Agreement of Chastity
1. Definitions:
Throughout this Agreement, these terms are used with the following definitions.
Chastity: Prevention of all kinds of sexual behavior, including sexual intercourse, touching the genitals, masturbation and any other stimulation to cause ejaculation.
Chastity Belt: Any lockable, wearable device designed to keep wearer's chastity and to prevent touching wearer's genitals by wearing and locking-up. Specifically to this Agreement, a chastity belt is defined as Holy Trainer although additional chastity belts could be purchased and used at the key-holder’s discretion. Chastity belt is used to enforce discipline, submissiveness and to prevent erections.
Male Orgasm: An ejaculatory release of semen.
Bondage: Control the wearer by using restraints like collar, cuffs, spreader bar, gags and/or nipple clips for the purpose of discipline, punishment, sexual acts, training or service.
Discipline: Any means to correct the wearer actions, atone for infractions and/or training the wearer to be submissive and respectful.
Punishment: Is an act of discipline where the Mistress deliberately swats harder to correct the submissive wearer’s behavior and major infractions. Punishment is not meant for wearer’s pleasure but rather for behavioral correction. A proper punishment session leaves the wearer’s ass red, warm, marked and stinging. At a minimum, a punishment session shall have five (5) lashes from a tawse strap leaving a visible reminder for the punishment.
Ruined Orgasm: Is an orgasm that is not enjoyable and these occur when Mistress push the wearer just a fraction beyond the point of no return and then stop all stimulation. If done correctly, the ejaculate will dribble out of the penis with no pulsating. To ruin an orgasm, stop all stimulation if the wearer begins to ejaculate.
Stifled Orgasm: The key-holder stops all stimulation when orgasm starts and prohibits the ejaculate from leaving the penis either by pinching the end of the gland together or placing the thumb over the end until the pulsating ends.
Tease & Denial / Edging: Is when the key-holder teases the wearer to the point of orgasm but stops all stimulation and denies the wearer from orgasm. Instruct the wearer to indicate when orgasm is close and stops all stimulation. If the timing is right, the sensation of impending orgasm will fade and orgasm will not occur. The wearer should be edged several times. The goal is to leave the wearer sexual frustrated to be locked back in chastity without orgasm.
Face Sitting: Is when the key-holder positions her vagina over the wearer’s mouth for servicing. The wearer can be instructed to suck the clit, lick the clit, insert his tongue, lick and/or suck the vagina. The Mistress could use face sitting to achieve orgasm. Sometimes face sitting involves creampie cleaning.
Cum Eating: Is the process where the wearer consumes cum. This is accomplished by either the wearer licking up the ejaculate, sucking out the ejaculate or the key-holder putting the ejaculate into the wearer’s mouth. The ejaculate is to be swallowed. The Mistress can command the wearer to open his mouth before swallowing. Cum eating shows the wearer’s submissiveness and the Mistress dominance. Cum eating is expected from the submissive sissy and during a Hot Wife session.
Creampie Cleaning: Is when the Mistress has ejaculate in Her vagina and instructs the wearer to lick and suck the ejaculate from Her vagina. The wearer, as the submissive sissy, is obligated to comply with her command. Face sitting is often part of creampie cleaning. This allows the ejaculate to run into the wearer’s mouth. The ejaculate is to be consumed. This is how the wearer demonstrates being a submissive sissy.
Prostate Milking: The massaging of the prostate gland, through the anus, in such a manner as to release ejaculate and/or other accumulated fluids without an orgasm. Prostate milking can be accomplished by using fingers or a prostate massager. Prostate milking is used to relieve the wearer without removing the chastity belt. Prostate milking should be done every two weeks if orgasm has been denied.
Dildo: Is a penis looking device which is inserted either in the vagina or the anus. A dildo can be used to compare the wearer’s tiny limp penis to the size of a real cock and for sissy sexual intercourse. The wearer can be required to suck the dildo.
Small Penis Comparison: The Mistress should always point out the tiny size of the wearer’s penis, compare his penis to a real cock, emphasize the wearer’s tiny penis is not a real cock, the wearer’s tiny penis is never getting near Her pussy, the Mistress would get more pleasure from Her vibrator than that tiny penis and even when erect the wearer still has a tiny penis. While watching movies talk about the size of the cock you see and then tell the wearer his tiny penis could never provide that type of intensity or pleasure to the Mistress. The Mistress should train the submissive sissy tiny penis to always be limp.
Strap-on: Is a device that is strapped around the waist of the key-holder which holds a dildo. The key-holder can have the wearer suck the strap-on to show servitude and cum on the dildo then suck it off. The key-holder can insert the strap-on in the wearer’s anus using a rhythmic motion to exert Her dominance. Strap-on is used to provide pleasure to the sissy and practice at taking and suck a cock.
Anal Plug: Is a device inserted into the wearer’s anus for discipline or in preparation for a strap-on session. Anal plugs come in various sizes.
Vibrator: A device used to stimulate the clit, nipples, vagina and/or the anus. The vibrator can be inserted in the vagina or anus of the wearer. A vibrator can be worn during sexual session. A vibrator can be used during a Tease & Denial, Edging and/or BDSM session.
Paddle, Tawse, Crop, Flogger: Are devices used to spank the wearer’s ass during a discipline and punishment session. Each provides a different level of sensation, reaction and results. The Mistress should practice, on the sissy, using each implement to learn proper use. The Mistress can wheel Her dominance with these implements.
Nipple Clamps: Is a device placed on the nipples that apply pressure to the nipples. Nipple clamps can be used for pleasure or to discipline the wearer.
Spreader Bar: Is used to bind the ankles and/or wrist. The purpose is to allow, the Mistress, uninhibited access to the wearer’s penis, testicles and anus. The spreader bar can be used to enforce the Mistress’s dominance during discipline, punishment, tease & denial, Hot Wife and/or edging sessions.
Domestic Discipline: The practice between two consenting adult in which the Head of Household (HOH) punishes the submissive sissy through spanking in an effort to correct behaviors for the overall benefit of the Female Led Relationship.
Female Led Relationship: FLR in another dynamic of Domestic Discipline where the key-holder is the Head of Household and the wearer is the submissive sissy.
Head of Household: The disciplinarian of the relationship, the enforcer of the rules and expectation within the relationship. The Head of Household (HOH) delivers the discipline and punishment.
Hot Wife/Cuckolding: Is a key-holder that obtains sexual satisfaction anyway She sees fit. The wearer remains in chastity, watches Her achieving orgasm and is there to assist the Hot Wife. Creampie cleaning, cum eating, cock fluffing, pussy and anus worship, by the wearer, are often part of the session. The submissive sissy is wearing the chastity belt, panties, bra and/or stocking while the Hot Wife is being serviced. It is the duty of the sissy to prepare the Hot Wife, attend to Her needs while being serviced and clean Her after servicing.
Key-holder: The individual, who will lock the device, will hold the key according to this Agreement, administer the Domestic Discipline or punishment and engage in FLR for the sole purpose of self-pleasure. In case of the Agreement, may also be referred to as Mistress, Head of Household (HOH), Hot Wife, She or Her.
Submissive Sissy: The individual is required to wear a chastity belt and panties at all times while occasionally being required to wear a bra and/or stockings. The sissy must be emasculated and know his role in the sexual relationship. The sissy no longer has pleasure from penis but rather through anal intercourse using a dildo. The sissy is trained to maintain a limp penis and to clean-up cum to demonstrate his emasculated status. The sissy is required to attend to the needs of the Hot Wife.
Wearer: The individual who will wear the device according to this Agreement, see to it the key-holder’s orgasms are pleasing for Her, accept Domestic Discipline, submit to the HOH in FLR, supports the Hot Wife desires, accepts being a submissive sissy and who is to keep one’s own chastity. In case of the Agreement, may also be referred to as submissive, sissy, submissive sissy, I, his, he or myself.
2. Binding Agreement:
I, the undersigned, bind myself totally and completely, without limit, to servitude to the holder of the chastity Agreement, hereinafter known as key-holder.
With full understanding of the meanings and implications of this chastity Agreement, I specifically desire and request the control of my chastity to be controlled by the key-holder in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) to facilitate my urging sexual desires and define my sexual role in the relationship. I also desire the key-holder to use Domestic Discipline to enforce the rules, this Agreement and to achieve multiple pleasures as a Hot Wife. I understand the Mistress will utilize training for cum cleaning, to maintain a limp penis and to enforce being a submissive sissy.
