That mother and son made many videos. Hard to find after so many years. And to my knowledge have never been identified correctly. But, I do see them pop up now and then, often with different titles, but not always.
I have known both boys and women tell me of unforgettable experiences like you mention kumquat. All hated it ending. Some though, were mom son experiences and are still going strong 20 plus years later. Our society looks down on boys with young or old women, but every experience I have ever known about turned out very well with no complaints from anyone.