and hit tends to tighten her ass down on you. Then slowly draw back out again. Making her tighten down followed with that slow draw apparently feels fucking amazing. The low groans and moans that follow during withdrawal are very nice to hear. Let her be your guide on what she wants to feel. My only suggestion is if she is up for it, to have her do an enema first. She may enjoy feeling what you are doing back there but imo it’s not much of a turn-on to look down watching yourself fucking her ass and seeing shit streaked on your shaft.
Well that wraps up what I wanted to cover. Keep in mind sex is so much more than just stick it in and pull it out. You can experiment with numerous positions to change entry angles, adjust your cadence, vary your depth, and combine any of those. A vagina is an amazingly sensitive organ. You can stimulate it in so many ways to give a range of outcums. Do it well and she'll want you to keep doing it. :D
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