Chastity is probably the most efficient tool that a dominant key-holder possesses, simply because the wearer is so much easier to control and dominate if their orgasm is denied by a seductive powerful Mistress. From the wearer’s perspective the whole key-holder domination or Female Led Relationship / Hot Wife lifestyle is much more pleasurable if the wearer is sexually frustrated. Once the wearer climaxes, his enthusiasm to worship the female key-holder is greatly diminished. Therefore, to ensure that a male is really denied of any orgasms the dominant female key-holder shall force the wearer to wear a chastity belt. Chastity belt acts as a lock that prevents the wearer from touching his penis. The key to the belt is kept by the key-holder. Another key-holder’s benefits from chastity with denying the wearer’s orgasm is the power exchange with the wearer of being denied orgasm while being forced to pleasure the superior female key-holder as often as She demands. The Mistress is allowed to orgasm as often as She wants and how She sees fit. The Mistress should leverage these sexual benefits to ‘get things Her way’ by using chastity, discipline, orgasm tease and denial.
One of the key-holder’s benefits from Domestic Discipline is a recipe for true happiness to both parties. It enables a loving and nurturing relationship usually far greater than in most modern households, since there is no power struggle between the key-holder and wearer with enforcement of the rules (section 9). The submissive wearer simply accepts the dominant key-holder role as mentor and disciplinarian. The wearer is willing to accept absolute control over his sexuality and discipline because he understands that this disciplinary arrangement is driven by the love of his dominant key-holder and that She will only correct his ways for his own benefit. The submissive wearer understands that failure to follow the rules will be resolved with either a discipline or a punishment session.
3. Wearer's obligations:
Wearer is under each and every one of the following obligations.
A) The wearer purchases the chastity belt which is worn by the wearer.
B) The wearer submits ownership of his genitals to the key-holder. The wearer is not allowed to touch or fondle Her newly acquired genitals without Her consent except for keeping the genitals cleanly shaved (section 3H) and applying lotion (section 3G). The wearer wears the chastity belt at any time the key-holder specifies to ensure the key-holder property is kept safe from the wearer ability to break the terms of this Agreement. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the key-holder’s absolute domination and control in the Female Led Relationship.
C) The wearer is prohibited to have any sexual intercourse without the key-holder's permission.
D) The wearer is prohibited to masturbate without the key-holder's permission. The wearer shall tell the key-holder when the wearer masturbates while away from the key-holder. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer masturbates without permission (section 9A).
E) Making efforts to remove or defeat the chastity belt by the wearer is forbidden and shall be dealt with by discipline (section 7 and 9U).
F) Making efforts to ejaculate while wearing the chastity belt without permission from the key-holder is forbidden and shall be dealt with by discipline (section 7 and 9A).
G) It is the responsibility of the wearer to maintain the chastity belt cleanliness and functionality. The chastity belt shall be removed once a week for a thorough cleaning. The wearer will apply baby lotions daily to keep the scrotum soft.
H) The wearer shall keep his penis, scrotum, legs and chest neatly shaved. This shall be done when the chastity belt is being cleaned. Keeping the penis and scrotum void of hair is a visible sign of submissiveness. Keeping the legs and chest shaved is a visible sign of emasculation. The wearer will keep cleanly shaved any other areas the key-holder requires.
I) The wearer is prohibited seeking permission in removing the chastity belt from the key-holder for the sake of wearer's sexual satisfaction. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer begs to have chastity belt removed for self-sexual satisfaction (section 9E).
J) The wearer is prohibited seeking permission for ejaculation from the key-holder for the sake of wearer's sexual satisfaction. The key-holder controls the wearer’s orgasm an ultimately will grant orgasm based on obedience and submission. Suppressing the wearer’s orgasm maintains obedience and submission in a Female Led Relationship. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer begs for ejaculation (section 9B). The wearer can request to service the key-holder to provide sexual satisfaction. The key-holder can deny the request.
K) The wearer acknowledges the key-holder’s orgasm is most important. The wearer must not orgasm before the key-holder. If the wearer orgasm before the key-holder without permission, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9A). The wearer must inform the key-holder orgasm is close by saying “Mistress, I am getting close.” and ask permission to ejaculate by saying “Mistress, may I cum?”. If the wearer ejaculates when permission was not granted or does not ask permission to ejaculate, the wearer can be discipline (section 7 and 9C). If the wearer ejaculates, refer to section 4K for disposal.
L) The wearer will assist the key-holder with chastity, Domestic Discipline, Female Led Relationship Hot Wife, sissy or BDSM questions. If required, the wearer can use the internet to obtain information, pictures or references for the key-holder.
M) The wearer is required to show the key-holder the chastity belt whenever the key-holder request. If the key-holder says “Present”, the wearer shall lower his pants, underwear and stand in front of the key-holder with legs slightly spread for the key-holder’s inspection and pleasure.
N) The wearer is required to tell the key-holder about fantasies and/or provide an opinion on fantasies (section 9N). If requested by the key-holder, the wearer must write down the fantasy using specific details. The key-holder can ask what about the fantasy turns the wearer on. The wearer cannot refuse to take part in a fantasy which the key-holder wants to engage. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses a fantasy (section 9O).
O) The wearer is required to inform the Mistress of infractions in the rules (section 9) and submit to Domestic Discipline (section 7) for correction.
P) The wearer is required to thank the Mistress for a spanking and indicate if it was applied sufficiently. If asked by the Mistress, the wearer shall gauge the strokes on a scale of 1-10 and/or count them (section 9L).
Q) The wearer can ask for a spanking. It is up to the Mistress to decide if She will administer a spanking, what type of spanking will be applied, duration of spanking, what implements to use, the severity of the swats and how many strokes.
R) The wearer agrees to accept and cannot refuse Domestic Discipline or punishment (section 9F). The wearer will submit to maintenance sessions for the benefit of the Mistress to practice using Her implements.
S) The wearer is required to accept anything in The List which was agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer or in the “What We Are Willing to Try” section in The List. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses something from The List (section 9P).
T) The wearer is required to accept the actions in the Dice Game.
U) The wearer shall follow the rules in The Dominate Wife Rulebook which are agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses something from The List (section 9V).
V) The wearer submits to emasculation and will wear panties, bra and/or stockings when instructed. His penis is no longer used for pleasure. The sissy only get pleasure from anal intercourse.
4. Key-holder's obligations:
Key-holder is under each and every one of the following obligations.
A) The key-holder accepts and takes ownership of the wearer’s genitals to maintain a Female Led Relationship. The key-holder has sexual free reign of Her acquired genitals. The keys will always be under the supervision of the key-holder unless the wearer is traveling then the keys are kept with the wearer. The key-holder can request the wearer to show Her the chastity belt when the wearer is traveling.
B) The key-holder may supervise the wearer maintaining the chastity belt to ensure no playing of genitals is taking place. The key-holder will allow the wearer to remove the chastity belt for showering, work, travel and anything else which might reveal there is a chastity relationship.
C) The key-holder can request and is encouraged to have the wearer purchase additional types of chastity belts to be worn upon command. The key-holder should have the wearer purchase a chastity belt with spikes to train the sissy to maintain a limp penis.
D) The key-holder may supervise the wearer shaving his penis and scrotum. The key-holder reserves the right to take part and/or inspect the penis and scrotum after shaving. The key-holder has the right to have the wearer shave other areas to enforce sissy submissiveness.
E) The key-holder may allow the wearer to not wear the chastity belt at night as a reward. This does not mean the wearer is allowed to ejaculate or fondle her property without permission from the Mistress.
F) The key-holder can wear the key somewhere on Mistress’s body.
G) The key-holder reserves the right to lock or remove the chastity belt for personal satisfaction to show dominance in the Female Led Relationship. It does not mean the wearer will have an orgasm if the chastity belt is removed. The key-holder should build the sissy’s endurance by extending the chastity time.
H) The key-holder will control the wearer’s orgasm by Tease & Denial, Ruined Orgasm, Stifled Orgasm, Prostate Milking and/or staying in chastity. The key-holder can restrain the wearer during Tease & Denial, performing a Ruined or Stifled Orgasm, Hot Wife session and/or during servicing the Mistress. If the wearer objects, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9K). The key-holder is allowed to achieve orgasm how and when She desires.
I) The key-holder may require the wearer to service the key-holder at any time. This includes but not limited to: using toys on key-holder for key-holder’s pleasure, rubbing the key-holder’s clit, inserting fingers in the key-holder’s pussy, holding the breast, caressing the breast, licking the nipples, licking the outside of key-holder’s pussy, licking key-holder’s pussy (cunnilingus), sucking on key-holder’s clit, cleaning a creampie or licking key-holder’s ass (analingus). If the wearer objects, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9T). The key-holder is not required to reciprocate servicing the wearer.
J) The key-holder will decide when/if the wearer is allowed to ejaculate and in what manner (section 7H, 7I and 8F) based on infractions of this Agreement.
K) The key-holder reserves the rights to dispose of the wearer’s ejaculate as the Mistress see fits. This includes but not limited to: using fingers to feed ejaculate to wearer, collecting in hand for wearer to lick, by shooting directly into wearer’s mouth, licking from toy pussy stroker, having the wearer lick the ejaculate off or out of Mistress’s body, licking off dildo and/or disposing of it. It is the submissive sissy duty to clean up and swallow all ejaculate. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9D).
