My previous ads looking for the right woman:
So, I have a “type” both physically and…her mindset/attitude. BOTH are relevant for a variety of reasons.
I will start with the most important first: MINDSET/ATTITUDE
• I want a woman who doesn’t want to argue/fight, but DOES want to talk things out to find a solution.
• The ability to hold a conversation AND to be able to sit and just enjoy each other’s company is important.
• Please have a fundamental understanding that they pay me to WORK at my job. I MAY have a moment every now and then to shoot a text or check social media as a distraction: if that concept is foreign to you, WE WILL NOT GET ALONG
• Time is a commodity: I don’t have much that isn’t consumed by work and family (k**s & brother & his k**s), so if you know you need LOTS of “just us” time, then we might not be a match.
o I do set aside AT LEAST 1 day every 2 weeks that are reserved for just me and my “lady friend” as my brother puts it, so there is that. We can discuss if you wish and there is some flexibility there, but I’d rather put the “negative” out there rather than try to sell you and overly “rosey” situation.
• I won’t date someone who smokes cigarettes.
• I need a partner that does enjoy going out to the occasional:
o Movie
o Festival
o Flea Market
o Concerts
o Dinner
o Parks
o Conventions (like for Fandoms)
• Music is a part of daily life. I wake up with it and spend most of my day listening to it. Mostly, its “harder” stuff but not “hardcore”. I do listen to a wide variety but 75% or better is angry devil music and at least 5% of that is hateful, rage filled music. I don’t need to listen at ridiculous volume levels and if we’re together it will likely just be a low drone if its on. If you are not able to enjoy that and expect me to change the selection because “it give you a headache” then…once in a while is fine, but if its not your taste, then…
o I listen to music while:
Showering
Working
Doing housework
Doing Yard-work
Driving
• I need someone who understands the difference between having an opinion and being opinionated.
• Here is the hardest one to find: I need a woman who considers herself/has been told/suspects she is insatiable (sexually). This is not just to have a woman who wants sex from me all the time- there is much more to it. I’ll cover some details and try to do so tastefully. If you answer yes to 1 or more of the following questions OR they sound like questions you WISH you could say yes to, then please reach out and lets see what happens
o Have you ever had good (or great) sex and still wanted more? Not just more from your partner, but another fresh partner to keep things going?
o Ever read an erotic story about a woman with multiple lovers (back to back, at once, or just a rotation to call on based on mood/needs) and thought, “lucky bitch”?
o Have you watched porn where a wife or girlfriend was with multiple men at once and wanted to be that wife/girlfriend?
o Were you “promiscuous” and miss those days?
o Did you have 3somes or larger groups in the past and miss them?
o Ever had sex and imagined more men there for you?
o Ever cheated on a husband or bf?
o Ever WANTED to cheat (just sex) but didn’t want the drama?
o Ever been called a “slut” and kind of liked the thought or actually agreed with that, but didn’t see it as the insult they wanted it to be?
o Do you think porn stars like Angel Smalls, Casey Calvert, Lisa Sparxxx, and Creampie Cathy are lucky women?
o Do you like to flash?
o Do you wish you could get the courage to flash?
o Do you like to dress “slutty”?
o Do you want to dress “slutty”
I could probably go on for quite some time, but I think I’ve put in enough detail to either turn away the ones who would not be compatible and “turn on” those who may be a good match.
So, what’s my “physical type”? This is NOT a way to disqualify someone, but more to encourage them and also to give you an idea of the physical type that catches my eye from across a room etc. If you:
• Are Curvy/chubby/chunky/bbw
• Have large breasts (no such thing as TOO BIG in my opinion)
• Have full hips
• Have “big butt”
I know it may be crass or uncouth, but if you want examples I have examples (but most of them are porn stars).
So, I’ve talked about the type of person I am looking for, let me tell you a little about me:
• I’ve been married once (part of the reason it ended was this lifestyle-she was NOT interested)
• I am looking for 1 (ONE) woman for me in this. I am NOT looking for a completely open relationship: all of the things listed up there that are porn subtypes are for her, I want to be monogamous to her
• I’m former military
• I work a blue collar job
• I also have a part time job
• I’m a smart-ass
• I’m a dork (and embrace it)
• I’m a great dad/father to my k**s, my brother’s k**s and some friends who have c***dren with sperm donors rather than dads (yes being a “dad/father” is that important)
• I have a voracious appetite for learning.
• I stand 5’9” and weigh 190 or so. I’m told I look like a more rugged version of “Tallahassee” from Zombiland or Cyrus Grissom.
