Mantras

It's no secret that your mind is the most powerful erogenous zone, right? Well I started a practice a few years back that has really helped me stay in the moment whilst engaged in some good ol' fucking. Mantras. A meaningful phrase said over and over in a rhythmic cycle. It can take some practice, but honestly it can really ground you to some experiences, sexual or otherwise. You don't even have to say it aloud, you can just repeat it in your mind (in case your partner isn't into you muttering during the act!). My latest one helps get me warmed up for some dick-time. It came to me randomly as a thing I said to a partner who was a little nervous. His nerves made me pretty horny, and wanted him to know what I was all about so I leaned in, grasped and gently stoked his cock and said to him 'I want you to make love to my mouth, and destroy my pussy'.

After that he pretty much knew my deal, and we had some pretty hot breathy sex. We'll say 3/4 of the time was some deep sensual oral, then followed by a quick bout of jack-hammering my hips until he came. After that I've taken to saying it, affirmation style to mirrors, and in my head while we're warming up.

Find a saying, and go over it rhythmically maybe 50 times, you'll really lock in to your desire, and I definitely felt e=verything much more deeply!

~Alana
p.s. anyone reading this know how to post pics in these? can't seem to find the right way!