L) The key-holder fully understands and acknowledges the Agreement is for chastity, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, emasculation and to maintain a Female Led Relationship, but may invoke other BDSM actions on wearer. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9I).
M) The key-holder can ask the wearer about fantasies or an opinion on fantasies. The key-holder can use this information for Tease & Denial, personal pleasure or discipline. The key-holder can require the wearer to take part in any fantasy that the key-holder wants to engage. The key-holder can turn a fantasy into a reality. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7, 9N and 9O).
N) The key-holder reserves the right to practice spanking and/or perform a Domestic Discipline maintenance session on the wearer at any time for any reason (section 7 and 9F). The key-holder can invoke Domestic Discipline techniques to enforce the Mistress’s domination in the Female Led Relationship.
O) The key-holder shall hold the wearer accountable for infractions and discipline (section 7) the wearer for infractions in the rules (section 9). The key-holder may keep a list of the wearer’s infractions. The number of swats for each infraction will be totaled and told to the wearer. The Mistress decides if the infractions warrants either a discipline or punishment session. The Mistress can ask the wearer what the appropriate number of swats for each infraction. The swats shall be applied to each ass cheek after a warm up session. If the total number of swats is too many for one session, they can be spread across multiple sessions. The wearer must be held accountable for all infractions. The wearer should always be in chastity wearing thong panties for discipline and punishment session. Bondage can be used to administer discipline or punishment.
P) The key-holder is free to do anything in The List which was agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. The key-holder may try anything She wants. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9P).
Q) The key-holder shall make sure the wearer performs the actions in the Dice Game.
R) The key-holder shall enforce the rules in this Agreement and The Dominate Wife Rulebook which were agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. Any infractions can be dealt with by discipline (section 7). If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9V).
S) The key-holder will emasculate the wearer by having the sissy shave, wear panties and/or stockings under clothes. The key-holder can also require the sissy to wear a bra to demonstrate emasculation. The key-holder can instructed the sissy to wear lingerie to bed.
T) They key-holder will train the sissy to clean-up cum, clean-up creampies, maintain a limp penis, suck a dildo and to take a dildo in the anus. The key-holder will train the sissy to only orgasm wearing a chastity belt in panties with a dildo in the anus.
5. Internet:
A) The key-holder may request the wearer to find chastity, Domestic Discipline, Female Led Relationship, Hot Wife, submissive sissy or BDSM information for the key-holder’s pleasure and education.
B) The key-holder may request the wearer to find information, videos or pictures to support a fantasy.
C) The key-holder can request the wearer to purchase videos, books, chastity belts and/or other BDSM toys.
D) The wearer cannot use the internet for self-satisfaction without the permission of the key-holder. If the wearer is caught, the key-holder can discipline the wearer (section 7).
E) The key-holder can discuss Mistress’s actions or the wearer’s situation on internet blogs to seek out advice on chastity, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, training a sissy and Female Led Relationship. Alias names would be used.
F) The key-holder can request the wearer to find chastity / slave, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, sissy and/or Mistress key-holder training.
G) The key-holder can request the wearer to find and perform a “web tease”. The key-holder can request the wearer to perform the “web tease” either in private or while the Mistress or other mistresses are watching. If the “web tease” is performed in private, the Mistress has the right to ask the wearer for the details. The Mistress has the right to restrain the wearer and perform the “web tease” on the wearer. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses (section 9J).
H) The key-holder can require the sissy to service Her and/or other mistresses in chastity wearing panties, bra and/or stockings. The sissy must fulfil the sexual request of the Mistress and/or the other mistresses.
6. Safe Words & Placement of Chastity Belt:
A) The key-holder and wearer mutually agree that upon immediate signing of the Agreement, the chastity safe word can only be used if the wearer needs to be released as long as the reason is not for self-satisfaction.
B) Both the key-holder and wearer understand that the wearer may become apprehensive and nervous about being secured in a chastity belt. To ensure proper placement of belt, wearer agrees to completely and voluntarily submit to any and all of the key-holder’s methods to achieve the final and intended result. Such methods may include but not limited to forcibly restrain the wearer during the chastity belt securing process. This method can also be applied to BDSM scene or when servicing the key-holder.
C) The key-holder agrees to release any and all physical restraints used (obviously exclusive of the chastity belt) or applied to the wearer if the wearer uses the BDSM safe words.
D) The wearer might indicate discomfort during BDSM scenes. Unless the wearer uses the BDSM safe words, the key-holder can continue.
E) The wearer might squirm, say ouch, complain or moan during a discipline or punishment session. The Mistress shall push the limits of the wearer, the duration of the punishment and the intensity for the punishment to reinforce Her dominance. The discipline or punishment shall continue unless the wearer uses the BDSM safe words.
F) The safe word for being release from the chastity belt is “time-out”.
G) The safe words for BDSM and Domestic Discipline play are “yellow” meaning pause and ask the wearer what is wrong and then continue the scene. “Red” means stop the scene to discuss what went wrong.
H) The safe word to end a Hot Wife session is “time to go”.
7. Discipline & Rewards:
A) The wearer shall be naked for all discipline or punishment sessions unless otherwise instructed by the key-holder. The wearer is required to wear the chastity belt and panties during the session. The key-holder can wear whatever She wants. The key-holder can require the wearer to hold a position, use the spreader bar, lie across Her knees or use other bondage during a discipline or punishment session to keep the legs spread, ass cheeks spread and/or provide adequate access to swat ass. The key-holder will maintain an Infraction Chart to keep track of infractions in the rules (section 9) and the consequences for the infractions.
B) The key-holder may discipline or punish the wearer by paddling, spanking, use a crop, use of strap, flogger or Tawse. The key-holder can order the wearer to retrieve the device and present it to the Mistress. Warm up swats are used to prepare the ass for either discipline or punishment. These swats should be a 1-3 on the sting scale and are not counted towards the discipline or punishment. The number of swats should be sufficient enough for the ass cheeks to get red. The ass cheeks should feel warm after a proper warm up session.
C) A discipline session can be used as a maintenance session at least every other week to remind the wearer who is in control. Swats for a discipline session should be a 4–7 on the sting scale. After the warm up swats, a minimum of 15 swats on each ass check will be done for a maintenance session. The Mistress will determine the maximum number of swats and the implement. If the discipline session is to correct infractions, the Mistress will remind the wearer what infractions the swats are for, before commencing. The wearer shall apologize for the infractions after the discipline session and thank the Mistress for the discipline.
D) A punishment session is used to correct major infractions. Major infractions could be because of repeated infractions in the same rule(s) or if the quantity of swats for a discipline session is too great. Swats for a punishment session should be an 8-10 on the sting scale. The wearer is required to tell the key-holder the strokes are not at a level of 8-10. A punishment session should be done near the infraction to remind the wearer what the punishment is for and show absolute dominance of the Mistress in the Female Led Relationship. After the warm up swats, a minimum of 20 swats on each ass cheek will be done if no specific infraction is being corrected. The Mistress will determine the maximum number of swats for this session based on the infractions. The wearer shall count the swats. If the wearer fails to count the swat before the next swat occurs, the previous swat is not counted. If the punishment is to correct the behavior of an infraction, the Mistress will remind the wearer what infractions the swats are for before commencing. The wearer shall apologize for the infractions after the discipline session and thank the Mistress for the discipline. The Mistress will use the tawse strap for at least five (5) of the swats.
E) The wearer shall present the ass for spanking to allow the key-holder to apply the proper warm up, discipline or punishment swats. The wearer cannot interfere with the swat being given by the Mistress. If the wearer interfered with the swat, it is not counted. The key-holder can use bondage or the spreader bar to keep the wearer from interfering.
F) The key-holder can conduct the discipline or punishment session with other mistresses, having them either watch or participate.
G) The key-holder can make the wearer wear panties and/or stockings to remind the wearer who is the dominate person and for humiliation. The panties can be used to remind the wearer about his sissy submissiveness. The key-holder can have the wearer purchase panties, bras, stockings and/or lingerie for his use. The key-holder should approve the purchase. The key-holder decides if the panties are worn for a session, overnight, ever day or for what duration.
H) The key-holder can use Teasing and Denial techniques to control orgasm. The wearer is required to inform the key-holder ejaculation is close so the key-holder can deny orgasm. If the wearer starts to ejaculate, the key-holder could resort to a Ruined or Stifled Orgasm. The key-holder can use bondage to restrain the wearer during a Tease and Denial session.
I) The key-holder can use Ruined Orgasms, Stifled Orgasm or edging to discipline the wearer.
J) The key-holder has the right to use face sitting to remind the wearer who is dominate.