The rest we can cover if you wish to reach out.
I will start with the most important first: MINDSET/ATTITUDE
• I want a woman who doesn’t want to argue/fight, but DOES want to talk things out to find a solution.
• The ability to hold a conversation AND to be able to sit and just enjoy each other’s company is important.
• Please have a fundamental understanding that they pay me to WORK at my job. I MAY have a moment every now and then to shoot a text or check social media as a distraction: if that concept is foreign to you, WE WILL NOT GET ALONG
• Time is a commodity: I don’t have much that isn’t consumed by work and family (k**s & brother & his k**s), so if you know you need LOTS of “just us” time, then we might not be a match.
o I do set aside AT LEAST 1 day every 2 weeks that are reserved for just me and my “lady friend” as my brother puts it, so there is that. We can discuss if you wish and there is some flexibility there, but I’d rather put the “negative” out there rather than try to sell you and overly “rosey” situation.
• I won’t date someone who smokes cigarettes.
• I need a partner that does enjoy going out to the occasional:
o Movie
o Festival
o Flea Market
o Concerts
o Dinner
o Parks
o Conventions (like for Fandoms)
• Music is a part of daily life. I wake up with it and spend most of my day listening to it. Mostly, its “harder” stuff but not “hardcore”. I do listen to a wide variety but 75% or better is angry devil music and at least 5% of that is hateful, rage filled music. I don’t need to listen at ridiculous volume levels and if we’re together it will likely just be a low drone if its on. If you are not able to enjoy that and expect me to change the selection because “it give you a headache” then…once in a while is fine, but if its not your taste, then…
o I listen to music while:
Showering
Working
Doing housework
Doing Yard-work
Driving
• I need someone who understands the difference between having an opinion and being opinionated.
• Here is the hardest one to find: I need a woman who considers herself/has been told/suspects she is insatiable (sexually). This is not just to have a woman who wants sex from me all the time- there is much more to it. I’ll cover some details and try to do so tastefully. If you answer yes to 1 or more of the following questions OR they sound like questions you WISH you could say yes to, then please reach out and lets see what happens
o Have you ever had good (or great) sex and still wanted more? Not just more from your partner, but another fresh partner to keep things going?
o Ever read an erotic story about a woman with multiple lovers (back to back, at once, or just a rotation to call on based on mood/needs) and thought, “lucky bitch”?
o Have you watched porn where a wife or girlfriend was with multiple men at once and wanted to be that wife/girlfriend?
o Were you “promiscuous” and miss those days?
o Did you have 3somes or larger groups in the past and miss them?
o Ever had sex and imagined more men there for you?
o Ever cheated on a husband or bf?
o Ever WANTED to cheat (just sex) but didn’t want the drama?
o Ever been called a “slut” and kind of liked the thought or actually agreed with that, but didn’t see it as the insult they wanted it to be?
o Do you think porn stars like Angel Smalls, Casey Calvert, Lisa Sparxxx, and Creampie Cathy are lucky women?
o Do you like to flash?
o Do you wish you could get the courage to flash?
o Do you like to dress “slutty”?
o Do you want to dress “slutty”
I could probably go on for quite some time, but I think I’ve put in enough detail to either turn away the ones who would not be compatible and “turn on” those who may be a good match.
So, what’s my “physical type”? This is NOT a way to disqualify someone, but more to encourage them and also to give you an idea of the physical type that catches my eye from across a room etc. If you:
• Are Curvy/chubby/chunky/bbw
• Have large breasts (no such thing as TOO BIG in my opinion)
• Have full hips
• Have “big butt”
I know it may be crass or uncouth, but if you want examples I have examples (but most of them are porn stars).
So, I’ve talked about the type of person I am looking for, let me tell you a little about me:
• I’ve been married once (part of the reason it ended was this lifestyle-she was NOT interested)
• I am looking for 1 (ONE) woman for me in this. I am NOT looking for a completely open relationship: all of the things listed up there that are porn subtypes are for her, I want to be monogamous to her
• I’m former military
• I work a blue collar job
• I also have a part time job
• I’m a smart-ass
• I’m a dork (and embrace it)
• I’m a great dad/father to my k**s, my brother’s k**s and some friends who have c***dren with sperm donors rather than dads (yes being a “dad/father” is that important)
• I have a voracious appetite for learning.
• I stand 5’9” and weigh 190 or so. I’m told I look like a more rugged version of “Tallahassee” from Zombiland or Cyrus Grissom.
The rest we can cover if you wish to reach out.
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