K) The key-holder may use prostate milking techniques to control the wearer’s sexual urges. The key-holder can use a prostate massager to extract the ejaculate while the chastity belt is still worn. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
L) The key-holder can have the wearer use an anal plug either inside or outside the house. The key-holder can either insert the anal plug, watch the wearer insert the anal plug or have the wearer bend over for inspection after insertion. If required, the key-holder can have the wearer purchase a larger anal plug. If the key-holder says “Prepare”, the wear must get on all fours and spread the legs to provide proper access to the anus for insertion. The key-holder decides the duration the anal plug must be worn.
M) The key-holder can have the wearer masturbate. Masturbation can either be done with wearer’s hand or a toy. The key-holder can instruct the wearer what masturbation method to use, how long masturbation is allowed and to describe the fantasy the wearer is using to masturbate. When orgasm is close, the wearer must inform the key-holder. The key-holder can have the wearer stop stroking. If the wearer achieves ejaculation, refer to section 4K for disposal. The key-holder can either be clothed or naked during masturbation.
N) The key-holder can request the wearer to sleep naked, with just the chastity belt on or in lingerie.
O) The key-holder can have the wearer watch the key-holder masturbate without any stimulation to the wearer. After orgasm or during masturbation, the key-holder can instruct the wearer to lick the toy clean, Her fingers and/or Her vagina. If the chastity belt is off, the wearer can be restrained to prohibit touching his genitals.
P) The key-holder can have the wearer remove the chastity belt so that the key holder can sit on wearer’s penis while Mistress masturbates. The wearer is not allowed to move or ejaculate without Mistress’s permission.
Q) If the key-holder choses to insert the wearer’s penis in key-holder’s vagina, the wearer is not allowed to move without permission. If the wearer feels ejaculation is close, the wearer must inform the key-holder.
R) The key-holder has the right to have the wearer wear a condom or the hollow strap-on if the wearer’s penis is inserted into Mistress’s vagina. The sissy should never be allowed to ejaculate in Mistress’s vagina. If the wearer achieves ejaculation, refer to section 4K for disposal.
S) The key-holder has the right to use a cock ring, numbing cream and/or numbing spray on wearer’s penis to enhance and maintain erection for the key-holder’s pleasure.
T) The key-holder has the right to masturbate above wearer’s face. When orgasm is close, the Mistress can face sit the wearer and have the wearer service Mistress’s vagina to achieve orgasm.
U) The key-holder has the right to describe the wearer’s penis size as small and unsatisfying for humiliation discipline. The Mistress can refer to the wearer’s penis as a “dicklet”, “tiny penis” or “little clitty” but never a real cock. The Mistress can use the dildo to compare and show the wearer what a real cock is like. The Mistress can use the dildo to demonstrate to the wearer how only a real cock can satisfy the Mistress’s vagina and that the wearer’s tiny penis is no longer allowed to be inserted in Her pussy. While watching porn, the Mistress should always talk about how more satisfying his cock would be, how big his cock is and how tiny sissy’s penis is.
V) The key-holder has the right to use anal plugs and/or a strap-on for discipline to enforce the wearer’s position in the relationship as the submissive and the Mistress as the dominate position.
W) The key-holder has the right to require the sissy to wear panties, bras and/or stockings, clean-up cum, suck a dildo/cock and to spread his legs to take a cock anally.
8. Orgasm:
A) The key-holder always has the right to orgasm before the wearer.
B) The key-holder always has the right to have multiple orgasms.
C) The key-holder always has the right to choose the method to obtain orgasms. This includes but not limited to; self-masturbation either in private or in the presence of wearer, using a dildo, using a vibrator, having the wearer masturbate the key-holder using wearer’s hand, a toy, sexual intercourse while the sissy is watching, cunnilingus and/or analingus.
D) The key-holder always has the right to have the wearer service Her pussy before to ensure a pleasurable orgasm and after for cleanliness.
E) The wearer is not allowed to have an orgasm without the consent of the key-holder except 8F. The wearer must inform the key-holder ejaculation is close. It is the key-holder’s right to decide the course of action.
F) The key-holder shall permit the wearer to have a full orgasm at least once every four weeks either by masturbation, sexual intercourse or the use of a toy. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
G) The key-holder can ruin or stifle the wearer’s orgasm as much as Mistress wants (section 7H and 7I). Refer to 4K for ejaculate disposal.
H) The key-holder can use prostate massaging to extract ejaculate from the wearer in lieu of an orgasm except 8F. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
I) The sissy is not allowed orgasm during a Hot Wife session.
J) The sissy can have an orgasm while being in chastity, wearing panties and having a dildo/cock penetrate his anus.
9. Rules:
A) The wearer is not allowed any unauthorized masturbation. The wearer shall not orgasm before the key-holder. Seven (7) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
B) The wearer cannot ask to have an ejaculation. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
C) The wearer must always ask permission to ejaculate. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
D) The wearer cannot refuse to consume any ejaculate. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
E) The wearer cannot ask to have the chastity belt removed for sexual satisfactions. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
F) The wearer cannot complain about any discipline or punishment session. The wearer must always accept the Domestic Discipline or punishment given by the key-holder. Twelve (12) swats on each ass cheek per infraction during a punishment session.
G) The wearer is not allowed any cursing or using other language deemed as inappropriate by the key-holder. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
H) The wearer must keep the toilet seat down. Two (2) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
I) The wearer cannot refuse bondage. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
J) The wearer cannot refuse performing a “web tease” if requested by key-holder. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
K) The wearer cannot complain about Tease & Denial, Ruined Orgasm, Stifled Orgasm, Edging, prostate milking or not being allowed to ejaculate. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
L) The wearer must always thank the Mistress for a spanking, being allowed to see Her naked, touching Her, servicing Her, worshipping Her , being allowed to see Her orgasm or to ejaculate. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
M) The wearer in not allowed any lying or any form of dishonest communication or behavior. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
N) The wearer is not allowed to withhold any information (fantasy, desires, sexual feelings, infractions, etc.) from the key-holder. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
O) The wearer cannot refuse to take part in a fantasy, turning a fantasy into reality or telling a fantasy when requested by the key-holder. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
P) The wearer cannot refuse anything from The List which is agreed upon or is willing to try. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
Q) The wearer in not allowed to disobeying anything that the key-holder requests relating to Domestic Discipline or being in a Female Led Relationship that has been agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
R) The wearers must pickup his clothes every morning and place them in the closet. Two (2) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
S) The wearer will help with household chores which are agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
T) The wearer cannot refuse sexually servicing the key-holder or Her friends. Seven (7) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
U) The wearer cannot remove the chastity belt without permission unless already noted in this Agreement. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
V) The wearer cannot refuse the rules in Agreement or the The Dominate Wife Rulebook which were agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
W) The key-holder can require the wearer to address Her with a dominate title like Mistress, HOH, Hot Wife or Mama. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infractions.
X) The wearer must wear panties, bras and/or stockings when requested. Eight (8) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
Y) The wearer must assist and participate with Hot Wifing when requested. Twelve (12) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
10. Domestic:
A) The wearer retains all financial decisions as it was before the Agreement was signed.
B) Both the key-holder and the wearer will continue to perform households’ duties as it was before the Agreement was signed.
C) The wearer does not have to wear the chastity belt when traveling, if clothes or situation does not permit.
D) The submissive sissy does not have to wear panties, bra and/or stockings if the situation does not allow. Any other time, the sissy must wear a chastity belt and panties while occasionally be required to wear stockings under clothes. If instructed by the Mistress, the sissy can be required to wear lingerie to bed.
11. Cancellation of the Agreement:
A) Only the key-holder can request cancellation of the Agreement. The wearer never can request cancelation.
B) The key-holder or the wearer can request modifications to the Agreement. It is the key-holder’s right to accept or deny the wearer’s request.
C) The Agreement can be altered when agreed upon by the key-holder and the wearer. Once the Agreement is signed the new rule(s) take immediate effect.
12. Length of the Agreement:
There is no determination on the maximum duration of the Agreement. It means that this Agreement may be valid for an indefinite period of time. However, the minimum duration of this Agreement shall be no less than six (6) months from the latest date signed below. During this time frame, the key-holder will help the wearer with chastity, emasculation, Domestic Discipline and being in a Female Led Relationship. The wearer shall help the key-holder with domination, punishment, Hot Wife, sissy emasculation, Domestic Discipline and being in a Female Led Relationship.
Both _______________________ as the key-holder and _______________________ as the wearer agreed on all the above sections. Upon signing of Agreement the wearer is to immediately secure said chastity belt and hand over keys to Mistress. Terms of this Agreement commence upon transfer of keys.
The key-holder: signed________________________________________ Date: ____________________
The wearer: signed_________
Throughout this Agreement, these terms are used with the following definitions.
Chastity: Prevention of all kinds of sexual behavior, including sexual intercourse, touching the genitals, masturbation and any other stimulation to cause ejaculation.
Chastity Belt: Any lockable, wearable device designed to keep wearer's chastity and to prevent touching wearer's genitals by wearing and locking-up. Specifically to this Agreement, a chastity belt is defined as Holy Trainer although additional chastity belts could be purchased and used at the key-holder’s discretion. Chastity belt is used to enforce discipline, submissiveness and to prevent erections.
Male Orgasm: An ejaculatory release of semen.
Bondage: Control the wearer by using restraints like collar, cuffs, spreader bar, gags and/or nipple clips for the purpose of discipline, punishment, sexual acts, training or service.
Discipline: Any means to correct the wearer actions, atone for infractions and/or training the wearer to be submissive and respectful.
Punishment: Is an act of discipline where the Mistress deliberately swats harder to correct the submissive wearer’s behavior and major infractions. Punishment is not meant for wearer’s pleasure but rather for behavioral correction. A proper punishment session leaves the wearer’s ass red, warm, marked and stinging. At a minimum, a punishment session shall have five (5) lashes from a tawse strap leaving a visible reminder for the punishment.
Ruined Orgasm: Is an orgasm that is not enjoyable and these occur when Mistress push the wearer just a fraction beyond the point of no return and then stop all stimulation. If done correctly, the ejaculate will dribble out of the penis with no pulsating. To ruin an orgasm, stop all stimulation if the wearer begins to ejaculate.
Stifled Orgasm: The key-holder stops all stimulation when orgasm starts and prohibits the ejaculate from leaving the penis either by pinching the end of the gland together or placing the thumb over the end until the pulsating ends.
Tease & Denial / Edging: Is when the key-holder teases the wearer to the point of orgasm but stops all stimulation and denies the wearer from orgasm. Instruct the wearer to indicate when orgasm is close and stops all stimulation. If the timing is right, the sensation of impending orgasm will fade and orgasm will not occur. The wearer should be edged several times. The goal is to leave the wearer sexual frustrated to be locked back in chastity without orgasm.
Face Sitting: Is when the key-holder positions her vagina over the wearer’s mouth for servicing. The wearer can be instructed to suck the clit, lick the clit, insert his tongue, lick and/or suck the vagina. The Mistress could use face sitting to achieve orgasm. Sometimes face sitting involves creampie cleaning.
Cum Eating: Is the process where the wearer consumes cum. This is accomplished by either the wearer licking up the ejaculate, sucking out the ejaculate or the key-holder putting the ejaculate into the wearer’s mouth. The ejaculate is to be swallowed. The Mistress can command the wearer to open his mouth before swallowing. Cum eating shows the wearer’s submissiveness and the Mistress dominance. Cum eating is expected from the submissive sissy and during a Hot Wife session.
Creampie Cleaning: Is when the Mistress has ejaculate in Her vagina and instructs the wearer to lick and suck the ejaculate from Her vagina. The wearer, as the submissive sissy, is obligated to comply with her command. Face sitting is often part of creampie cleaning. This allows the ejaculate to run into the wearer’s mouth. The ejaculate is to be consumed. This is how the wearer demonstrates being a submissive sissy.
Prostate Milking: The massaging of the prostate gland, through the anus, in such a manner as to release ejaculate and/or other accumulated fluids without an orgasm. Prostate milking can be accomplished by using fingers or a prostate massager. Prostate milking is used to relieve the wearer without removing the chastity belt. Prostate milking should be done every two weeks if orgasm has been denied.
Dildo: Is a penis looking device which is inserted either in the vagina or the anus. A dildo can be used to compare the wearer’s tiny limp penis to the size of a real cock and for sissy sexual intercourse. The wearer can be required to suck the dildo.
Small Penis Comparison: The Mistress should always point out the tiny size of the wearer’s penis, compare his penis to a real cock, emphasize the wearer’s tiny penis is not a real cock, the wearer’s tiny penis is never getting near Her pussy, the Mistress would get more pleasure from Her vibrator than that tiny penis and even when erect the wearer still has a tiny penis. While watching movies talk about the size of the cock you see and then tell the wearer his tiny penis could never provide that type of intensity or pleasure to the Mistress. The Mistress should train the submissive sissy tiny penis to always be limp.
Strap-on: Is a device that is strapped around the waist of the key-holder which holds a dildo. The key-holder can have the wearer suck the strap-on to show servitude and cum on the dildo then suck it off. The key-holder can insert the strap-on in the wearer’s anus using a rhythmic motion to exert Her dominance. Strap-on is used to provide pleasure to the sissy and practice at taking and suck a cock.
Anal Plug: Is a device inserted into the wearer’s anus for discipline or in preparation for a strap-on session. Anal plugs come in various sizes.
Vibrator: A device used to stimulate the clit, nipples, vagina and/or the anus. The vibrator can be inserted in the vagina or anus of the wearer. A vibrator can be worn during sexual session. A vibrator can be used during a Tease & Denial, Edging and/or BDSM session.
Paddle, Tawse, Crop, Flogger: Are devices used to spank the wearer’s ass during a discipline and punishment session. Each provides a different level of sensation, reaction and results. The Mistress should practice, on the sissy, using each implement to learn proper use. The Mistress can wheel Her dominance with these implements.
Nipple Clamps: Is a device placed on the nipples that apply pressure to the nipples. Nipple clamps can be used for pleasure or to discipline the wearer.
Spreader Bar: Is used to bind the ankles and/or wrist. The purpose is to allow, the Mistress, uninhibited access to the wearer’s penis, testicles and anus. The spreader bar can be used to enforce the Mistress’s dominance during discipline, punishment, tease & denial, Hot Wife and/or edging sessions.
Domestic Discipline: The practice between two consenting adult in which the Head of Household (HOH) punishes the submissive sissy through spanking in an effort to correct behaviors for the overall benefit of the Female Led Relationship.
Female Led Relationship: FLR in another dynamic of Domestic Discipline where the key-holder is the Head of Household and the wearer is the submissive sissy.
Head of Household: The disciplinarian of the relationship, the enforcer of the rules and expectation within the relationship. The Head of Household (HOH) delivers the discipline and punishment.
Hot Wife/Cuckolding: Is a key-holder that obtains sexual satisfaction anyway She sees fit. The wearer remains in chastity, watches Her achieving orgasm and is there to assist the Hot Wife. Creampie cleaning, cum eating, cock fluffing, pussy and anus worship, by the wearer, are often part of the session. The submissive sissy is wearing the chastity belt, panties, bra and/or stocking while the Hot Wife is being serviced. It is the duty of the sissy to prepare the Hot Wife, attend to Her needs while being serviced and clean Her after servicing.
Key-holder: The individual, who will lock the device, will hold the key according to this Agreement, administer the Domestic Discipline or punishment and engage in FLR for the sole purpose of self-pleasure. In case of the Agreement, may also be referred to as Mistress, Head of Household (HOH), Hot Wife, She or Her.
Submissive Sissy: The individual is required to wear a chastity belt and panties at all times while occasionally being required to wear a bra and/or stockings. The sissy must be emasculated and know his role in the sexual relationship. The sissy no longer has pleasure from penis but rather through anal intercourse using a dildo. The sissy is trained to maintain a limp penis and to clean-up cum to demonstrate his emasculated status. The sissy is required to attend to the needs of the Hot Wife.
Wearer: The individual who will wear the device according to this Agreement, see to it the key-holder’s orgasms are pleasing for Her, accept Domestic Discipline, submit to the HOH in FLR, supports the Hot Wife desires, accepts being a submissive sissy and who is to keep one’s own chastity. In case of the Agreement, may also be referred to as submissive, sissy, submissive sissy, I, his, he or myself.
2. Binding Agreement:
I, the undersigned, bind myself totally and completely, without limit, to servitude to the holder of the chastity Agreement, hereinafter known as key-holder.
With full understanding of the meanings and implications of this chastity Agreement, I specifically desire and request the control of my chastity to be controlled by the key-holder in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) to facilitate my urging sexual desires and define my sexual role in the relationship. I also desire the key-holder to use Domestic Discipline to enforce the rules, this Agreement and to achieve multiple pleasures as a Hot Wife. I understand the Mistress will utilize training for cum cleaning, to maintain a limp penis and to enforce being a submissive sissy.
Chastity is probably the most efficient tool that a dominant key-holder possesses, simply because the wearer is so much easier to control and dominate if their orgasm is denied by a seductive powerful Mistress. From the wearer’s perspective the whole key-holder domination or Female Led Relationship / Hot Wife lifestyle is much more pleasurable if the wearer is sexually frustrated. Once the wearer climaxes, his enthusiasm to worship the female key-holder is greatly diminished. Therefore, to ensure that a male is really denied of any orgasms the dominant female key-holder shall force the wearer to wear a chastity belt. Chastity belt acts as a lock that prevents the wearer from touching his penis. The key to the belt is kept by the key-holder. Another key-holder’s benefits from chastity with denying the wearer’s orgasm is the power exchange with the wearer of being denied orgasm while being forced to pleasure the superior female key-holder as often as She demands. The Mistress is allowed to orgasm as often as She wants and how She sees fit. The Mistress should leverage these sexual benefits to ‘get things Her way’ by using chastity, discipline, orgasm tease and denial.
One of the key-holder’s benefits from Domestic Discipline is a recipe for true happiness to both parties. It enables a loving and nurturing relationship usually far greater than in most modern households, since there is no power struggle between the key-holder and wearer with enforcement of the rules (section 9). The submissive wearer simply accepts the dominant key-holder role as mentor and disciplinarian. The wearer is willing to accept absolute control over his sexuality and discipline because he understands that this disciplinary arrangement is driven by the love of his dominant key-holder and that She will only correct his ways for his own benefit. The submissive wearer understands that failure to follow the rules will be resolved with either a discipline or a punishment session.
3. Wearer's obligations:
Wearer is under each and every one of the following obligations.
A) The wearer purchases the chastity belt which is worn by the wearer.
B) The wearer submits ownership of his genitals to the key-holder. The wearer is not allowed to touch or fondle Her newly acquired genitals without Her consent except for keeping the genitals cleanly shaved (section 3H) and applying lotion (section 3G). The wearer wears the chastity belt at any time the key-holder specifies to ensure the key-holder property is kept safe from the wearer ability to break the terms of this Agreement. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the key-holder’s absolute domination and control in the Female Led Relationship.
C) The wearer is prohibited to have any sexual intercourse without the key-holder's permission.
D) The wearer is prohibited to masturbate without the key-holder's permission. The wearer shall tell the key-holder when the wearer masturbates while away from the key-holder. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer masturbates without permission (section 9A).
E) Making efforts to remove or defeat the chastity belt by the wearer is forbidden and shall be dealt with by discipline (section 7 and 9U).
F) Making efforts to ejaculate while wearing the chastity belt without permission from the key-holder is forbidden and shall be dealt with by discipline (section 7 and 9A).
G) It is the responsibility of the wearer to maintain the chastity belt cleanliness and functionality. The chastity belt shall be removed once a week for a thorough cleaning. The wearer will apply baby lotions daily to keep the scrotum soft.
H) The wearer shall keep his penis, scrotum, legs and chest neatly shaved. This shall be done when the chastity belt is being cleaned. Keeping the penis and scrotum void of hair is a visible sign of submissiveness. Keeping the legs and chest shaved is a visible sign of emasculation. The wearer will keep cleanly shaved any other areas the key-holder requires.
I) The wearer is prohibited seeking permission in removing the chastity belt from the key-holder for the sake of wearer's sexual satisfaction. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer begs to have chastity belt removed for self-sexual satisfaction (section 9E).
J) The wearer is prohibited seeking permission for ejaculation from the key-holder for the sake of wearer's sexual satisfaction. The key-holder controls the wearer’s orgasm an ultimately will grant orgasm based on obedience and submission. Suppressing the wearer’s orgasm maintains obedience and submission in a Female Led Relationship. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer begs for ejaculation (section 9B). The wearer can request to service the key-holder to provide sexual satisfaction. The key-holder can deny the request.
K) The wearer acknowledges the key-holder’s orgasm is most important. The wearer must not orgasm before the key-holder. If the wearer orgasm before the key-holder without permission, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9A). The wearer must inform the key-holder orgasm is close by saying “Mistress, I am getting close.” and ask permission to ejaculate by saying “Mistress, may I cum?”. If the wearer ejaculates when permission was not granted or does not ask permission to ejaculate, the wearer can be discipline (section 7 and 9C). If the wearer ejaculates, refer to section 4K for disposal.
L) The wearer will assist the key-holder with chastity, Domestic Discipline, Female Led Relationship Hot Wife, sissy or BDSM questions. If required, the wearer can use the internet to obtain information, pictures or references for the key-holder.
M) The wearer is required to show the key-holder the chastity belt whenever the key-holder request. If the key-holder says “Present”, the wearer shall lower his pants, underwear and stand in front of the key-holder with legs slightly spread for the key-holder’s inspection and pleasure.
N) The wearer is required to tell the key-holder about fantasies and/or provide an opinion on fantasies (section 9N). If requested by the key-holder, the wearer must write down the fantasy using specific details. The key-holder can ask what about the fantasy turns the wearer on. The wearer cannot refuse to take part in a fantasy which the key-holder wants to engage. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses a fantasy (section 9O).
O) The wearer is required to inform the Mistress of infractions in the rules (section 9) and submit to Domestic Discipline (section 7) for correction.
P) The wearer is required to thank the Mistress for a spanking and indicate if it was applied sufficiently. If asked by the Mistress, the wearer shall gauge the strokes on a scale of 1-10 and/or count them (section 9L).
Q) The wearer can ask for a spanking. It is up to the Mistress to decide if She will administer a spanking, what type of spanking will be applied, duration of spanking, what implements to use, the severity of the swats and how many strokes.
R) The wearer agrees to accept and cannot refuse Domestic Discipline or punishment (section 9F). The wearer will submit to maintenance sessions for the benefit of the Mistress to practice using Her implements.
S) The wearer is required to accept anything in The List which was agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer or in the “What We Are Willing to Try” section in The List. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses something from The List (section 9P).
T) The wearer is required to accept the actions in the Dice Game.
U) The wearer shall follow the rules in The Dominate Wife Rulebook which are agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses something from The List (section 9V).
V) The wearer submits to emasculation and will wear panties, bra and/or stockings when instructed. His penis is no longer used for pleasure. The sissy only get pleasure from anal intercourse.
4. Key-holder's obligations:
Key-holder is under each and every one of the following obligations.
A) The key-holder accepts and takes ownership of the wearer’s genitals to maintain a Female Led Relationship. The key-holder has sexual free reign of Her acquired genitals. The keys will always be under the supervision of the key-holder unless the wearer is traveling then the keys are kept with the wearer. The key-holder can request the wearer to show Her the chastity belt when the wearer is traveling.
B) The key-holder may supervise the wearer maintaining the chastity belt to ensure no playing of genitals is taking place. The key-holder will allow the wearer to remove the chastity belt for showering, work, travel and anything else which might reveal there is a chastity relationship.
C) The key-holder can request and is encouraged to have the wearer purchase additional types of chastity belts to be worn upon command. The key-holder should have the wearer purchase a chastity belt with spikes to train the sissy to maintain a limp penis.
D) The key-holder may supervise the wearer shaving his penis and scrotum. The key-holder reserves the right to take part and/or inspect the penis and scrotum after shaving. The key-holder has the right to have the wearer shave other areas to enforce sissy submissiveness.
E) The key-holder may allow the wearer to not wear the chastity belt at night as a reward. This does not mean the wearer is allowed to ejaculate or fondle her property without permission from the Mistress.
F) The key-holder can wear the key somewhere on Mistress’s body.
G) The key-holder reserves the right to lock or remove the chastity belt for personal satisfaction to show dominance in the Female Led Relationship. It does not mean the wearer will have an orgasm if the chastity belt is removed. The key-holder should build the sissy’s endurance by extending the chastity time.
H) The key-holder will control the wearer’s orgasm by Tease & Denial, Ruined Orgasm, Stifled Orgasm, Prostate Milking and/or staying in chastity. The key-holder can restrain the wearer during Tease & Denial, performing a Ruined or Stifled Orgasm, Hot Wife session and/or during servicing the Mistress. If the wearer objects, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9K). The key-holder is allowed to achieve orgasm how and when She desires.
I) The key-holder may require the wearer to service the key-holder at any time. This includes but not limited to: using toys on key-holder for key-holder’s pleasure, rubbing the key-holder’s clit, inserting fingers in the key-holder’s pussy, holding the breast, caressing the breast, licking the nipples, licking the outside of key-holder’s pussy, licking key-holder’s pussy (cunnilingus), sucking on key-holder’s clit, cleaning a creampie or licking key-holder’s ass (analingus). If the wearer objects, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9T). The key-holder is not required to reciprocate servicing the wearer.
J) The key-holder will decide when/if the wearer is allowed to ejaculate and in what manner (section 7H, 7I and 8F) based on infractions of this Agreement.
K) The key-holder reserves the rights to dispose of the wearer’s ejaculate as the Mistress see fits. This includes but not limited to: using fingers to feed ejaculate to wearer, collecting in hand for wearer to lick, by shooting directly into wearer’s mouth, licking from toy pussy stroker, having the wearer lick the ejaculate off or out of Mistress’s body, licking off dildo and/or disposing of it. It is the submissive sissy duty to clean up and swallow all ejaculate. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9D).
L) The key-holder fully understands and acknowledges the Agreement is for chastity, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, emasculation and to maintain a Female Led Relationship, but may invoke other BDSM actions on wearer. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9I).
M) The key-holder can ask the wearer about fantasies or an opinion on fantasies. The key-holder can use this information for Tease & Denial, personal pleasure or discipline. The key-holder can require the wearer to take part in any fantasy that the key-holder wants to engage. The key-holder can turn a fantasy into a reality. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7, 9N and 9O).
N) The key-holder reserves the right to practice spanking and/or perform a Domestic Discipline maintenance session on the wearer at any time for any reason (section 7 and 9F). The key-holder can invoke Domestic Discipline techniques to enforce the Mistress’s domination in the Female Led Relationship.
O) The key-holder shall hold the wearer accountable for infractions and discipline (section 7) the wearer for infractions in the rules (section 9). The key-holder may keep a list of the wearer’s infractions. The number of swats for each infraction will be totaled and told to the wearer. The Mistress decides if the infractions warrants either a discipline or punishment session. The Mistress can ask the wearer what the appropriate number of swats for each infraction. The swats shall be applied to each ass cheek after a warm up session. If the total number of swats is too many for one session, they can be spread across multiple sessions. The wearer must be held accountable for all infractions. The wearer should always be in chastity wearing thong panties for discipline and punishment session. Bondage can be used to administer discipline or punishment.
P) The key-holder is free to do anything in The List which was agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. The key-holder may try anything She wants. If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9P).
Q) The key-holder shall make sure the wearer performs the actions in the Dice Game.
R) The key-holder shall enforce the rules in this Agreement and The Dominate Wife Rulebook which were agreed upon between the key-holder and the wearer. Any infractions can be dealt with by discipline (section 7). If the wearer refuses, it is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7 and 9V).
S) The key-holder will emasculate the wearer by having the sissy shave, wear panties and/or stockings under clothes. The key-holder can also require the sissy to wear a bra to demonstrate emasculation. The key-holder can instructed the sissy to wear lingerie to bed.
T) They key-holder will train the sissy to clean-up cum, clean-up creampies, maintain a limp penis, suck a dildo and to take a dildo in the anus. The key-holder will train the sissy to only orgasm wearing a chastity belt in panties with a dildo in the anus.
5. Internet:
A) The key-holder may request the wearer to find chastity, Domestic Discipline, Female Led Relationship, Hot Wife, submissive sissy or BDSM information for the key-holder’s pleasure and education.
B) The key-holder may request the wearer to find information, videos or pictures to support a fantasy.
C) The key-holder can request the wearer to purchase videos, books, chastity belts and/or other BDSM toys.
D) The wearer cannot use the internet for self-satisfaction without the permission of the key-holder. If the wearer is caught, the key-holder can discipline the wearer (section 7).
E) The key-holder can discuss Mistress’s actions or the wearer’s situation on internet blogs to seek out advice on chastity, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, training a sissy and Female Led Relationship. Alias names would be used.
F) The key-holder can request the wearer to find chastity / slave, Domestic Discipline, Hot Wife, sissy and/or Mistress key-holder training.
G) The key-holder can request the wearer to find and perform a “web tease”. The key-holder can request the wearer to perform the “web tease” either in private or while the Mistress or other mistresses are watching. If the “web tease” is performed in private, the Mistress has the right to ask the wearer for the details. The Mistress has the right to restrain the wearer and perform the “web tease” on the wearer. It is the key-holder’s option to exact discipline (section 7) if the wearer refuses (section 9J).
H) The key-holder can require the sissy to service Her and/or other mistresses in chastity wearing panties, bra and/or stockings. The sissy must fulfil the sexual request of the Mistress and/or the other mistresses.
6. Safe Words & Placement of Chastity Belt:
A) The key-holder and wearer mutually agree that upon immediate signing of the Agreement, the chastity safe word can only be used if the wearer needs to be released as long as the reason is not for self-satisfaction.
B) Both the key-holder and wearer understand that the wearer may become apprehensive and nervous about being secured in a chastity belt. To ensure proper placement of belt, wearer agrees to completely and voluntarily submit to any and all of the key-holder’s methods to achieve the final and intended result. Such methods may include but not limited to forcibly restrain the wearer during the chastity belt securing process. This method can also be applied to BDSM scene or when servicing the key-holder.
C) The key-holder agrees to release any and all physical restraints used (obviously exclusive of the chastity belt) or applied to the wearer if the wearer uses the BDSM safe words.
D) The wearer might indicate discomfort during BDSM scenes. Unless the wearer uses the BDSM safe words, the key-holder can continue.
E) The wearer might squirm, say ouch, complain or moan during a discipline or punishment session. The Mistress shall push the limits of the wearer, the duration of the punishment and the intensity for the punishment to reinforce Her dominance. The discipline or punishment shall continue unless the wearer uses the BDSM safe words.
F) The safe word for being release from the chastity belt is “time-out”.
G) The safe words for BDSM and Domestic Discipline play are “yellow” meaning pause and ask the wearer what is wrong and then continue the scene. “Red” means stop the scene to discuss what went wrong.
H) The safe word to end a Hot Wife session is “time to go”.
7. Discipline & Rewards:
A) The wearer shall be naked for all discipline or punishment sessions unless otherwise instructed by the key-holder. The wearer is required to wear the chastity belt and panties during the session. The key-holder can wear whatever She wants. The key-holder can require the wearer to hold a position, use the spreader bar, lie across Her knees or use other bondage during a discipline or punishment session to keep the legs spread, ass cheeks spread and/or provide adequate access to swat ass. The key-holder will maintain an Infraction Chart to keep track of infractions in the rules (section 9) and the consequences for the infractions.
B) The key-holder may discipline or punish the wearer by paddling, spanking, use a crop, use of strap, flogger or Tawse. The key-holder can order the wearer to retrieve the device and present it to the Mistress. Warm up swats are used to prepare the ass for either discipline or punishment. These swats should be a 1-3 on the sting scale and are not counted towards the discipline or punishment. The number of swats should be sufficient enough for the ass cheeks to get red. The ass cheeks should feel warm after a proper warm up session.
C) A discipline session can be used as a maintenance session at least every other week to remind the wearer who is in control. Swats for a discipline session should be a 4–7 on the sting scale. After the warm up swats, a minimum of 15 swats on each ass check will be done for a maintenance session. The Mistress will determine the maximum number of swats and the implement. If the discipline session is to correct infractions, the Mistress will remind the wearer what infractions the swats are for, before commencing. The wearer shall apologize for the infractions after the discipline session and thank the Mistress for the discipline.
D) A punishment session is used to correct major infractions. Major infractions could be because of repeated infractions in the same rule(s) or if the quantity of swats for a discipline session is too great. Swats for a punishment session should be an 8-10 on the sting scale. The wearer is required to tell the key-holder the strokes are not at a level of 8-10. A punishment session should be done near the infraction to remind the wearer what the punishment is for and show absolute dominance of the Mistress in the Female Led Relationship. After the warm up swats, a minimum of 20 swats on each ass cheek will be done if no specific infraction is being corrected. The Mistress will determine the maximum number of swats for this session based on the infractions. The wearer shall count the swats. If the wearer fails to count the swat before the next swat occurs, the previous swat is not counted. If the punishment is to correct the behavior of an infraction, the Mistress will remind the wearer what infractions the swats are for before commencing. The wearer shall apologize for the infractions after the discipline session and thank the Mistress for the discipline. The Mistress will use the tawse strap for at least five (5) of the swats.
E) The wearer shall present the ass for spanking to allow the key-holder to apply the proper warm up, discipline or punishment swats. The wearer cannot interfere with the swat being given by the Mistress. If the wearer interfered with the swat, it is not counted. The key-holder can use bondage or the spreader bar to keep the wearer from interfering.
F) The key-holder can conduct the discipline or punishment session with other mistresses, having them either watch or participate.
G) The key-holder can make the wearer wear panties and/or stockings to remind the wearer who is the dominate person and for humiliation. The panties can be used to remind the wearer about his sissy submissiveness. The key-holder can have the wearer purchase panties, bras, stockings and/or lingerie for his use. The key-holder should approve the purchase. The key-holder decides if the panties are worn for a session, overnight, ever day or for what duration.
H) The key-holder can use Teasing and Denial techniques to control orgasm. The wearer is required to inform the key-holder ejaculation is close so the key-holder can deny orgasm. If the wearer starts to ejaculate, the key-holder could resort to a Ruined or Stifled Orgasm. The key-holder can use bondage to restrain the wearer during a Tease and Denial session.
I) The key-holder can use Ruined Orgasms, Stifled Orgasm or edging to discipline the wearer.
J) The key-holder has the right to use face sitting to remind the wearer who is dominate.
K) The key-holder may use prostate milking techniques to control the wearer’s sexual urges. The key-holder can use a prostate massager to extract the ejaculate while the chastity belt is still worn. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
L) The key-holder can have the wearer use an anal plug either inside or outside the house. The key-holder can either insert the anal plug, watch the wearer insert the anal plug or have the wearer bend over for inspection after insertion. If required, the key-holder can have the wearer purchase a larger anal plug. If the key-holder says “Prepare”, the wear must get on all fours and spread the legs to provide proper access to the anus for insertion. The key-holder decides the duration the anal plug must be worn.
M) The key-holder can have the wearer masturbate. Masturbation can either be done with wearer’s hand or a toy. The key-holder can instruct the wearer what masturbation method to use, how long masturbation is allowed and to describe the fantasy the wearer is using to masturbate. When orgasm is close, the wearer must inform the key-holder. The key-holder can have the wearer stop stroking. If the wearer achieves ejaculation, refer to section 4K for disposal. The key-holder can either be clothed or naked during masturbation.
N) The key-holder can request the wearer to sleep naked, with just the chastity belt on or in lingerie.
O) The key-holder can have the wearer watch the key-holder masturbate without any stimulation to the wearer. After orgasm or during masturbation, the key-holder can instruct the wearer to lick the toy clean, Her fingers and/or Her vagina. If the chastity belt is off, the wearer can be restrained to prohibit touching his genitals.
P) The key-holder can have the wearer remove the chastity belt so that the key holder can sit on wearer’s penis while Mistress masturbates. The wearer is not allowed to move or ejaculate without Mistress’s permission.
Q) If the key-holder choses to insert the wearer’s penis in key-holder’s vagina, the wearer is not allowed to move without permission. If the wearer feels ejaculation is close, the wearer must inform the key-holder.
R) The key-holder has the right to have the wearer wear a condom or the hollow strap-on if the wearer’s penis is inserted into Mistress’s vagina. The sissy should never be allowed to ejaculate in Mistress’s vagina. If the wearer achieves ejaculation, refer to section 4K for disposal.
S) The key-holder has the right to use a cock ring, numbing cream and/or numbing spray on wearer’s penis to enhance and maintain erection for the key-holder’s pleasure.
T) The key-holder has the right to masturbate above wearer’s face. When orgasm is close, the Mistress can face sit the wearer and have the wearer service Mistress’s vagina to achieve orgasm.
U) The key-holder has the right to describe the wearer’s penis size as small and unsatisfying for humiliation discipline. The Mistress can refer to the wearer’s penis as a “dicklet”, “tiny penis” or “little clitty” but never a real cock. The Mistress can use the dildo to compare and show the wearer what a real cock is like. The Mistress can use the dildo to demonstrate to the wearer how only a real cock can satisfy the Mistress’s vagina and that the wearer’s tiny penis is no longer allowed to be inserted in Her pussy. While watching porn, the Mistress should always talk about how more satisfying his cock would be, how big his cock is and how tiny sissy’s penis is.
V) The key-holder has the right to use anal plugs and/or a strap-on for discipline to enforce the wearer’s position in the relationship as the submissive and the Mistress as the dominate position.
W) The key-holder has the right to require the sissy to wear panties, bras and/or stockings, clean-up cum, suck a dildo/cock and to spread his legs to take a cock anally.
8. Orgasm:
A) The key-holder always has the right to orgasm before the wearer.
B) The key-holder always has the right to have multiple orgasms.
C) The key-holder always has the right to choose the method to obtain orgasms. This includes but not limited to; self-masturbation either in private or in the presence of wearer, using a dildo, using a vibrator, having the wearer masturbate the key-holder using wearer’s hand, a toy, sexual intercourse while the sissy is watching, cunnilingus and/or analingus.
D) The key-holder always has the right to have the wearer service Her pussy before to ensure a pleasurable orgasm and after for cleanliness.
E) The wearer is not allowed to have an orgasm without the consent of the key-holder except 8F. The wearer must inform the key-holder ejaculation is close. It is the key-holder’s right to decide the course of action.
F) The key-holder shall permit the wearer to have a full orgasm at least once every four weeks either by masturbation, sexual intercourse or the use of a toy. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
G) The key-holder can ruin or stifle the wearer’s orgasm as much as Mistress wants (section 7H and 7I). Refer to 4K for ejaculate disposal.
H) The key-holder can use prostate massaging to extract ejaculate from the wearer in lieu of an orgasm except 8F. Refer to section 4K for ejaculate disposal.
I) The sissy is not allowed orgasm during a Hot Wife session.
J) The sissy can have an orgasm while being in chastity, wearing panties and having a dildo/cock penetrate his anus.
9. Rules:
A) The wearer is not allowed any unauthorized masturbation. The wearer shall not orgasm before the key-holder. Seven (7) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
B) The wearer cannot ask to have an ejaculation. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
C) The wearer must always ask permission to ejaculate. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
D) The wearer cannot refuse to consume any ejaculate. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
E) The wearer cannot ask to have the chastity belt removed for sexual satisfactions. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
F) The wearer cannot complain about any discipline or punishment session. The wearer must always accept the Domestic Discipline or punishment given by the key-holder. Twelve (12) swats on each ass cheek per infraction during a punishment session.
G) The wearer is not allowed any cursing or using other language deemed as inappropriate by the key-holder. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
H) The wearer must keep the toilet seat down. Two (2) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
I) The wearer cannot refuse bondage. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
J) The wearer cannot refuse performing a “web tease” if requested by key-holder. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
K) The wearer cannot complain about Tease & Denial, Ruined Orgasm, Stifled Orgasm, Edging, prostate milking or not being allowed to ejaculate. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
L) The wearer must always thank the Mistress for a spanking, being allowed to see Her naked, touching Her, servicing Her, worshipping Her , being allowed to see Her orgasm or to ejaculate. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
M) The wearer in not allowed any lying or any form of dishonest communication or behavior. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
N) The wearer is not allowed to withhold any information (fantasy, desires, sexual feelings, infractions, etc.) from the key-holder. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
O) The wearer cannot refuse to take part in a fantasy, turning a fantasy into reality or telling a fantasy when requested by the key-holder. Five (5) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
P) The wearer cannot refuse anything from The List which is agreed upon or is willing to try. Six (6) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
Q) The wearer in not allowed to disobeying anything that the key-holder requests relating to Domestic Discipline or being in a Female Led Relationship that has been agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
R) The wearers must pickup his clothes every morning and place them in the closet. Two (2) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
S) The wearer will help with household chores which are agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
T) The wearer cannot refuse sexually servicing the key-holder or Her friends. Seven (7) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
U) The wearer cannot remove the chastity belt without permission unless already noted in this Agreement. Four (4) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
V) The wearer cannot refuse the rules in Agreement or the The Dominate Wife Rulebook which were agreed upon. The number of swats, on each ass cheek per infraction, can vary based on the infraction(s) that are listed in the Infraction Chart.
W) The key-holder can require the wearer to address Her with a dominate title like Mistress, HOH, Hot Wife or Mama. Three (3) swats on each ass cheek per infractions.
X) The wearer must wear panties, bras and/or stockings when requested. Eight (8) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
Y) The wearer must assist and participate with Hot Wifing when requested. Twelve (12) swats on each ass cheek per infraction.
10. Domestic:
A) The wearer retains all financial decisions as it was before the Agreement was signed.
B) Both the key-holder and the wearer will continue to perform households’ duties as it was before the Agreement was signed.
C) The wearer does not have to wear the chastity belt when traveling, if clothes or situation does not permit.
D) The submissive sissy does not have to wear panties, bra and/or stockings if the situation does not allow. Any other time, the sissy must wear a chastity belt and panties while occasionally be required to wear stockings under clothes. If instructed by the Mistress, the sissy can be required to wear lingerie to bed.
11. Cancellation of the Agreement:
A) Only the key-holder can request cancellation of the Agreement. The wearer never can request cancelation.
B) The key-holder or the wearer can request modifications to the Agreement. It is the key-holder’s right to accept or deny the wearer’s request.
C) The Agreement can be altered when agreed upon by the key-holder and the wearer. Once the Agreement is signed the new rule(s) take immediate effect.
12. Length of the Agreement:
There is no determination on the maximum duration of the Agreement. It means that this Agreement may be valid for an indefinite period of time. However, the minimum duration of this Agreement shall be no less than six (6) months from the latest date signed below. During this time frame, the key-holder will help the wearer with chastity, emasculation, Domestic Discipline and being in a Female Led Relationship. The wearer shall help the key-holder with domination, punishment, Hot Wife, sissy emasculation, Domestic Discipline and being in a Female Led Relationship.
Both _______________________ as the key-holder and _______________________ as the wearer agreed on all the above sections. Upon signing of Agreement the wearer is to immediately secure said chastity belt and hand over keys to Mistress. Terms of this Agreement commence upon transfer of keys.
The key-holder: signed________________________________________ Date: ____________________
The wearer: signed_________
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